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Role clarity is the most underleveraged driver of leadership performance, and most organizations aren't building it. 

In this episode of Shedding the Corporate Bitch, executive coach Bernadette Boas sits down with Jackson Lynch, founder of Talent Sherpa, to examine why talented people consistently underperform when the architecture around them is broken. 

Drawing on W. Edwards Deming's research that 94% of performance problems are systemic, not personal, Jackson makes a compelling case that organizations have been investing in the wrong place.

The conversation moves from theory to practice quickly. Jackson breaks down what role architecture actually means: defining five to seven outcomes for any role so that everyone in the system, the incumbent, their manager, their peers upstream and downstream, knows exactly what winning looks like. Without that, accountability becomes blame, engagement flatlines, and even your highest-potential leaders are flying blind.

For HR leaders, this episode reframes the function itself. Jackson challenges the compliance-first model that most human capital teams operate within and argues that the real job is to identify talent constraints before the strategy is executed, not after things go sideways. 

What You Will Learn

• Why 94% of performance problems are architectural, not personal, and what that means for how you develop leaders
• How to define the 5–7 outcomes that tell any role what winning looks like
• Why decision rights must be directly tied to accountability and what breaks when they aren't
• The difference between accountability (backward blame) and reliability (forward ownership) — and which one actually produces results
• How to use a talent portfolio optimization model to put the right people in the highest-impact roles
• Why HR's shift from compliance partner to business constraint solver changes organizational performance
• How auditing your calendar reveals whether you are leading strategically or managing noise

Episode Chapters [

00:00 — Welcome & Why Leadership Architecture Matters More Than Talent
02:00 — The Biggest Leadership Misconception: It's the System, Not the Person
03:00 — What Role Architecture Actually Means — Outcomes, Decision Rights & Boundary Conditions
05:00 — Role Clarity in Practice: Defining What Winning Looks Like
07:00 — Reframing Accountability as Reliability — and Why It Changes Everything
08:00 — The AI Fog Problem: Why Automating Unclear Roles Scales the Problem
10:00 — The Real Cost of Not Defining Outcomes: Opportunity Loss
13:00 — How to Drive Accountability Without Blame
16:00 — Why Leaders Stay Stuck in Tasks: Dopamine, Busyness & the Arsonist Problem
18:00 — The Talent Portfolio Optimization Model vs. Traditional Succession Planning
21:00 — How to Sequence Talent Decisions for Maximum Business Impact
23:00 — How HR and Business Leaders Should Partner on Talent Strategy
29:00 — Moving Your Team From Busy to Impactful
32:00 — Nobody Gets Overwhelmed Knowing What Winning Looks Like
33:00 — Audit Your Calendar: The One Move That Changes Everything
35:00 — Where to Find Jackson Lynch & Talent Sherpa

About the Guest Jackson Lynch is the founder of Talent Sherpa, where he works with CEOs and executive teams to build the role clarity, decision rights, and outcome-defined accountability structures that drive business performance. With 25 years in human capital — from the factory floor to senior leadership in public companies — Jackson brings an operator's perspective to the systemic gaps that most leadership development programs never address. He also publishes a weekly Substack followed by more than 6,000 human capital practitioners. Learn more at mytalentsherpa.com and connect with Jackson on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/jxnlynch.

Related Episodes

• Your Calendar is Lying: HERE  — how you need to become an attention manager vs. time manager
• Your Company is Not a Machine with Norman Wolfe PART 1 HERE — how leaders need to shift from managing tasks to leading the heart of the company; your people.
• How to Stop Managing the Machine with Norman Wolfe PART 2 HERE — the four concrete leadership skills that make the framework operational, and more importantly, why most leaders are missing all of them

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Your calendar isn't a time problem. It's a leadership leverage problem.

In this solo episode, executive leadership coach Bernadette Boas introduces the TIMER Leadership Framework — a five-phase operating system designed for leaders who re ready to stop surviving their schedule and start leading with intention. 

What you'll learn: 

• Why 63% of professionals are burning out from lack of protected thinking time 
• How to shift from time manager to attention manager 
• The 3-day audit that exposes your biggest time leaks 
• How to design your ideal week around your golden hours 
• Why only 19% of managers delegate well  and the 4-step map to fix it 
• How AI is creating "atrophied reasoning" in leadership teams 
• The re-energizing habits that sustain high performance If you've ever said "I just don't have enough time" — this episode will change how you think about that. 

Key Timestamps

• [00:00] — Opening: Is your calendar reflecting your priorities or someone else's?
• [00:02] — Introducing the TIMER Leadership Framework
• [00:04] — The 4 leadership observations shaping time in 2026
• [00:08] — The delegation gap: only 19% of managers delegate effectively
• [00:11] — The reframe: from time manager to attention manager
• [00:15] — T: Track Your Time — the 3-day audit and time leaks
• [00:25] — I: Intentional Design — building your ideal week
• [00:38] — Your productivity profile and golden hours
• [00:45] — M: Master Your Focus — the timer method and distraction scheduling
• [00:50] — E: Empower Through Delegation — the leadership leverage problem
• [00:52] — Assigning an hourly value to your leadership work
• [00:55] — Building your delegation map and cross-training your team
• [00:57] — R: Re-energize — why this is the phase most leaders skip
• [01:03] — The 5 implementation steps to start this week
• [01:07] — Closing: Become a powerhouse TIMER leader

Resources & Links Mentioned

• Laura Vanderkam — Big Time (2026, most talked-about leadership book)
• Barry O'Reilly — Leadership research on "atrophied reasoning" (Fortune 1000 CEOs)
• DDI — Global Leadership Forecast 2026 (delegation gap statistics)
• 2026 South by Southwest Leadership Survey (fragmented schedule research)
• MIT Research — Over-reliance on automated decision tools
• Craig Groeschel — The principle of subtraction

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If Part 1 of this conversation with Norman Wolfe gave you the "why" behind the Living Organization Framework, Part 2 gives you the "how." 

In this episode, Bernadette and Norman go deeper into the four concrete leadership skills that make the framework operational, and more importantly, why most leaders are missing all of them.

Norman argues that organizations underperform not because of bad strategy, but because leaders are managing only one dimension of performance: activity. The Living Organization Framework adds two more, relationship and context, and the skills in this episode are how you actually lead across all three.

This is not a conversation about soft skills. It's a conversation about the specific, teachable capabilities that separate leaders who close the execution gap from those who keep wondering why their people aren't executing. 

What You'll Learn

• Why optimizing for activity alone leaves the majority of your organization's potential energy on the table
• How heart centering works as a trainable skill — and why it's the only real foundation for psychological safety
• Why your culture change initiatives stall (hint: changing the narrative isn't enough without ritual scaffolding)
• What improvisational theater teaches us about leading through uncertainty without becoming reactive or rigid
• Why the biggest failures in new leadership approaches happen when one skill is applied in isolation

Key Timestamps

• [00:00] — Welcome back and recap of Part 1
• [00:01:00] — Preview of the four skills: heart centering, storytelling & ritual, improv mindset, balancing opposites
• [00:03:00] — The Living Organization Framework: activity, relationship, and context explained
• [00:07:00] — Why adding relationship and context multiplies organizational energy output
• [00:08:00] — Skill 1: Heart centering as the foundational leadership skill
• [00:14:00] — Skill 2: Storytelling and ritual — how to reframe context with scaffolding
• [00:16:00] — Skill 3: The improv mindset and Norman's personal connection to it
• [00:21:00] — Skill 4: Balancing opposites (polarity thinking)
• [00:22:00] — Norman's upcoming book and where to find his work
• [00:25:00] — Bernadette's closing reflection and call to action

About Norman Wolfe

Norman Wolfe is the creator of the Living Organization Framework and founder of Quantum Leaders, a consulting practice that helps senior leaders close the execution gap by treating organizations as living systems rather than machines to be optimized. A former systems engineer turned leadership strategist, Norman brings a rare combination of analytical rigor and human-centered insight to the work of organizational transformation. His first book, The Living Organization, is available free at thelivingorganization.com/book1, and his second book, Leading a Living Organization, a business parable written for senior leaders navigating real-world transformation, is targeting a September 2026 release.

Resources & Links Mentioned

• 📘 Free book — The Living Organization by Norman Wolfe: thelivingorganization.com/book1
• 🔔 Norman's newsletter (for Leading a Living Organization pre-order updates): thelivingorganization.com
• 📖 Power vs. Force by David Hawkins — referenced in discussion of vibrational frequencies and emotional states  HERE

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Are you showing up for your team — or just showing up?

There’s a difference. And your team already knows which one you’re doing.

In this solo episode of Shedding the Corporate Bitch, executive coach Bernadette Boas gets direct about one of the most overlooked failures in leadership today: the gap between being available and being genuinely present.

Bernadette has coached leaders at every level for more than 25 years, from managers with zero direct reports to executives leading hundreds. What she’s observed consistently is this: most managers believe they’re showing up, yet, their teams experience them as absent. 

This episode is the direct conversation most leaders never get from anyone in their orbit.

Topics discussed:

• What Leadership Presence Actually Means
• The Three Dimensions of Showing Up
• Five Strategies to Start This Week
• The Three Excuses Bernadette Won’t Accept
• Your Challenge This Week

About Bernadette Boas

Bernadette Boas is an executive coach, speaker, and author of Shedding the Corporate Bitch. With 25+ years inside corporate America, including VP-level roles, and her own transformation from “tyrant boss” to sought-after leadership coach, she helps corporate leaders and their teams close the gap between performance and potential.

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What if the reason your strategy isn't getting executed has nothing to do with the strategy and everything to do with the model you're using to run your organization?

In Part 1 of Shedding the Corporate Bitch, host Bernadette Boas sits down with Norman Wolfe, executive consultant, author, and founder of the Living Organization Framework, to challenge one of the most deeply embedded assumptions in business: that organizations are machines to be optimized. 

Drawing on his own early career experience at Pratt & Whitney and Hewlett Packard, Norman unpacks why 70% of companies fail to execute their strategies, what organizational maturity really means and why it's the dimension most leaders never measure, and how the leader's role must fundamentally shift from 'plan, organize, lead, and control' to something far more human.

What You'll Learn in Part 1:

•       Why the machine paradigm of leadership is the root cause of disengagement 

•       The critical difference between a machine, a living system, and a living organization, and why only one truly reflects how people work

•       What the 'execution gap' is and why closing it requires changing how leaders think about their role, not adding more process

•       The three dimensions of organizational maturity; dealing with complexity, navigating diverse relationships, and self-reflective growth, and why skills alone will never be enough

•       Why 'commitment not compliance' is the operating principle that separates thriving organizations from stagnant ones

•       Why leaders who struggle with control are often controlling at the wrong level, and what to do instead

Key Timestamps

[00:00] — Introduction: The Living Organization Framework and what this episode is about

[02:00] — Norman's background: Pratt & Whitney, Hewlett Packard, and what corporate life really taught him

[08:00] — Machine vs. living system vs. living organization: breaking down the paradigms

[13:00] — Why leaders aren't bad people,they're just unconsciously operating from a limiting narrative

[16:00] — Commitment vs. compliance: the paradigm shift in one sentence

[23:00] — Defining the execution gap and why KPIs alone will never close it

[25:00] — Organizational maturity: the three dimensions and why they matter more than skills

[29:00] — Fear of the unknown: the real reason leaders resist the shift

[00:32] — Preview of Part 2: The four skills of the Living Organization Framework

About the Guest

Norman Wolfe is the founder of Quantum Leaders and creator of the Living Organization Framework. He is the author of The Living Organization, available as a free download, and is releasing his second book, Leading a Living Organization, in September 2026.

Resources & Links Mentioned

•       thelivingorganization.com — Norman's primary hub for the Living Organization Framework

•       thelivingorganization.com/book1— Free copy of The Living Organization (Norman's first book)

•       quantumleaders.com — Norman's consulting and advisory platform

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US companies spent nearly $100 billion on workplace training last year. Employee engagement hasn't meaningfully improved in two decades. 

In this episode of Shedding the Corporate Bitch, executive coach Bernadette Boas makes the case that the problem is not one of effort, talent, or even budget, it's a design problem. 

Most organizations have built their development infrastructure around discrete events: a workshop here, an assessment there, a coaching session when someone gets promoted. That model was never engineered to produce lasting behavioral change. It was designed to check boxes.

Bernadette walks through the four structural reasons their current programs are failing, including why 81% of organizations measure completion rates instead of behavioral change, why the Ebbinghaus Forgetting Curve makes single-session training scientifically ineffective, and why most leaders lack the self-awareness to absorb and apply what they're being taught. 

More importantly, she introduces a solution: the Leadership Development Operating System: a five-pillar framework that connects training, coaching, curriculum, assessment, and measurement into a single compounding architecture. 

What You'll Learn

•       Why the workshop model fails and how the distinction between an event and a system determines whether your investment produces resultsThe four root causes of program failure: lack of self-awareness, no structured practice, absent measurement, and no pull-through

•       How to structure skill training so that 60–70% of session time is dedicated to practice and feedback, not information transfer

•       The five pillars of the Leadership Development Operating System and how each one reinforces the others

•       Why external coaching is essential for real-time behavioral change, and why internal L&D teams cannot fully replace it

•       The four-layer measurement framework: behavioral assessment, application data, business impact metrics, and cultural integration

•       A diagnostic question to immediately identify the structural gaps in your existing programs

Key Timestamps:

[00:00] — Why positive workshop feedback doesn't equal behavioral change

[01:30] — 80% mindset, 20% skillset: the leadership success formula

[03:00] — Why the current development model was built to check boxes, not produce change

[13:00] — Introducing the Leadership Development Operating System

[14:30] — Overview of the five pillars

[31:30] — The diagnostic question for your current program

[32:00] — How to book a 30-minute diagnostic call with Bernadette

Resources & Links:

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Change is no longer an event. It's the environment and the leaders who will win in the next decade are the ones who stop waiting for it to slow down and start building the capacity to perform inside it. 

In this episode of Shedding the Corporate Bitch, host Bernadette Boas sits down with executive coach and leadership strategist Loretta Stagnitto to explore what it actually takes to maintain high performance, build resilient culture, and sustain team effectiveness when everything around you is shifting at speed.

Her signature philosophy, slow down to go fast is the counterintuitive but data-backed approach that separates leaders who execute their way to exhaustion from leaders who build organizations capable of performing through any change.

What You'll Learn

• Why even experienced CEOs are experiencing imposter syndrome and why it has nothing to do with their capability
• How to assess your team's readiness for change before you ask them to execute
• The four leadership pillars that create culture, performance, and bench strength through any disruption
• Why internal self-awareness and external self-awareness often don't match and how to close the gap
• How to use structured, framework-based feedback to get actionable data you can actually measure over time
• The difference between top-down and bottom-up goal execution, and why only one of them drives real results
• Loretta's step-by-step process for assessing yourself, querying your team, and building an action plan for change

Key Timestamps

• 0:00 — Introduction: Leading through uncertainty and constant change
• 2:00 — Why the pace of change is different now  and what it's doing to leaders
• 5:00 — AI, tariffs, and the anxiety driving leadership burnout
• 7:00 — Ambiguity as a leadership skill: how to build structure around chaos
• 11:00 — What's in your control and how to take pressure off by letting go of what isn't
• 13:00 — Assessing your team's emotional readiness before you lead them through change
• 15:00 — Loretta's four-pillar leadership framework introduced
• 17:00 — Why leaders become "hamsters on the treadmill" and how to get off
• 19:00 — Slow down to go fast: top-down vs. bottom-up execution
• 22:00 — How cascading goals connect every team member to the strategic plan
• 24:00 — Sustaining high performance through uncertainty, the sustainable leadership model
• 27:00 — What feedback leaders should actually be gathering and how to structure it
• 30:00 — Loretta's Self-Aware Leader Quiz
• 31:00 — The one thing leaders should do first when navigating change

Loretta Stagnitto is the founder of Loretta Stato Leadership Associates and an executive coach with extensive experience in corporate leadership development, organizational change, and team performance. 

🔗 Website: https://www.lorettastagnitto.com📱 LinkedIn: Loretta Stagnitto 📱 Facebook & Instagram: @LorettaStagnittoLeadership

Resource Mentioned:  Self-Aware Leader Quiz - HERE

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Is your successor ready, today?

Succession planning is one of the most universally acknowledged priorities in corporate America — and one of the most consistently neglected. 

In this episode of Shedding the Corporate Bitch, host and executive coach Bernadette Boas draws on 16 years of direct work with executives, HR leaders, and management teams to expose the real reasons succession planning keeps failing and what leaders can do about it starting this week.

Bernadette opens with a challenge that hits close to home for many leaders: Who in your organization is ready to step into a critical role tomorrow, not after six months of development or a 90-day executive search, but tomorrow? 

If the answer doesn't come quickly, or comes with a knot in the stomach, this episode was made for you.

Drawing from Deloitte research, DDI's Leadership Forecast 2025 (which surveyed over 10,000 leaders across 50 countries), and real-world coaching case studies, Bernadette makes a case that is both data-driven and deeply human: succession planning is not a talent shortage problem. It is a leadership preparation problem. And the cost of getting it wrong to the people, culture, and the bottom line is far greater than most organizations calculate until it's too late.

What You'll Learn

• Why 86% of leaders call succession planning urgent, yet fewer than 14% believe they do it well
• The three most common myths that keep leadership pipelines empty, including the one no one says in the boardroom but everyone feels
• Why "names on a list" is not the same as having a successor, and what a genuinely prepared successor actually requires
• Why the leaders who develop their successors most effectively are the ones who get promoted fastest
• How to assess your succession plan for equity and diversity and why it matters strategically, not just ethically
• Seven concrete, actionable strategies to build a leadership pipeline that is genuinely ready, starting this week

Key Timestamps

• [00:00] — Opening challenge: Who is ready to step up tomorrow?
• [01:00] — The data: What Deloitte and DDI tell us about succession planning
• [02:30] — Myth #1: Succession planning is an HR project
• [03:30] — Myth #2: We have successors, we have names on a list
• [04:00] — Myth #3: Succession is about the future; we have fires right now
• [05:30] — Challenge #1: Leaders don't want to develop their own replacement
• [08:30] — Challenge #2: High potentials are identified but not sponsored
• [10:00] — Challenge #3: The human and business cost of succession gaps
• [13:00] — Seven concrete strategies for proactive succession planning
• [21:00] — The case for proactive executive coaching (12–18 months before transition)
• [23:00] — Auditing your succession plan for equity
• [24:30] — Creating and reviewing a critical role map
• [25:30] — This week's challenge: One role, one name, one 90-day plan
• [28:00] — Episode recap and closing
• [29:00] — Leadership diagnostic calls: coachmebernadette.com/discoverycall

Resources & Links Mentioned

• 🔗 Leadership Diagnostic Call (complimentary, 45 minutes): coachmebernadette.com/discoverycall
• 🎧 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shedding-the-corporate-bitch/id1651682974
• 🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7LT6xtPJCRtwmv91XeGvkP

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How to Lead Through Constant Change Without Losing Your Best People

Your best people are being recruited right now. Not because they're unhappy, but because someone out there is persistent enough to keep calling until they say yes. 

If the only thing holding your team together is inertia, this episode is going to hit different.

Our guest is Borja Cuan, of Four15 Digital, who has been on both sides of this leadership challenge.

He joined a startup as employee #29, survived eight years of layoffs, mergers, and uncertainty, and built his own agency, Four15 Digital into a Google Premier Partner over two decades. 

What he shares in this conversation isn't theory. It's a tested philosophy for keeping teams aligned, motivated, and loyal when nothing around them is guaranteed.

🎧 Listen to the full episode where we cover critical topics such as:

Why Most Retention Strategies Miss the Point

Leaders obsess over compensation packages and flexibility policies. Borja says those are table stakes, not the game. The real question every leader should be asking their team isn't "Are you happy with your salary?" It's "Do you believe I actually have your back?"

When one of his top performers came to him with a competing offer, his first question wasn't about matching the number. It was: "Do you want to stay here? Because everything after that is irrelevant." That single reframe changes the entire conversation.

The Non-Negotiable Most Leaders Skip

Borja calls it the 80/20 of people management. About 80% of what motivates employees is universal; growth, respect, clear expectations. But that remaining 20% is completely individual, and it's the difference between someone staying one year versus four.

If you want to hear what is really causing your team to be unmotivated, listen to our earlier episode: Your Team Isn’t Underperforming, They’re Under-Directed 

Why In-Person Still Wins (Even in a Remote World)

One week in person with his Mexico-based team, Borja says, was worth a hundred Zoom calls. Not because remote doesn't work — but because the depth of connection you build face-to-face is categorically different, and pretending otherwise is just convenient.

His point isn't that you need to be in the same room every day. It's that effort is visible. Getting on a plane when you have kids, a mortgage, and a full calendar sends a signal that no Slack message can replicate. Your team notices who shows up and who finds reasons not to.

How to Make Hard Decisions Without Destroying Trust

Leadership, Borja says, is not a popularity contest. There will be decisions your team won't like; restructures, client calls that go against them, policy changes that feel unfair. The leaders who navigate those moments well aren't the ones who soften the blow. They're the ones who explain the why.

Not just the what. The why. What did you consider? What alternatives did you weigh? Why did you land here? When people understand the reasoning behind a difficult decision, they respect it even if they don't love it. When they don't, resentment fills the gap.

For a deeper dive on building that kind of trust, check out Why Waiting to React Is the Most Expensive Decision Leaders Make 

Discomfort Is the Signal, Not the Problem

The leaders and employees who grow the most, Borja argues, are the ones who learn to stay when things get uncomfortable, rather than pulling the ripcord the moment things get hard. Discomfort isn't a warning sign. It's usually the signal that something interesting is about to happen.

This applies to

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Are you a leader coach or a manager to your people?

In this episode of Shedding the Corporate Bitch, host Bernadette Boas, tackles one of the most consequential and most misunderstood leadership skills: coaching. 

Not coaching in the abstract, motivational sense, but the practical, disciplined capability that separates leaders who develop and grow people from leaders who simply focus on task output.

If your team keeps coming to you with problems they could solve themselves, if your one-on-ones consistently feel like status reports, or if your highest-potential employees seem less engaged than they should be, you'll walk away with a framework that will change all of that.

Bernadette opens by drawing sharp, actionable distinctions between managing, mentoring, and coaching. She then introduces a six-step coaching framework that works in real workplace conversations to genuinely empower your people: one-on-ones, performance check-ins, corrective discussions, and in-the-moment development opportunities.  

The episode closes with dedicated strategies for HR leaders who want to move beyond individual manager development and embed a coaching culture into the fabric of the organization — from how managers are evaluated to how coaching language is normalized at every level.

 What You'll Learn

•       The critical difference between managing, mentoring, and coaching, and why using the wrong approach at the wrong moment stunts team growth

•       Why psychological safety is the non-negotiable prerequisite to effective coaching

•       How to make the mindset shift from problem solver to powerhouse coach, and why this transition is harder than it sounds for high-performing managers

•       The types of questions that unlock real insight that allow you to guide and lead versus tell and direct

Key Timestamps

[00:00] — The scene that plays out in every office: why managing when you should coach never works

[02:30] — Managing vs. mentoring vs. coaching: breaking down the distinctions

[04:00] — Why coaching builds self-sufficiency, not just engagement

[06:00] — The mindset shift every leader must make to coach effectively

[12:00] — The three pillars of powerhouse coaching: curiosity, listening, and trust

[16:30] — Step 1 of the framework: How to prepare before any coaching conversation

[19:30] — Step 2: Asking powerful questions — the engine of coaching

[27:00] — Steps 3 & 4: Active listening and helping employees find their own answers

[29:00] — Step 5: Creating action plans that belong to the employee, not the manager

[31:00] — Step 6: Follow-up and accountability as a coaching discipline

[32:00] — HR-specific strategies for embedding coaching into organizational culture

[36:00] — The patience imperative: why sustainable development takes time and how to protect it

[38:00] — The challenge: try one real coaching conversation this week

Resources & Links

•       Subscribe to the podcast: balloffirecoaching.com/podcast

•       Previous episode referenced: 'Hiring a Leadership Coach — Ask These 15 Questions'

•       Share your story with Bernadette directly: [email protected]

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