She Cums First

So...here's the question. "Why do some men feel intimidated when a woman requests sex toys to be used in bed?" There are many reasons. I think it has more to do with ego versus "feeling replaced," which is the easy answer.

Different versions of this question appeared in my inbox. This is a serious question for many women who are dealing with this problem.  I came up with a couple of reasons.  Why do you think men are not doing this? 

In many cases, the partner is there going through various stages with his or her partner's new diagnosis, pre-treatment, surgery and post-treatment life.  What can the partner do to help?  What emotions are the partners going through?

A new question arrived from a young lady asking why do guys like to have their semen swallowed? Listen to my podcast to hear my response.  Feel free to add your own answer in the comment section below.

In a companion article on bladdercancer.net, I tell men how to exercise and strengthen their pelvic floor muscles by doing Kegel exercises. (A possible side effect is stronger orgasms!) Enjoy...

Based on my article posted in prostatecancer.net, I believe men can relearn what it means to be sexual and without being penis-focused.

A woman asked if it's rude not to tell her lover she's on birth control? Personally, I think its none of his business.  Listen to my response and leave a comment below. 

In this podcast, I focused on the emotional and psychological side effects related to Prostate Cancer and Sexual Health.

Sex is actually very good for you. Lets count the ways…

This is just a little bit about me and why I like to write, talk and educate on the Prostate Cancer, Bladder Cancer and Sexual Health.