How letting go can be the ultimate act of looking after yourself.

When you’re too busy to take care of yourself, self-care HAS to be built into how you live. In this episode of Snackable Self-Care Soundbites, we’re flipping the script on “doing it all” and diving into why outsourcing can actually be self-care... and how to do it without spending a fortune.

You’ll learn the psychological-science behind why delegating lowers cortisol and boosts dopamine, how to rewire your stress response through letting go, and the tiny low-cost hacks that buy back your emotional bandwidth - from meal swaps and laundry drop-offs to mental-load outsourcing and emotional buddy systems.

Because sometimes, the most powerful act of self-care isn’t lighting a candle or running a bath — it’s saying:

“I can’t do it all — and that’s okay."

In this episode of Snackable Selfcare Soundbites, we’re rewriting your to-do list... literally.

Turns out, that satisfying tick isn’t just about organisation; it’s a dopamine-powered feedback loop that can retrain your brain to prioritise you.

Emma dives into the science of dopamine, explains the “virtuous cycle” of reward and motivation, and shows why writing your own name on the list (yes, Emma – stretch for five minutes!) helps wire your brain to see your wellbeing as a priority.

You’ll learn:

The dopamine double whammy: why anticipation + achievement feels so good

How your to-do list becomes a feedback loop that boosts motivation

The neuroscience of putting yourself first — and what it does to your self-worth circuitry

How to connect your daily list to your MAP: Meaning, Anchors, Priorities

This week’s micro-habit: Start every list with one self-care action that has your name on it. Then tick it, celebrate it, and repeat it.

Because when you’re on your list, you’re training your brain to believe: you matter too.

In this episode we’ll help you shift from overwhelmed to organised, arm you with a ‘when-then’ self-care backup plan tied to your values (your MAP: Meaning-Anchors-Purpose), and give you the tiny habit stack that stops decision fatigue in its tracks.

Think you’re too busy for self-care? Perfect! Because this season is exactly for you. I’m back for Season 5 of Snackable Self-Care Soundbites, chatting all things chaos, cortisol, and carving out time for yourself in the real world. Expect short, sharp, science-backed episodes that make you feel more grounded, more human, and more you. No crystals or quiet mornings required.

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It’s the Season 4 finale and my 44th birthday... so we’re going big! In this bumper birthday edition of Snackable Selfcare Soundbites, I’m reflecting on what’s been a transformative 10 weeks of micro-habits, mindset shifts, and hormone-supportive self-care for busy mums (like me!).

This episode recaps the powerful, science-backed habits we built this season, from 1-minute meal prep hacks and walk-and-talk mental resets, to skincare rituals with breathwork, protein-first eating for hormone balance, and adaptogenic support for stress resilience. We dove into shower meditations, emotional strength training (hello toddler lifting!), and the surprising power of saying “I’m really great, thanks.”

Most importantly, we explored the psychology of habit scaffolding and how linking small acts of self-care to your existing routines can help reduce stress, balance hormones, and support emotional wellbeing in the midst of motherhood, work, and perimenopause.

Whether you’re managing burnout, building healthier habits, or just trying to feel more like yourself again, this episode is your reminder that small steps make a big difference. You’ll also hear about the importance of family affirmations, nervous system regulation, and why these seemingly “snack-sized” rituals are actually rooted in powerful science.

Join me as I celebrate turning 44, share what I’m working on in this next season of life, and thank you for walking alongside me!

School mornings are chaos, the lunchboxes are questionable, and you’re already late...again! But what if just 5 seconds could change the energy of the whole day?

Discover my personal family mantra - a quick morning affirmation that rewires little brains (and big ones) for confidence, connection, and calm. Backed by brain science and soaked in soul, this hack is short, sweet, and scientifically sound.

Unpack how positive self-talk changes neural pathways and how emotional contagion sets the tone for the day.

Say it with me:

"You’ve got brains, a kind heart, and the very best laugh - now go use them all today."

Feeling foggy, frazzled, or fried? In this episode of Snackable Selfcare Soundbites, we dive into the buzzword that’s actually worth the hype: adaptogens.

You’ve probably heard of ashwagandha or maca — maybe you’ve even seen a dusty jar of Lion’s Mane at your local health store and thought, “Is this mushroom going to make me magical or just broke?” Today, you’ll find out exactly what adaptogens are, why Soviet scientists were obsessed with them, and how to pick the right one for your stage of life — whether you're postpartum, peri, postmenopausal, or just permanently peopled-out.

You'll learn:

What adaptogens are (and why they’re nature’s answer to burnout)

The science behind how they balance stress hormones, sharpen your brain, and clear that 3pm brain fog

Which adaptogens work best for postpartum mums, busy women, and women in perimenopause or beyond

Easy ways to add them to your day — no potion-mixing required

Plus, we kick things off with your 7-Second Self-Care Reset (jaw unclenched yet?).

Because real self-care? Is about doing something tiny that changes everything.

NOTE: I am NOT a doctor, scientist, naturopath or nutritionist. I AM an overwhelmed mum looking for things that might help my sanity. Please listen to your doctor and do your own research before taking any supplements.

Here's a little list of what might work for you at different lifestages:

POSTPARTUM MUMS

• Ashwagandha: Helps calm that tired-but-wired feeling, supports better sleep, and reduces anxiety.

• Reishi: A gentle, immune-supporting mushroom that helps with emotional balance.

• Lion’s Mane: Think “mum brain who?” Boosts cognition and focus.

BUSY, BURNT-OUT MUMS - Yes, that’s most of us.

• Rhodiola: Energy. Focus. Clarity. All in one scoop.

• Ashwagandha (again): Keeps cortisol in check when life feels like a pressure cooker.

PERIMENOPAUSAL WOMEN

Hormones are doing the Macarena — and not in sync.

• Maca: Balances hormones, lifts libido, boosts energy. A bit of an all-rounder TBH

• Rhodiola: Stabilises mood swings, helps with fatigue and brain fog.

POST-MENOPAUSAL WOMEN

• Lion’s Mane: Protects memory and sharpens focus.

• Ginseng: Boosts energy and supports mental performance.

• Maca: Still your bestie for mood and hormonal harmony.

What if one tiny change in how you respond to “How are you?” could actually make you feel better — not just sound better?

In this episode of Snackable Selfcare Soundbites, we’re leaning into a micro-habit that brings balance, builds emotional resilience, and gives your mental health a secret high-five. It’s science-backed, easy to ritualise, and doesn't require even a yoga mat to get you feeling great!

We’ll explore:

• Why language shapes your reality (and your brain)

• How “faking it” can actually make it real

• The ripple effect of positive expression on others (and yourself)

• And how to use this habit as a cheeky anchor when your day is teetering

Plus: your weekly 7-Second Self-Care Reset to unclench, breathe, and actually feel a bit better — no toxic positivity required.

Feeling overwhelmed? This episode introduces the “Three Sounds” habit — a sound-based mindfulness practice you can do (basically anywhere... but we're pairing it with a daily habit so...) in the shower to reset your nervous system and bring your brain back to balance. Backed by science and perfect for busy mums, it’s a 20-second trick that helps you feel better right now — no meditation app required.

You’ll learn:

What the “Three Sounds” habit is

How to do it in less than a minute

The science behind auditory mindfulness and stress relief

A small shift you can repeat daily — with real impact.

No gym? No time? No problem. In this episode of Snackable Selfcare Soundbites, we’re breaking down why functional, weight-bearing movement — like lifting shopping bags or carrying your toddler — is one of the most powerful self-care moves you can make. Backed by science and zero sweat required.

We’ll talk about:

• Why your bones need you to lift things

• How sneaky strength boosts your metabolism and mood

• The brain benefits of squats, groceries, and laundry baskets

• How doing something is better than waiting for the “perfect” workout window

• And why that thing you’ve been putting off (like I did with my Mirena) might just be a 5-minute win

Plus, we start with a brand new Self-Care Reset to help you drop your shoulders, unclench your jaw, and breathe for a hot second.

Because your body? It's the goal and the equipment.