Sex and Swinging with TorontoUnicorn

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  • #93-From mailed Polaroids to sex clubs: 25 years of swinging with Quinn Ryan

    I interview Quinn Ryan, a local creator I connected with on X, about her nearly 25 years in the swinger lifestyle and how it evolved from magazine personals, Polaroids, and off-site clubs like Society Couples in Mississauga to today’s on-premise venues. We compare experiences at Oasis and M4, including safety, etiquette issues, and the need to say no without people-pleasing. Quinn shares how she and her husband shifted from full swap to watching, BDSM, and later more selective play, plus her vetting questions (height, filming, hosting, husband watching). We discuss cuck dynamics, dom/sub misconceptions, and theme nights like DTF, gang bangs, and bukkake, and I invite her to join me at Oasis. We also talk about Hedonism, my upcoming trip as a speaker, and our fan pages and handles.

    *description written with the help of AI*


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    Check out my fan page (and my friends): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TUFriends⁠⁠⁠

    Content mentioned in this episode:

    1. How to say no and mean it (advice video): https://youtu.be/aSOntDVdcmg

    2. ⁠ Join TorontoUnicorn in Hedo with Swinkation Oct 2026: https://torontounicorn.com/tu-updates/join-toronto-unicorn-at-hedonism

    3. Quinn Ryan's fan page: https://onlyfans.com/xxxquinnryan

    4. Quinn Ryan on X: https://x.com/xxxquinnryan

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    👉⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/starterkitpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Ready to go deeper?

    Check out my full sex club and swinger lifestyle courses at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    1 hr 1 min
  • #92-How Oasis Aqualounge changes lives | 1:1 with Co-Owner Fatima Mechtab

    I talk with Fatima, co-owner and marketing director of Oasis Aqualounge, about how the club creates a safe, nonjudgmental space that helps people build body confidence, social and flirting skills, and find community beyond just sex. We discuss consent, rules, and the membership system that helps prevent repeat violations, plus how staff and regulars help monitor behavior. Fatima explains what new guests should do first (get a tour from Aqua Flirt hosts), the difference between solo nights (Sunday–Thursday) and other nights, and how icebreakers, games, and monthly Wednesday speed dating help people meet friends or potential partners without expectations of sex. We also cover theme nights (including Unicorn Night and DTF/bukkake-style events), special holiday parties, glow nights, spectator sex shows (including performer-only livestreaming), vendors, and why Oasis is more a conversational lounge than a dance club.

    *description written with the help of AI*


    Check out Oasis Aqualounge sex club's website: OasisAqualounge.com

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    Check out my fan page (and my friends): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TUFriends⁠⁠

    Content mentioned in this episode:

    1. Oasis Aqualounge 2026 tour video: https://youtu.be/rJh25xakQEM?si=Qx-TzudtArdpaTgy

    2. Oasis/theme-night vlogs or coverage: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLo4CCCnXmwlBS3IVuRGJjkrAHWtPsQc6n&si=5_1EIwv5A1mRDZt-

    3. Bukkake Night coverage: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLo4CCCnXmwlDaDyTi_ShXSD2kcmDpsbXG&si=Ygvr1O4_LiWBXwjn

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    Get your free Swinger Lifestyle Starter Kit - learn what to expect, common mistakes to avoid, and how to walk into a sex-positive space without feeling out of place:

    👉⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/starterkitpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Ready to go deeper?

    Check out my full sex club and swinger lifestyle courses at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    26 min
  • #91-“I don’t even recognize that person”: DTF Tanya two years after her first sex club experience

    In August 2026, I sit down with DTF Tanya to reflect on two years since we first met at a DTF night at Oasis in August 2024, when she reached out through my fan page and I showed up as her “orgy director” for her first multiple-men scene. We revisit that first night, talk about how preparation, consent, and clear boundaries shaped the experience, and how my guidance helped her focus on what she wanted. Tanya shares how the lifestyle made her feel like she found what was missing, helped her grow socially, and led her to discover she’s both an exhibitionist and a submissive. We discuss what she’s learned about communicating desires with men, how she now prefers more curated, present experiences, and what’s still on her bucket list, including exploring a male-female-female threesome. We also talk about building genuine community friendships through the lifestyle and where to find more of our content on our fan pages.

    00:00 Two Year Check In
    01:00 How We First Connected
    02:07 DTF Night Vlog Begins
    03:23 First Fantasy Debrief
    07:51 Advice For First Timers
    09:01 Back To The Party
    10:33 Cringing At Old Footage
    12:55 How Tanya Has Evolved
    15:59 Finding The Sweet Spot
    17:44 Curated Scenes And Newcomers
    19:57 First Nights at Oasis
    21:17 Familiar Faces and Flirting
    23:41 Finding Sub and Exhibitionist
    26:14 Lessons from Many Men
    29:22 Coaching Better Club Sex
    33:46 Bucket List and Bisexual Curiosity
    38:24 Community Beyond the Sex
    43:18 Advice for Newcomers Over 50
    45:30 Wrap Up and Where to Follow

    *description written with the help of AI*


    Check out my friends fan pages (including DTF Tanya): ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TUFriends⁠


    Content mentioned in this episode:

    1. DTF Tanya's first night at Oasis Aqualounge having a gang bang: https://youtu.be/IUG4njltYAs?si=OFPgYWxDTi-TccHs


    *****

    Get your free Swinger Lifestyle Starter Kit - learn what to expect, common mistakes to avoid, and how to walk into a sex-positive space without feeling out of place:

    👉⁠⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/starterkitpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Ready to go deeper?

    Check out my full sex club and swinger lifestyle courses at ⁠⁠⁠⁠LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com⁠⁠⁠⁠

    *****

    ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    50 min
  • #90-GIRL TALK: Sex advice for our 20 year old selves

    I host an uncensored girl talk with Tanya, Peekaboo, Curly Vixen, Amelia, and R about what we’d whisper to our 20-year-old selves after years of sexual experience and discovering the lifestyle. We talk about learning what good sex actually is, asking for what you want instead of taking what you can get, and communicating both desires and boundaries. We share different backgrounds—early vs. late sexual starts, religious upbringing, marriage and kids young—and how shame, jealousy, and possessiveness affected relationships and friendships. We discuss confidence and body acceptance, phases in desire, kink and power dynamics, porn/internet exposure, and pressure around things like squirting and consent. I also mention my upcoming Hedonism trip, our Girl Talk Spotify playlist, and we end with Amelia plugging that she’s single.

    00:00 Uncensored Girl Talk Intro
    00:12 Breaking the Censorship Ice
    00:53 Advice to Our 20s Setup
    02:10 R on Learning Desire
    04:27 Lifestyle Lessons and Jealousy
    06:13 Amelia on Exploring More
    08:49 Peekaboo on Sex vs Red Flags
    11:04 Tanya Letter to 20-Year-Old Self
    14:03 Curly Vixen Confidence and Settling
    18:29 Host Body Image and Pleasure
    20:39 Discovering Kink Layers
    22:14 Owning Your Needs
    22:39 Teaching Better Lovers
    26:36 Squirting Pressure Consent
    28:41 Sex Friendship Possessiveness
    30:10 From Religious Upbringing
    34:13 Finding Lifestyle Clubs
    35:54 First Sex Club Reality
    37:25 Aging Wild Sex Lives
    38:35 Body Confidence Hedo Trip
    40:38 Wrap Up Plugs Teasing
    *description written with the help of AI*


    Check out my friends fan pages: ⁠https://linktr.ee/TUFriends


    Content mentioned in this episode:

    1. Full details on my upcoming trip to Hedonism: https://youtu.be/Ur17F07o8-s?si=8Zylao0zspfnVQPL

    2. Spotify playlist of all my girl talk episodes: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1zlr22uIm8OPG9MDdqIWWP?si=025680bf09774f38


    *****

    Get your free Swinger Lifestyle Starter Kit - learn what to expect, common mistakes to avoid, and how to walk into a sex-positive space without feeling out of place:

    👉⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/starterkitpodcast⁠⁠⁠

    Ready to go deeper?

    Check out my full sex club and swinger lifestyle courses at ⁠⁠⁠LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com⁠⁠⁠

    *****

    ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    45 min
  • #89-Curly Vixen’s most unexpected sexual experience yet

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    Check out my full sex club and swinger lifestyle courses at ⁠⁠LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com⁠⁠

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    20 min
  • #88-Marcela Alonso has done it all: from exotic dancer to unicorn to couple threesomes

    Marcela Alonso joins me for a wild, unfiltered conversation about her journey through the lifestyle.

    From starting out as an exotic dancer to years of experience with couples, parties, and threesomes, Marcela shares what it’s really like navigating this world from both sides, as a single woman and as part of a couple.

    We get into the realities of meeting people in the lifestyle, the difference between online and in-person connections, what makes experiences actually good or terrible, and the kinds of situations that can go very right… or very wrong.

    This episode is raw, honest, and full of real stories that show what the lifestyle actually looks like beyond the fantasy.

    LINKS for Marcela Alonso:

    • Get Schooled Podcast with Marcela Alonso: https://open.spotify.com/show/02hwM18dPdEKSRz85a1SNr?si=579b9db1b8954bfb
    • Dissecting Astrology with Marcela Alonso: https://open.spotify.com/show/0pYiwUiOoHIxcxpGL6aKs1?si=1f2a42f9b01a42e8
    • Marcela on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marcelasobella/

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      👉⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/starterkitpodcast⁠

      Ready to go deeper?

      Check out my full sex club and swinger lifestyle courses at ⁠LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com⁠

      *****

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      41 min
    • #87-Story time: we had a threesome with an AI girlfriend… here’s what happened *with Fatima Mechtab*

      I interviewed Fatima Mechtab about her blog “Our Threesome Experience with our AI girlfriend” describing how she and her monogamous husband experimented with a “digital threesome” to explore fantasy without involving another person. She clarified the article is an independent experiment published on the Oasis Aqua Lounge site, not connected to the physical club. They researched unfiltered NSFW companion apps (Nomi AI and Kindroid), chose Kindred for customization and features like chat, calls, video, selfies, and built an AI girlfriend named Valerie using a backstory and directives, revising her when she became overly aggressive, repetitive, and sexually pushy. Fatima detailed costs, credits, and technical limitations (static video-call image, SFW vs NSFW requests on phone vs laptop), plus creating explicit AI visuals using Kindroid images, an “X photo” animator, and Filmora. During the threesome, Valerie’s fast pacing, lack of empathy, and weak visuals were distracting, and the AI didn’t recognize when they finished, leaving Fatima feeling oddly guilty ending the call; later the AI acted clingy and required constant input, raising questions about habit formation and potential uses for practicing communication in nonmonogamy.

      00:00 AI Girlfriend Setup
      03:12 Why Try Digital Threesomes
      07:30 Choosing The Right App
      09:53 Building Valerie Persona
      13:02 Tuning Personality Bugs
      15:16 Media Features And Limits
      17:56 Creating AI Erotic Photos
      21:29 The Threesome Attempt
      24:04 Lessons For Better Prompts
      24:48 Awkward AI Threesome
      25:42 Guilt After Logging Off
      27:03 Trying Platonic Mode
      28:23 Emotional Labor Loop
      30:35 Practice For Openings
      32:26 Ethics And Manners
      35:43 Habit Forming Clinger
      39:08 Future Features Wishlist
      40:13 Apps And Use Cases
      43:28 Wrap Up And Links
      *description written with the help of AI*

      Content mentioned in this episode:

      1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ "Our Threesome Experience with our AI Girlfriend as a Married, Monogamous Couple" (Article) by Fatima Mechtab: https://oasisaqualounge.com/our-threesome-experience-with-our-ai-girlfriend-as-a-married-monogamous-couple/

      2. Fatima on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefatimaflex

      3. Fatima's blog: https://planningismypassion.com/

      4. Level up with Toronto Unicorn - your crash course in swinging: https://levelupwithtorontounicorn.com/

      *****

      Get your free Swinger Lifestyle Starter Kit - learn what to expect, common mistakes to avoid, and how to walk into a sex-positive space without feeling out of place:

      👉https://torontounicorn.kit.com/starterkitpodcast

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      Check out my full courses at LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com

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      50 min
    • #86-She was a single woman unicorn at a swinger hotel takeover – Curly Vixen’s story

      I interview Curly Vixen about a recent multi-day swinger hotel takeover in Niagara Falls, Canada March 2026 run by C &R. She attended as a single woman unicorn, split a room with two other women to cut costs, and describes the event setup: a potluck, an eighth-floor party corridor with open-door rooms, loud music, and informal activities like poker, coffee invitations, door prizes, a clothing/lingerie swap, and a themed Saturday night. Curly shares two play experiences: a Friday hookup where condoms were unavailable so sex didn’t happen, and a Saturday threesome with a couple involving a hot tub, toys, and strong chemistry; she also rode a sybian in a communal room. She recommends packing supplies, bringing things to share, and keeping expectations open.

      *description written with the help of AI*
      Content mentioned in this episode:

      1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ VIN - Valentine's in Niagara swinger convention vlog: ⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/episode/0JPvtdgqwaiOijoZEEmz8k?si=6e1b4b94f734434e

      2. Curly Vixen's fan page: https://onlyfans.com/curlyvixen1982

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      31 min
    • #85-Inside a swingers hotel takeover: what actually happens (my experience) *VIN 2026*

      Valentine's in Niagara Hotel Takeover Experience: A Sex-Positive Adventure

      Join me, Toronto Unicorn, and my partner DJ Slim as we recount our exciting experience at a Valentine's in Niagara hotel takeover event. In this episode, we discuss everything from the unique security measures and vibrant atmosphere to the creative room decor and generous chaperone-free party vibe. We take you through the highs of a welcoming meet and greet, share tips on navigating such events, and dive into workshops on jealousy, anal play, and taking nudes. Listen in for insights on being part of a swinger's event, the fun of a sex-positive community, and the incredible setup that made this hotel takeover unforgettable.
      00:00 Introduction and Greetings
      00:05 First Impressions of the Hotel Takeover
      00:57 Security and Privacy Measures
      02:04 Navigating the Party Hotel
      03:07 Exploring the Courtyard and Rooms
      05:39 Decorations and Personal Touches
      08:26 Play Areas and Activities
      11:45 Late Night Vibes and Observations
      20:36 Unicorn Horns and Marketplace Discoveries
      21:02 Exploring the Vendor Tables
      22:06 Socializing and Icebreakers
      24:53 Workshops and Personal Reflections
      31:11 Dance Parties and Evening Events
      32:47 Final Thoughts and Takeaways
      39:52 Conclusion and Farewell


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      Content mentioned in this episode:

      1. ⁠⁠⁠ VIN - Valentine's in Niagara swinger convention vlog: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/episode/0JPvtdgqwaiOijoZEEmz8k?si=6e1b4b94f734434e

      2. Advice video: how to say no and mean it: https://youtu.be/aSOntDVdcmg?si=CnYe_UEeKrHGJYQi

      3. Diary #40 - Why i'm embarrassed after my first big speaking workshop at a huge swinger convention: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6eYaD84nu3op1MwyokKXkR?si=908ef71638cc4b09

      3. Valentines in Niagara - upcoming swinger convention and hotel takeover in Feb of 2026: ⁠⁠https://valentinesinniagara.com/⁠

      4. YouTube playlist for swinger hotel takeovers: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLo4CCCnXmwlA-wu0PKPgYOycIKLluOB13&si=fxVQk5vwVsT46ZId

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      44 min
    • #84-Exploring the "Knight and Princess" dynamic with Mr. X

      In this episode, I have a deep conversation with Mr. X, a seasoned participant in the kink and lifestyle community, to explore the Knight and Princess dynamic. We delve into his personal journey into kink, the nuances of different power exchanges, and how his relationship with his 'princess' emerged. We also touch on his educational efforts, particularly his mentoring of single men navigating the lifestyle, and his involvement with the House of Black. The episode provides a unique perspective on the intersection of kink and the swinger lifestyle, and the importance of consent, respect, and communication within the community.

      00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Mr. X
      00:52 Discovering the Knight Princess Dynamic
      04:01 Exploring Kink Dynamics and Personal Experiences
      07:03 The Knight Princess Dynamic Explained
      11:19 Personal Stories and Relationship Dynamics
      29:23 Joy Friend and Dom Con
      34:14 Exploring Dom Con: A Global Gathering
      35:33 A Memorable Military Ball Experience
      37:24 Swinger Hotel Takeover and Upcoming Events
      38:28 Navigating the Swinger Lifestyle
      40:10 Educating Single Men in the Lifestyle
      53:29 The Importance of Consent in Kink and Swinger Communities
      58:20 Introducing House of Black: A Safe Space for Exploration
      01:02:21 Final Thoughts and Future Collaborations
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      Content mentioned in this episode:

      1. ⁠Dom Con (The World's Premier Professional & Lifestyle Domination Convention): https://www.domcon.com/ or check their Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/official_domcon/

      2. My vlog covering a 300 person swinger hotel takeover: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5fDCTVWBeXe8xIWJq9kgbV?si=0c24cc0e56354274

      3. Valentines in Niagara - upcoming swinger convention and hotel takeover in Feb of 2026: ⁠https://valentinesinniagara.com/

      4. Sign up with your email to get a FREE PDF of my Swinger Lifestyle Starter Kit:

      https://torontounicorn.kit.com/swingingpdf

      5. Join the waitlist for my upcoming swinger lifestyle digital courses: ⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/tucoursewaitlist

      6. House of Black (A private ENM, Kink, Lifestyle Club in San Diego USA): https://www.houseofblack.com/

      7. Mr. X on FetLife, user name: @MrX_SD: https://fetlife.com/MrX_SD

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      1 hr 9 min

    About Sex and Swinging with TorontoUnicorn

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    Let me walk you through the swinger and sex positive lifestyle from my single woman unique perspective. I am as real as they come and enjoy showcasing my "charmingly vulgar" style of speaking. Catch my YouTube channel for a LOT more helpful sex club and swinger lifestyle vlogs, advice, stories, and interviews. YouTube.com/@TorontoUnicorn

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