In this thought-provoking clip from "Black Out with Ian & Rashad," Rashad Bilal and Ian Dunlap tackle one of parenting's most controversial debates: Should you control who your kids spend time with, especially when it comes to economic backgrounds and limiting beliefs?

The discussion starts with a viral video, where a parent insists on barring his kids from making friends with children from "broke families," not just because of finances, but due to the risk of inheriting limiting mindsets. This bold statement ignites a nuanced conversation.

Rashad reflects on his own upbringing in a working-class neighborhood, noting most folks he grew up with weren’t wealthy but managed to build something meaningful, referencing how he and his friends created a successful business from humble beginnings. He shares personal stories about how friends dramatically influence life choices and aspirations—sometimes limiting them, sometimes lifting them up.

Ian offers his take, agreeing that environment deeply shapes a child’s ambitions but pointing out that character and habits matter even more than income. He recalls real-life scenarios where he exercised gatekeeping for his child, focusing on positive influences rather than wealth.

Together, Rashad and Ian dive into the impact of strong-mindedness, the value of resilience, and the responsibility of parents to position their kids for a successful future. They also discuss whether being a “loner” can be a protective strategy against negative influences.

If you care about kids’ futures, or if you’re navigating the complexities of raising ambitious children in a world full of mixed messages, this clip is a must-watch. Is it truly beneficial—or even possible—to shield your kids from the influence of friends with different backgrounds? Can limiting beliefs really stunt potential, or are there ways to overcome them regardless of your circle?

Share your thoughts below! Would you choose your kids' friends based on mindset or circumstances? Let’s get the conversation going.

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