We know it’s counterintuitive, but it’s true. "Shoulding" yourself into being a better person neglects the most important ingredient we need to grow: grace.

John, Shay, and Lynn share why it’s hard to believe this is true and discuss the proper place “shoulds” have in the Christian life.

When you’re done with the episode you’ll know how important it is to:

-Focus on trusting God instead of pleasing God

-Use discernment when you see “shoulds” controlling your life

-Begin saying “I wish” instead of “I should”

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