Self Directed

As I watched the light gradually fade from my child's eyes with each passing school day, I knew a change was necessary. This episode chronicles Sue's own metamorphosis from a traditional suburban parent trapped within the confines of the schooling system to a fervent unschooling evangelist.

Sue bravely shares the trials and triumphs of her journey, offering a raw and insightful look at the necessity of preserving a child's innate curiosity and zest for learning that conventional schooling often fails to protect.

Sue Patterson, a homeschooling mom with three grown “children” and nearly 30 years of experience, is also an author, unschooling coach, and podcaster. She helps families who are unhappy with their educational situations and shows them how learning more about unschooling will help.

She is the human behind Unschooling Mom2Mom, available on all the social media platforms and offers courses, guides, group coaching programs, and private coaching.

🗓️ Recorded March 22nd, 2024. 📍@ The Lovetts, Fresno, California, United States

▬ Connect with Sue Patterson  ▬

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/unschoolingMom2Mom
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/UnschoolingMom2Mom
• YouTube Channel: www.YouTube.com/c/UnschoolingMom2Mom 
• Unschooling Mom2Mom Podcast: http://www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com/podcast
• Creating Confidence Membership Group: http://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/membership 
• Jumping Into Unschooling Course: https://suepatterson-unschooling.thinkific.com/courses/jumping-into-unschooling
• Learning Math WITHOUT Curriculum: https://suepatterson-unschooling.thinkific.com/courses/unschooling-math
• Guides, Calendars, Ebooks: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/store/
• Private Coaching: http://www.suepatterson.as.me
• http://www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com/unschooling-support

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Watching my children one lazy afternoon, unburdened by timetables and homework, I was struck by their innate curiosity. We embrace and celebrate this very authenticity in our little ones in our latest podcast episode. With my fellow wise women Carla, Sarah, and Luna, we weave a conversation around the unschooling movement—a radical shift from traditional education that nurtures a child’s natural inclination towards learning. We delve into the essence of childhood, free from the assembly line of conventional schooling, where learning rhythms are as unique as each child.

Unschooling isn't just an educational choice but a lifestyle reverberating through family dynamics and community interactions. In this podcast, we illustrate the profound autonomy that unschooling can cultivate. Beyond the freedom from a Monday-to-Friday schedule, unschooling challenges us to realign our perspective on what growth and development truly mean—recognizing the inherent brilliance in every child. We explore the societal implications of this shift, envisioning a future where each learning journey's uniqueness is respected and cherished.

Yet, this path is not without its obstacles. The art of unschooling requires parents to shed layers of ingrained educational paradigms—a process we refer to as 'deschooling'. Our discussion touches on the challenges of navigating family life when traditional parenting scripts are set aside. From redefining 'talking back' to simply 'talking' to the deep bonds formed through natural authority, we share our experiences of reshaping family dynamics. As we wrap up our episode, we leave our listeners contemplating the diversity within the unschooling community, encouraging a future of education crafted through trust, autonomy, and the individual brilliance of each child.

🗓️ Recorded March 30th, 2024. 📍@ The Lovetts, Fresno, California, United States

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Luna Maj Vestergaard: 

• https://altomunschooling.dk/
• https://www.instagram.com/lunamajvestergaard/
• https://www.facebook.com/lunamajvestergaard

Carla Martinez: 

• https://planetaworldschool.com/
• https://www.instagram.com/ligronesenruta/
• https://www.facebook.com/ligronesenruta

Sara Beale

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When the world we've carefully crafted for our children comes into full bloom, it's nothing short of magical. 

Rachel Rainbolt joined us to share the rich tapestry of her family's journey through attachment parenting to the liberating philosophy of unschooling. 

Her reflections give us a window into how her children flourished as they pursued their passions, transitioning into traditional education with the resilience and self-reliance that unschooling fostered. 

As the Rainbolts' full-time traveling lifestyle came to a halt due to the pandemic, Rachel shares about the silver linings found in the quiet spaces of change and the anticipation of new beginnings as her children embark on their unique paths.

🗓️ Recorded March 21st, 2024. 📍@ The Lovetts, Fresno, California, United States

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• https://sagefamily.com/
• https://sagefamily.com/podcast
• https://www.instagram.com/sage.family/
• https://www.facebook.com/sagefamilies 

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We celebrate the 20th anniversary of Dr. Gordon Neufeld's seminal book, "Hold On To Your Kids: Why Parents Matter More Than Peers," which he co-wrote with Dr. Gabor Maté. 

Gordon's work has transformed our understanding of child development through the lens of parental attachment.  In this episode, Gordon shares the critical importance of maintaining strong, nurturing connections between parents and children. His insights delve into the complex dynamics of family and educational systems, advocating for a balance between togetherness and individuality and challenging prevailing attitudes toward parenting and education.

Throughout our discussion, Dr. Neufeld emphasizes the intrinsic power of parental intuition and the need for parents to trust in their inherent capabilities to guide and support their children through life's challenges. We explore the concept of cascading care, highlighting the necessity of a supportive community in fostering resilient and emotionally healthy children. The episode addresses pressing issues such as the impact of societal pressures on adolescents, the debate over homeschooling versus traditional schooling, and the role of government in family life.

Dr. Neufeld's passion for enhancing the parent-child relationship shines as he speaks about the transformative courses and initiatives undertaken by the Neufeld Institute to empower parents and professionals worldwide. This conversation reflects Dr. Neufeld's groundbreaking work and a forward-looking dialogue on cultivating deeper connections and a more supportive societal framework for the benefit of children and families everywhere. Whether you're a parent, educator, or someone interested in the profound impact of love and attachment, this episode offers invaluable perspectives and a hopeful vision for the future of parenting.

🗓️ Recorded March 28th, 2024. 📍 San Francisco, United States

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https://neufeldinstitute.org/
https://www.facebook.com/NeufeldInstitute
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https://neufeldinstitute.org/conference-2024/
https://www.youtube.com/@neufeldmedia 

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Do you respect yourself and the places you spend time in? Jesper shares his own journey from skepticism to "Hey, that is cool." When Jesper first heard about feng shui, he thought it was a weird mumbo jumbo since he had learned to love it. It is a great way to use the energy in your house. For this episode, we have invited Feng Shui expert Patricia Lohan, and we will explore the fascinating world of Feng Shui. This ancient practice harmonizes living spaces to promote balance and energy flow.

Patricia shares her wisdom on infusing joy into decluttering and its impact on areas like wealth and well-being. Listen in as we uncover the philosophical roots of Feng Shui in Taoism and how these principles can lead to improved health, wealth, and harmony in modern living. Dive into the practical side of Feng Shui with us as we tackle the unique challenges of small living spaces and unconventional home layouts.

Patricia provides invaluable tips on incorporating the five elements to enhance the prosperity area of a home and manage invisible energies for a harmonious environment. She even addresses the skeptics (like Jesper), acknowledging their doubts while presenting a structured, empirical approach to Feng Shui that has converted many into believers after experiencing positive changes in their own lives.

Discover the power of creating a sacred space, whether you're living in a van or hopping between Airbnb locations, and how this practice can elevate your transient living experience.

If you want to learn more from Patricia, then you can find a wealth of resources, including her mini-course, 'Feng Shui 101,' her book 'A Happy Home,' and her podcast 'Powerhouse Feng Shui,' on her website. See the links below.

Tune in, get inspired, and let's start shaping a more harmonious future together.

Connect with Patricia Lohan

• https://patricialohan.com
• https://www.facebook.com/groups/powerhousefengshui 
• https://www.instagram.com/powerhousefengshui/ 
• https://patricialohan.com/podcast-live-your-dreams-awake/

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In this special Ask Us Anything episode, we welcome back Sam KingDavis, the renowned street artist from Prague whom we interviewed for episode #17. 

Sam had many questions about unschooling, so we invited him to ask us anything for this episode. 

Together with Sam, we embark on a detailed exploration of how unschooling impacts socialization, family dynamics, and child development. This discussion delves into the unique social experiences of unschooled children compared to those in traditional settings, emphasizing the importance of cultivating a supportive social network and the enriched interactions that come with learning outside conventional classrooms.

We share insights into the joys and challenges of guiding our children through their learning journeys without the confines of traditional education. This includes navigating legal requirements and emphasizing life skills such as financial literacy and emotional intelligence. The episode also highlights the profound family bonds that grow stronger without daily separations and the personal sacrifices involved in committing to an unschooling path.

Closing with a reflection on the transformative power of unschooling, we discuss its ability to foster autonomy and self-driven learning, moving away from the dependency on external validation that often comes with conventional schooling. Inspired by Sam's curiosity and our experiences, this conversation offers a compelling look at the potential of unschooling to reshape education and family life.

 Join us for this insightful exploration into unschooling, guided by Sam's engaging questions and our shared journey toward a more personalized and fulfilling approach to learning.

Podcast episode mentioned in this episode

• #34 Erika Davis-Pitre | Homeschooling as an Answer to Race-Based Educational Inequalities
• #51 Akilah S. Richards | Raising Free People - Unschooling from a Black Perspective
• #56 Jessica Jacobs | Dare to Innovate and Transcend Cultural Hegemony

Connect with Samuel KingDavis

• Social Media: Instagram
• Event Booking Website: www.kingdavisart.com
• Online Classes: Learn Caricature

🗓️ Recorded January 27th, 2024. 📍Playa Dorada, Lengüeta Arenosa, Baja California, Mexico

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Join us for a riveting episode that journeys into the heart of Indigenous wisdom with Don Trent Jacobs, known affectionately as Four Arrows, a beacon of Lakota teachings and a profound advocate for American Indian rights. Four Arrows invites us into his world, sharing the story behind his evocative Lakota name, Wahinkpe Topa, and how it has guided his journey through life, education, and activism. His tales are a testament to the deep connection with Earth's rhythms and the transformative insights from Indigenous worldviews.

Delve into a conversation that spans the vast landscapes of personal autonomy, counter-hegemonic education, and the pivotal moments that have defined Four Arrows' path, including a life-altering near-death experience. Explore the critical contrasts between Western and Indigenous perspectives on our relationship with the natural world, education, and societal structures, revealing how these views shape our learning paths and personal freedom.

We discuss the integration of eco-conscious living in both rural and urban settings, igniting curiosity for a life in harmony with nature.

The conversation takes a deeper dive into the untold stories of historical figures like Helen Keller, challenging us to rethink our education system and the importance of recognizing natural entities as legal persons. Four Arrows shares his courageous battle with Non-Hodgkin's lymphoma, highlighting nature's healing powers and the significance of spiritual existence.

This episode, wrapped in the resilience and spiritual beauty of the human spirit, invites you to discover the principle of "enoughness" and the enduring beauty found amidst life's trials. Tune in for an enlightening exploration that promises to shift your perspective and stir your soul.

Episode links

• The Shamans Message #1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=siI8vxZZK5w
• The Shamans Message #2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K2lrZYJctuo
• The Shamans Message #3: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JW_Mu8GN4T0 
• Book by Four Arrows: https://www.fourarrowsbooks.com/ 

🗓️ Recorded January 26th, 2024. 📍Playa Dorada, Lengüeta Arenosa, Baja California, Mexico

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Jesper met Dr. Karin Lubin and Randy Crutcher when he worked as the marketing director for The Passion Test. Working on this wonderful project has been a life-changing journey of finding and following our true passions. Cecilie and Jesper probably wouldn't be full-time travelers without The Passion Test. It's life-changing—go check it out.

This episode is very cozy. It is a reuniting of long-time friends. Together, we explore what Karin and Randy are up to today. The focus is on passion and health. We share stories of personal evolution and turning to health and wellness, shedding light on the struggles and victories of establishing better habits.

From daily runs to significant weight loss and mental clarity, our experiences offer encouragement to those aspiring to prioritize wellness in their life's journey. Discover the importance of consistency, the adaptation to our changing bodily needs, and the joy of recognizing personal progress.

With a mix of humor and wisdom, we compare our diverse health strategies and share resources to support your own journey toward vitality.

This episode is a heartening exploration of making incremental, meaningful changes toward our best selves. Tune in for an educational and uplifting exchange that celebrates the beauty of personal growth and self-care.

🗓️ Recorded January 23rd, 2024. 📍Playa Dorada, Lengüeta Arenosa, Baja California, Mexico

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• Website: https://drkarinlubin.com
• Exercise for Health Community: https://drkarinlubin.com/exercise-for-health/
• Nutrition: https://drkarinlubin.com/faster-way/

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When Lucy AitkenRead swapped the serenity of her yurt for the lively hum of town life, it wasn't just a change of scenery—it was a pivotal shift in her family's journey. Our conversation with Lucy delves into how this move, prompted by a craving for community and connection, wasn't solely for her children's benefit. It also marked a turning point in her own healing process, intertwining the principles of unschooling with the intricate dance of parental self-discovery. Throughout this episode, we peel back the layers of how our own growth as parents deeply influences the unschooled environment, fostering a space where learning and growth can flourish organically for our entire families.

This episode takes you through the ebbs and flows of self-development, where the practicalities of daily life meet the profound. We explore the 'rhythm method' of healing and the wisdom in embracing the cycles of personal growth, finding spirituality in the simplicity of peanut butter sandwiches, and the mindfulness of our everyday tasks. It's about discovering the extraordinary within the ordinary and understanding that our spiritual journey can be rooted in the very essence of our day-to-day existence. Together with Lucy, we discuss how these subtle shifts in perception can transform not just our approach to unschooling but the way we navigate all facets of our life.

Embracing life's seasons and the transformations that come with them, this episode is a heart-to-heart on the different 'faces' we encounter. We share personal narratives of self-improvement, from conquering annoyance to making life-altering decisions like quitting drinking, and consider how these choices reflect in our relationships and well-being. 

🗓️ Recorded January 22nd, 2024. 📍Playa Dorada, Lengüeta Arenosa, Baja California, Mexico

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• Unschooling course: https://discolearning.com 
• Blog: https://lulastic.co.uk 
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LulasticAndTheHippyshake 
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lucy_aitkenread 

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Ditch School, where unschooling meets early college, challenging educational norms. Jessica Jacobs is the founder of Ditch School. Jessica's sons' quest for knowledge led them beyond the confines of traditional schooling to embrace unschooling, paired with early college experiences. She challenges the status quo, advocating for education that aligns with a child’s curiosity and passion rather than rigid curricula.

Our discussion sheds light on the flexibility and innovation at the heart of Ditch School, offering insights into how personalized learning paths can lead to remarkable outcomes. Jessica also touches on the practicalities of blending unschooling with academic goals, the importance of mentorship, and fostering a community where children can thrive on their own terms.

At Ditchschool, students are empowered to lead their learning journeys, exploring beyond textbooks to find their passions and potential in the real world.

🗓️ Recorded January 21st, 2024. 📍Playa Dorada, Lengüeta Arenosa, Baja California, Mexico

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• https://www.ditchschool.org/ 
• https://www.petalslearningcommunity.org/

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