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For the 203rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes "Alice" for a non-monogamy update.

"Alice" is back on the podcast to spill the tea on her decade-plus of polyamorous expertise. From her first intentional poly relationship in 2012 to swinging, kink play, and her current long-term setups with her husband "Ted" and her partner "Bob," "Alice" is dishing on it all. We’re also diving into her top tips for navigating the wild world of the Feeld app and why honest communication is the real MVP of non-monogamy.

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For the 202nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Allison Moon, sex educator and author of "Girl Sex 101" and "Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex."

Allison helps you master the art of pleasuring vulva owners with simple yet effective hand and oral sex techniques. We explore the importance of communication, understanding anatomy, and tuning into your partner’s body language and reactions. We also dive into the topic of fisting—offering beginner-friendly tips and debunking common misconceptions. Plus, Allison shares advice on dating and sleeping around without being a (non-gendered) dick about it. Consider this your no-nonsense guide to great sex and embracing your ethical slut era—while keeping everything above board with your partner(s).

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For the 201st episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak takes the hot seat in an interview with Star Tribune columnist Laura Yuen. Courtney opens up about her journey from identifying as child-free to seriously considering motherhood—what changed, why her parents play a pivotal role in her decision, and how the ticking clock of fertility has reshaped her thinking. This candid conversation explores career ambition, fence-sitting, the modern-day analysis paralysis that comes with having so many choices, and the evolving cultural dialogue around being child-free.

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For the 200th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak does something a little bit different...

To celebrate 200 episodes of Private Parts Unknown, I’m sharing something special—my stand-up comedy! This milestone episode features audio from two of my recent stand-up sets at the Ice House in Pasadena. Expect plenty of laughs, some spicy material, and my signature feminist take on sex, relationships, and a bunch of other stuff. Whether you’ve been here since the Reality Bytes days or just found the show, I’m so grateful for you, Privates! Let's celebrate with some LOLs!

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For the 199th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Amy Baldwin, co-host of the Shameless Sex podcast, to discuss her non-monogamy journey.

This is Amy’s third time on the show, and today she’s back to share how she opened up her relationship from monogamous to “monogamish” and how that’s led to exploring sex parties with her partner and Feeld, the trusty dating app for all types of non-monogamy and kink. Eventually, they transitioned to solo non-monogamy, and now she and her primary partner have other casual partners, too. Amy approaches this in a really intentional, honest way that I greatly admire, and she shares some super smart tips about how to dip your toe in the sea of open relationships if you’re so inclined.

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For the 198th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes historian and former Lusty Jayne Swift. Swift specializes in the history of sexuality, gender, and labor in the U.S., and she’s writing a book about the history of sex worker social movements in which the Lusty Lady features prominently.

A couple of years ago, I covered Star Garden, a strip club in North Hollywood, which unionized through SAG-AFTRA. But there’s a classic example of stripper unionization that’s THE case study often pointed to: Strippers at San Francisco’s Lusty Lady organized into the Exotic Dancers Union in 1996. The Exotic Dancers Union was affiliated with the Service Employees International Union. Eventually, the strippers bought the club and ran it as a worker-owned co-op until The Lusty Lady closed in 2013. 

This episode dives into Jayne’s research on sex worker social movements and how sex workers are responsible for the rise of sex positivity and sex-positive politics/feminism.

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For the 197th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Paris-based journalist Monique El-Faizy to unpack France's Gisèle Pelicot case.

This French legal battle, which culminated in a landmark December verdict, exposed a horrifying conspiracy to rape involving dozens of men—led by Pelicot’s own husband.

To break it all down, I’m joined by Monique El-Faizy, who has been closely following the case and is writing a book about it. We discuss the disturbing details, Pelicot’s incredible bravery in waiving her anonymity and making the case public, and what this case reveals about the insidious nature of misogyny and the banality of sexual assault.

We also talk about the parallels in Monique's previous book, All the President's Women: Donald Trump and the Making of a Predator.

But don’t worry—we end on a lighter note, with Monique sharing her experiences with dating and non-monogamy in Paris in her 50s.

Read my HuffPost Personal essay inspired by the case here.

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For the 196th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes comedian, podcaster, and new mom Mae Planert.

I spoke with Mae Planert at three weeks postpartum, in the infancy of her Mom Era. She opens up about her scheduled C-section and the challenges of breastfeeding. Mae also shares how having Baby Normand is impacting her relationship with her husband, Mark Normand, and her standup comedy. From pregnancy to postpartum recovery to finding fresh material in motherhood, this conversation is a candid look at the realities of being a new mom—and it's not as scary as you might think!

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For the 195th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes TV writer and A Paper Orchestra author Michael Jamin.

Michael Jamin discusses his journey to fatherhood and the lessons he has learned. Michael also shares his perspective on masculinity and a heart-wrenching story about the profound love and sacrifice parents have for their kids.

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For the 194th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Madam Dena Duff of Sheri's Ranch Brothel in Pahrump, Nevada.

Ever wondered what it’s like inside a legal brothel? Today’s guest, a madam in Nye County, Nevada, pulls back the curtain on the business of pleasure—from the clientele to the safety protocols. She shares her unexpected journey into the industry and how she empowers sex workers to thrive. Seriously, you won’t believe how much they can make! This interview is full of surprising insights... you’re going to love this fascinating glimpse into the world of legal sex work.

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