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For the 282nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Finnish psychologist, author, and relationship expert Tony Dunderfelt, who also serves as an expert on Finland’s version of Married at First Sight, for another never-before-released interview from our 2019 reporting trip to Helsinki, Finland.
We discuss his theory of the three types of men, why being a nice guy isn't always enough to sustain attraction, and why even independent, egalitarian women might still crave a little alpha-male energy. Tony also shares his 30-second rule for better communication, explains how to keep the spark alive in long-term relationships, and walks us through his six levels of sexuality—from fucking to spiritual transcendence. Plus, we get the inside scoop on Finnish Married at First Sight, including how contestants are selected and how the Finnish approach compares with the American version.
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For the 281st episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Pirjo Suhonen, co-founder of Ivana Helsinki, for a never-before-released conversation from our 2019 reporting trip to Finland.
Pirjo takes us behind the scenes of Ivana Helsinki, the Finnish fashion, art, and film house she built with her sister, Paola. We talk about what makes their sisterly collaboration work, why personal style matters more than fashion trends, and their documentary about legendary porn star Nina Hartley, which challenges assumptions about sex workers while exploring feminism, sexuality, aging, and the female gaze. We also get into Pirjo's sweet story of rekindled romance, how Finnish dating differs from candlelit dinners, and how Finland's deeply ingrained feminism shapes relationships and gender roles. Plus, we discuss the independence of Finnish women, the country's generous parental leave and childcare benefits, and its surprising restrictions on surrogacy.
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For the 280th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Helsinki native Aino Pursiainen, from the city’s marketing team, for a never-before-released conversation from our 2019 reporting trip to Finland.
Aino gives us an inside look at LGBTQ+ life, love, and relationships in Helsinki through the lens of her very sweet love story: falling for her female best friend and eventually getting engaged as Finland was undergoing a historic shift toward marriage equality. We talk about the fight to legalize same-sex marriage, why Aino doesn’t feel much need to label her sexuality (though maybe bi would fit?), and Helsinki’s gay scene—or lack thereof. We also get into how she and her fiancée split chores and money, Finnish wedding culture, her thoughts on having children as a same-sex couple, and Finland’s famous support for new parents. Plus, we zoom out to talk about trans rights, immigration, and what Aino wants people to know about Helsinki.
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For the 279th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Helsinki native Elisabeth Rundlöf (now Lovman), from the city's marketing team, for a never-before-released conversation from our 2019 reporting trip to Finland.
Elisabeth gives us a crash course in Finnish culture and what life is really like in the country famously known as the happiest in the world. We get into Finland's complicated history with Sweden and Russia, gender equality and how it shapes dating and relationships, why so many Finns embrace living alone, and the cultural pressure around fertility and the country's declining birth rate. We also talk about drinking and dating culture, happiness, mental health struggles and suicide during Finland's extreme seasons, the Finnish hatred of small talk, and, of course, sauna culture—including nudity, body positivity, and why stripping down together might just be the great Finnish equalizer.
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For the 278th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak celebrates 10 years of the podcast by going all the way back to the beginning.
Before Private Parts Unknown explored love and sexuality around the world, it was Reality Bytes, a podcast about sex, love, relationships, and dating in the digital age. Courtney digs into a decade of archival audio to revisit the show’s evolution—from online dating to sex work, gender, abortion, psychedelics, OnlyFans, and international perspectives on sex and love—and the many co-hosts, guests, and eras that shaped it along the way. She also looks back at how her own life unfolded in real time on the podcast, from falling in love and challenging her assumptions to getting married and growing up. After 386 episodes and close to three million downloads, this anniversary episode is a celebration of curiosity, change, and the intimate conversations that have defined Private Parts Unknown for a decade—and a look ahead at what comes next.
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For the 277th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Belizean food anthropologist, author, and Taste Belize Tours founder Lyra Spang for another never-before-released interview from our 2021 reporting trip to Belize.
Lyra grew up in rural Belize, later lived in Washington, D.C. (where she attended undergrad with former co-host Sofiya Alexandra!), and went on to study anthropology, as well as human sexuality at the Kinsey Institute—giving her a unique perspective on the differences between American and Belizean attitudes toward sex, relationships, gender, and culture in general.
Lyra gets candid about what it’s like to be sexually open in a conservative Christian culture, why kink and ethical non-monogamy largely stay underground, and how LGBTQ+ visibility in Belize has changed since she was growing up. We also talk about blended families and co-parenting, passport privilege and the hurdles Belizeans face traveling to the United States, drug trafficking and gangs, political corruption, feminism and traditional gender roles, and Belize’s deeply homosocial culture—where men and women often socialize separately and even friendships across genders can be viewed through a sexual lens. Plus, Lyra explains why Americans can mistake a shared language for a shared culture, and what visitors and expats should understand about Belize before assuming they’ve got the place figured out.
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For the 276th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Belizean sex educator and Pleasher Spot founder Luanne Daniels.
Luanne got the idea for her adult novelty business after finding herself single and wanting a vibrator—only to discover that she couldn’t find the kind of quality sex toys she wanted in Belize. Recorded during our 2021 reporting trip, Luanne reflects on turning her personal quest for better pleasure into a business and becoming a trained sex educator along the way. We also get into the shame and secrecy surrounding sex toys and masturbation in Belize, why she was initially scared to put her face behind her business, why some men feel threatened by vibrators, feminism and women’s sexual agency, birth control, LGBTQ+ inclusion, and Luanne’s mission to get Belizeans talking more openly about pleasure. And yes, we talk a lot about dildos.
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For the 275th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Belizean LGBTQ+ activist Caleb Orozco, executive director of the United Belize Advocacy Movement and the man behind the landmark court case that decriminalized consensual same-sex intimacy in Belize.
Recorded during our 2021 trip, as the world was cautiously reopening after COVID, Caleb reflects on growing up gay in Belize, fighting bullies—literally, taking on the church and government, surviving violence and death threats, and the years-long legal battle that helped pave the way for similar challenges across the Caribbean. We also get into Belize's anti-sodomy law he was up against (Section 53), HIV advocacy, trans rights, sexism and gender-based violence, and why changing the law is only the beginning of changing a culture.
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For the 274th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Hannah Matthews, abortion doula and author of You or Someone You Love.
In this interview, Hannah shares her personal experience with abortion and her work as an abortion doula supporting others through the process, and how that work has helped her confront her own shame and discomfort around sex and bodily autonomy. She also discusses the misconceptions people have about abortion, the importance of pleasure in the equation, and her experiences with anti-abortion rhetoric and harassment from public figures like JD Vance. Hannah is currently working on a new memoir exploring chronic illness and sex, which we talk about a little bit at the end.
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For the 273rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak takes the hot seat as she is interviewed by returning guest Jacqueline LeKachman about her debut memoir, Girl Gone Wild.
Girl Gone Wild is an unwittingly feminist coming-of-age story about ambition, delusion, drugs, sex, shame, and misogyny—from growing up with big dreams in small-town Minnesota to chasing them to the filthy heart of Hollywood, including a stint selling T-shirts on the Girls Gone Wild tour.
We talk about the complicated line between exhibitionism and exploitation, sex work, sexual agency, acting and nudity before #MeToo, abortion, pleasure, feminism, and what it really means to be a “girl gone wild.” Plus, Courtney gets into the book’s theatrical structure, what writing it helped her let go of, and why publishing it feels like the beginning of a whole new chapter.
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