Sober Not Mature

This week it's back to the guys in the picture. Yep, it's Mike and Bill this week.

Mike started off with his reading and it was a simple one, but very important to us. Keeping out of our own heads, not focusing on ourselves and accomplishing that by helping others. That should be an easy thing to do, but it takes work. It was a good conversation.

Then we were all over the place. Dr. Sarah wrap up, a podcast and an audio book, a rock 'n' roll show, baby mamas, leading and following, a creepy story, caffeine withdrawal, always and never, things that make us happy and road rage.

We also found out last week that a buddy of ours died. He was at The Keating Center when we were, back in 2010 and he will be missed.

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This week we have...

Dr. Sarah! www.DrSarahmichaud.com

She's back! We had her on the podcast for Episode 72 (definitely listen to it if you haven't already) and she was a lot of fun and very informative.

She's become a friend over the last year and we wanted to talk to her again and share what she's been up to.

We talked about recovery, trauma, codependency, relationships, meetings, podcasts and anything else we could think of.

An hour and a half isn't enough time with her and she will definitely be back.

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This week it's the comfort and familiarity that can only be brought to you by Mike and Bill.

Mike started off with his reading and it was about kindness. The idea that rude people are the strong ones gets smashed and living a life of kindness is what we strive for. It was a great conversation.

We talked about our language and apparently we are fans of the "F" word. Guess how many we gave last week.

Our search results, Dr. Drew again, a strange encounter at a rest area, making amends, learning to pray and being alone versus being lonely.

We also did a wrap up on Mike's radio gig last week.

Some laughs, some nonsense and just enough talk about sobriety to live up to the title.

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It's Labor Day Weekend with your pals! Yep, it's Mike and Bill again this week.

Mike started out with his reading and it was about happiness and joy. The pursuit of it by us and the happiness and joy that we bring to others when we do the work. It was a good conversation.

We touched a little bit on the Holiday Weekend, but as you all know, it's our opinion that it's just another day on the calendar. If you need to sit it out, that's a good choice.

Then stories from North Carolina, Moon Zappa and Marc Maron, dealing with the crazy, Dr. Drew and William Moyers, and acting in sober ways.

I always know there's more, since we logged 90 minutes, but it will have to be a surprise.

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This week, it's just us. Your friends, Mike and Bill.

We did have Dr. Sarah scheduled, but there was a technology issue, so she will be joining us in a few weeks. It will be worth the wait.

Mike picked a random reading and it was about taking care of our minds and bodies now that we are sober. We got rid of the really bad stuff, but now what? We have some work to do, but we are better than we were 15 years ago.

And then we did a plug for Mike's radio gig next week, talked about "complete" honesty, improving silence, recognizing emotions, the early days at the Keating Center and some other podcasts,

Mike also got to rub elbows with a big wig this week. Listen to see what that is all about. And more.

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This week it's the can't miss, super spectacular, Season 5 Finale, with Mike and Bill! (or just another episode)

Mike started off with his reading and it was about problems. We all have them and they are a part of life, but our problems today are very different than they were in our drinking days. It was a good talk.

Mike has his radio gig coming up in a couple of weeks, so we chatted about that and stayed tuned for more information.

Then a little more about Dennis Dunaway, Machine Gun Kelly, character defects, happiness, fear, dealing with physical pain when you are sober and is drinking still an option.

I know we hit a few other things, but I have no clue what they were. We filled the time though.

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This week we have

John M! 

Instagram @johnallenmachado

Website johnallenmachado.com

John is a writer from Concord, California. He’s been sober since February 27, 2005, after a lot of failed attempts. 

He began writing in 2008 and has written four books since, with his newest book “Avocado Andy & Troubadour Tim” published by Quid Mirum Press in May of 2024. It’s a book about acceptance, friendship and love.

If it were not for recovery he would have never began writing.

We had a great conversation with John and right off the bat, we knew that he was speaking our language.

It was an engaging conversation and he has a great story to tell.

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One more time... It's Mike and Bill! We do have some guests coming up, but this week, it's us.

Mike started off with his reading and it was about acceptance, limitations and protecting our recovery. Important stuff and we had a good talk.

Then we chatted about an anniversary weekend, "educated" people, how many "f's" did we give, a Van Halen, a drunk country chick and drinking like normal people.

What else? You know the answer to that. You need to listen and find out.

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Same old stuff, different week. Yep! It's Mike and Bill.

Mike started out with his reading and it was about living in the moment. It's something that we strive for and talk about quite a bit and it was a good conversation.

We announced our "surprise guest," and gave a little background. His episode will be released on Sunday, September 1, 2024.

Then on to the word sobriety (what does it mean to us), triggers (again), cocaine sharks, Hi Bob, psychics and some of our "normal" nonsense.

We also chatted about Northern Wisconsin and the beauty of Michigan.

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This week we have...

Yes! Mike and Bill again. Back for more engaging stories and sober fun.

Mike started out with his reading and it was about happiness. Should we pursue happiness or is it the result of living a good life? It was a good conversation.

We talked about sugar coating verses being direct, medications to get sober, dominating people, being rude and saying mean things, and do we really care what others think about us.

There was also a failed Airbnb trip, that had a lesson at the end.

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