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In this post, Ajeya Cotra offers a clear, unsentimental framework for deciding whether to marry a long-term partner, treating marriage as a commitment device that enables deeper investment, trust, and shared life-building while also forcing a real tradeoff against possible alternatives. The piece walks through when “waiting for more information” stops being useful, how to evaluate a partner as cofounder, friend, and lover, and why the finite value of time may make endless searching costlier than it feels.
https://open.substack.com/pub/acotra/p/should-you-marry-her?r=67y1h&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web
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In this post, Ajeya Cotra offers a clear, unsentimental framework for deciding whether to marry a long-term partner, treating marriage as a commitment device that enables deeper investment, trust, and shared life-building while also forcing a real tradeoff against possible alternatives. The piece walks through when “waiting for more information” stops being useful, how to evaluate a partner as cofounder, friend, and lover, and why the finite value of time may make endless searching costlier than it feels.
https://open.substack.com/pub/acotra/p/should-you-marry-her?r=67y1h&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web

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