Sh!t I told my Hairdresser

What do hairstylists really think about their clients?

In this brutally honest episode, Jason sits down with Rocki Mara to expose the unfiltered truth about life behind the chair—from nightmare clients and bad hygiene to awkward salon moments no one talks about out loud.

We’re talking:

• Clients who don’t know what they want (and never stop talking)
• Bad breath, worse attitudes, and zero self-awareness
• Drunk parents, punishment haircuts, and chaotic salon stories
• The reality of dealing with picky, entitled, and straight-up difficult clients
• What hairstylists wish they could say… but usually don’t

If you’ve ever sat in a salon chair—or worked behind one—this episode will hit hard.

🎙️ Real stories. No filter. Just the quiet parts said out loud.

Check out Rocki on TikTok @rockimara

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Jason Townsend and Paula Dahlberg pull back the curtain on the beauty industry with unfiltered conversations about salon culture, hairstylist life, toxic work environments, nightmare clients, celebrity encounters, relationships, burnout, and the chaos that happens behind the chair.

From hilarious salon horror stories to serious conversations about identity, mental health, beauty standards, and industry politics, Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser says the quiet parts out loud with raw honesty, dark humor, and zero filter.

New episodes weekly featuring hairstylists, salon owners, beauty insiders, celebrities, and real stories the industry usually keeps behind closed doors.

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Burnout isn’t a badge of honor—it’s a warning sign.

In this episode of Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser, we sit down with a veteran stylist and author to break down the real causes of burnout in the beauty industry—and why so many hairdressers are trapped in a cycle of overwork, low boundaries, and fake success.

We dive into the dangerous myth that being fully booked equals success, how hustle culture is glorified on social media, and the subtle ways stylists give away their power without even realizing it.

If you’ve ever felt exhausted, irritated with clients, disconnected from your craft, or stuck chasing money that never feels like enough—this episode will hit hard.

You’ll learn:

• The early signs of burnout most stylists ignore
• Why busy doesn’t mean profitable
• How to set boundaries without losing clients
• The biggest lies about success in the hair industry
• How to redefine your career, income, and freedom on your terms

This isn’t about working less—it’s about working smarter, healthier, and with control.

If you’re a hairstylist, salon owner, or anyone in a high-demand service industry, this episode might be the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed.

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Jason Townsend and Paula Dahlberg pull back the curtain on the beauty industry with unfiltered conversations about salon culture, hairstylist life, toxic work environments, nightmare clients, celebrity encounters, relationships, burnout, and the chaos that happens behind the chair.

From hilarious salon horror stories to serious conversations about identity, mental health, beauty standards, and industry politics, Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser says the quiet parts out loud with raw honesty, dark humor, and zero filter.

New episodes weekly featuring hairstylists, salon owners, beauty insiders, celebrities, and real stories the industry usually keeps behind closed doors.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode pulls back the curtain on the hair industry’s biggest lie—that working for a major brand, doing Fashion Week, and chasing influencer fame is the ultimate dream.

It’s not.

We sit down with a veteran stylist who left behind the corporate beauty world after years of travel, burnout, toxic contracts, and being treated as disposable talent. From behind-the-scenes chaos at Fashion Week to the reality of brand politics, non-competes, and influencer takeovers, this conversation exposes what really happens when you “make it” in the beauty industry.

We get brutally honest about:

• The dark side of working for major hair brands
• Why stylists are walking away from corporate and going back behind the chair
• How the rise of influencers is reshaping (and damaging) the industry
• The truth about money, burnout, and the illusion of success
• Why building a loyal clientele will always beat chasing online fame

If you’re a hairstylist, salon owner, or anyone in the beauty industry, this is the reality check no one gives you—until now.

🎙️ Raw. Unfiltered. No industry BS.

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It’s not.

We sit down with a veteran stylist who left behind the corporate beauty world after years of travel, burnout, toxic contracts, and being treated as disposable talent. From behind-the-scenes chaos at Fashion Week to the reality of brand politics, non-competes, and influencer takeovers, this conversation exposes what really happens when you “make it” in the beauty industry.

We get brutally honest about:

• The dark side of working for major hair brands
• Why stylists are walking away from corporate and going back behind the chair
• How the rise of influencers is reshaping (and damaging) the industry
• The truth about money, burnout, and the illusion of success
• Why building a loyal clientele will always beat chasing online fame

If you’re a hairstylist, salon owner, or anyone in the beauty industry, this is the reality check no one gives you—until now.

🎙️ Raw. Unfiltered. No industry BS.

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Jason Townsend and Paula Dahlberg pull back the curtain on the beauty industry with unfiltered conversations about salon culture, hairstylist life, toxic work environments, nightmare clients, celebrity encounters, relationships, burnout, and the chaos that happens behind the chair.

From hilarious salon horror stories to serious conversations about identity, mental health, beauty standards, and industry politics, Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser says the quiet parts out loud with raw honesty, dark humor, and zero filter.

New episodes weekly featuring hairstylists, salon owners, beauty insiders, celebrities, and real stories the industry usually keeps behind closed doors.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What happens when two of the most respected names in beauty—Ted Gibson and Jason Backe—pull back the curtain on an industry built on ego, burnout, and outdated rules?

In this raw, unfiltered episode of Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser, we dive into the real future of the beauty industry—where wellness, science, AI, and business strategy are replacing hustle culture and empty salon hype.

From $2,400 celebrity haircuts to losing everything in Los Angeles, Ted and Jason break down:

• Why the traditional salon model is failing
• How Convergence is redefining beauty through wellness + science
• The truth about celebrity clients, success, and staying relevant
• Why most hairdressers plateau—and how to break out of it
• The mindset shift required to survive the next era of beauty

If you’re a hairstylist, salon owner, or beauty entrepreneur tired of feeling stuck, underpaid, or burned out—this episode will either wake you up or call you out.

The industry is changing fast.

The only question is: are you evolving… or getting left behind?

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Jason Townsend and Paula Dahlberg pull back the curtain on the beauty industry with unfiltered conversations about salon culture, hairstylist life, toxic work environments, nightmare clients, celebrity encounters, relationships, burnout, and the chaos that happens behind the chair.

From hilarious salon horror stories to serious conversations about identity, mental health, beauty standards, and industry politics, Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser says the quiet parts out loud with raw honesty, dark humor, and zero filter.

New episodes weekly featuring hairstylists, salon owners, beauty insiders, celebrities, and real stories the industry usually keeps behind closed doors.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Think you understand 1099 vs W2 in the salon industry? Think again.

In this episode of Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser, we break down a shocking real-life story from a stylist trapped in a toxic salon environment—where illegal 1099 practices, manipulation, and straight-up exploitation were the norm.

From being forced to work full-time hours as a “1099 contractor”, to having credit cards charged without consent, to being controlled, isolated, and retaliated against this is everything that’s wrong with modern salon culture.

We dive into:

• The real difference between 1099 vs W2 for hairdressers
• Major salon red flags you should NEVER ignore
• How new stylists get taken advantage of (and how to stop it)
• The truth about toxic salon management and control tactics
• Why knowing your rights can save your career and your money

If you’re a hairstylist, barber, or beauty professional trying to navigate the industry, this episode is your wake-up call.

👉 Know your worth. Know your rights. And stop letting salons play you.

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Jason Townsend and Paula Dahlberg pull back the curtain on the beauty industry with unfiltered conversations about salon culture, hairstylist life, toxic work environments, nightmare clients, celebrity encounters, relationships, burnout, and the chaos that happens behind the chair.

From hilarious salon horror stories to serious conversations about identity, mental health, beauty standards, and industry politics, Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser says the quiet parts out loud with raw honesty, dark humor, and zero filter.

New episodes weekly featuring hairstylists, salon owners, beauty insiders, celebrities, and real stories the industry usually keeps behind closed doors.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The debate is back—and it’s louder than ever.

After a viral episode on trauma dumping in the salon, we dive into Part 2 with therapist insights, real client comments, and the backlash that shook the industry. Some hairdressers say it’s part of the job. Others say it’s emotional burnout disguised as “being nice.”

So what’s the truth?

In this episode, we break down:

• Why clients treat hairdressers like unpaid therapists
• The real impact of emotional labor behind the chair
• Salon culture, ego, and toxic work environments
• How trauma shows up physically in your body
• Why boundaries are the difference between burnout and longevity

If you’re a hairstylist, salon owner, or someone who’s ever overshared in a chair… this conversation will hit.

This isn’t just about hair—it’s about mental health, boundaries, and survival in the beauty industry.

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Jason Townsend and Paula Dahlberg pull back the curtain on the beauty industry with unfiltered conversations about salon culture, hairstylist life, toxic work environments, nightmare clients, celebrity encounters, relationships, burnout, and the chaos that happens behind the chair.

From hilarious salon horror stories to serious conversations about identity, mental health, beauty standards, and industry politics, Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser says the quiet parts out loud with raw honesty, dark humor, and zero filter.

New episodes weekly featuring hairstylists, salon owners, beauty insiders, celebrities, and real stories the industry usually keeps behind closed doors.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hiring in the hair industry has officially gone off the rails.

In this episode of Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser, we sit down with veteran stylist and educator Emily Bloom to break down what’s really happening behind the chair—and why finding good talent feels nearly impossible in today’s salon world.

From a stylist who tried to take over the salon within 48 hours to shocking truths about how beauty schools are failing new hairdressers, this episode dives deep into the chaos no one is talking about.

We unpack:

• The brutal reality of hiring stylists post-COVID
• Entitlement, lack of work ethic, and unrealistic expectations
• Why new graduates aren’t prepared for real salon life
• The disconnect between education, licensing, and real-world skills
• Insane client stories (including one you won’t believe happened in a mall)

If you’re a hairdresser, salon owner, or thinking about entering the beauty industry, this is the raw, unfiltered truth about what’s actually going on.

🎙 Real stories. No filter. Just the sh*t hairdressers deal with every day.

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Jason Townsend and Paula Dahlberg pull back the curtain on the beauty industry with unfiltered conversations about salon culture, hairstylist life, toxic work environments, nightmare clients, celebrity encounters, relationships, burnout, and the chaos that happens behind the chair.

From hilarious salon horror stories to serious conversations about identity, mental health, beauty standards, and industry politics, Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser says the quiet parts out loud with raw honesty, dark humor, and zero filter.

New episodes weekly featuring hairstylists, salon owners, beauty insiders, celebrities, and real stories the industry usually keeps behind closed doors.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What happens when you give your entire identity to hairdressing… and it gives nothing back?

In this brutally honest episode of Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser, we sit down with UK stylist Luke to expose the reality behind the salon chair—burnout, toxic work environments, low pay, client trauma dumping, and the mental toll no one prepares you for.

From being threatened with non-competes to needing therapy just to process clients’ emotional baggage, this conversation pulls back the curtain on what it really means to be a hairdresser in today’s industry.

We also break down the shocking differences between the US and UK salon systems, why stylists are quitting in record numbers, and how the industry is failing the very people who keep it alive.

If you’re a hairstylist, salon owner, or beauty industry professional, this episode will hit harder than you expect.

If you want to meet Luke give him a follow on instagram @wavelengthluke

⚠️ This is the side of hairdressing no one wants to admit—but everyone is feeling.

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Jason Townsend and Paula Dahlberg pull back the curtain on the beauty industry with unfiltered conversations about salon culture, hairstylist life, toxic work environments, nightmare clients, celebrity encounters, relationships, burnout, and the chaos that happens behind the chair.

From hilarious salon horror stories to serious conversations about identity, mental health, beauty standards, and industry politics, Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser says the quiet parts out loud with raw honesty, dark humor, and zero filter.

New episodes weekly featuring hairstylists, salon owners, beauty insiders, celebrities, and real stories the industry usually keeps behind closed doors.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hairdressers hear everything—but sometimes the stories clients tell in the salon chair are almost too crazy to believe.

In this episode of Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser, Jason, Lauren, and guest hairstylist Joti dive into the uncomfortable reality of what beauty professionals deal with behind the chair. From shocking client confessions to suspicious tragedies, we explore the growing trend of “sad fishing”—when clients tell dramatic stories to gain sympathy, manipulate situations, or even set up potential scams.

The episode starts with a jaw-dropping salon story: a brand-new client casually reveals mid-appointment that her fiancé shot himself in the face and survived—only for the story to unravel into something that may not make sense at all. The conversation leads to a deeper discussion about how hairstylists often become emotional dumping grounds for strangers they’ve just met.

But the chaos doesn’t stop there.

We also dive into the darker side of the salon industry, including:

• Clients who lie or exaggerate tragic stories for sympathy
• The phenomenon of “sad fishing” in salons
• Suspicious GoFundMe scams targeting salon communities
• Sexual harassment and unsafe situations hairstylists face at work
• Why many stylists feel pressure to stay polite even when clients cross the line
• The emotional toll of working in an industry where boundaries are constantly tested

If you're a hairdresser, hairstylist, salon owner, barber, or beauty professional, these stories will sound painfully familiar.

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Jason Townsend and Paula Dahlberg pull back the curtain on the beauty industry with unfiltered conversations about salon culture, hairstylist life, toxic work environments, nightmare clients, celebrity encounters, relationships, burnout, and the chaos that happens behind the chair.

From hilarious salon horror stories to serious conversations about identity, mental health, beauty standards, and industry politics, Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser says the quiet parts out loud with raw honesty, dark humor, and zero filter.

New episodes weekly featuring hairstylists, salon owners, beauty insiders, celebrities, and real stories the industry usually keeps behind closed doors.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Shit I Told My Hairdresser, we break down one of the most confusing — and often abusive — pay structures in the beauty industry: the 1099 commission hairstylist.

If you’re a hairstylist, barber, or cosmetology student who has ever wondered:

• Should I be paid 1099 or W-2 in a salon?

• Why does my salon take 50% commission but still call me self-employed?

• Why am I suddenly responsible for 40% of my income in taxes?

• Are non-compete contracts legal in salons?

This episode answers it all.

We share real salon horror stories about predatory pay structures, commission manipulation, illegal tax setups, and how some salon owners structure pay to avoid employment taxes while pushing all the financial risk onto stylists 

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You’ll also learn:

• The difference between W-2 vs 1099 hairstylists

• Why some salons secretly prefer 1099 workers

• How commission structures can hide huge tax liabilities

• Why every hairstylist should read their salon contract

• How credit card fees and product charges quietly reduce your pay

• What labor laws protect stylists under the Fair Labor Standards Act

If you're building a career in the beauty industry, understanding how salon pay works could save you thousands of dollars and years of frustration.

This episode is essential listening for:

✂️ Hairstylists

💈 Barbers

💇‍♀️ Cosmetology students

🏢 Salon owners

🎙 Fans of hairdresser podcasts

Subscribe to Shit I Told My Hairdresser for more brutally honest conversations about the beauty industry, salon culture, and the crazy stories every hairstylist has.

And remember:

Read the contract.

Know your pay structure.

And always protect yourself.

Jason Townsend and Paula Dahlberg pull back the curtain on the beauty industry with unfiltered conversations about salon culture, hairstylist life, toxic work environments, nightmare clients, celebrity encounters, relationships, burnout, and the chaos that happens behind the chair.

From hilarious salon horror stories to serious conversations about identity, mental health, beauty standards, and industry politics, Sh!t I Told My Hairdresser says the quiet parts out loud with raw honesty, dark humor, and zero filter.

New episodes weekly featuring hairstylists, salon owners, beauty insiders, celebrities, and real stories the industry usually keeps behind closed doors.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.