不知道大家是否有同感，进入工作后，在大城市打拼，似乎结交职场外的朋友变的困难起来。你有多久没有收获新的友情？有些人通过社交活动扩大朋友圈，有些人在网上认识新朋友，但更多人和我们一样，选择随遇而安，让缘分决定一切。都市丽人的你想要结交新朋友吗？你理想的友情是怎样的？快来和你的播客朋友Zane和Rita讨论吧！

Living in big cities with busy work life, do you bother making new friends? What’s the last time you met a new friend with whom you can share good quality time? Some of us form new friendship through social activities; others choose to bond with online virtual friends. What’s your attitude today on friendship? Share your opinion with us!

时间线：

00:12 近期的更新：Rita特种兵之旅

07:00 Moeny Going：Rita买了啥新奇好玩意

20:45 Moeny Going：Zane钱不白花

30:30 Tip：关于交朋友这件事

涉及品牌及产品：

美甲：TAL护手霜 美甲套装

枕头：网易严选睡眠枕

榴莲：猫山王榴莲

可乐：百事可乐生可乐

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或关注我们的小红书账号：Soft Spot

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Following our RED：Soft Spot

SST御用视觉总监Carr老师空降！与我们分享了她在2023年上半年完成的诸多挑战——钩针、陶艺、国画、考驾照、缝纫拼接……哦对，还有录播客！谁说工作后就没时间打磨自己？艺不压身，职场打怪升级技能点当然是越多越好。如果你也想尝试新事物、get新技能，也许听了本期节目会给你一些灵感。本期新嘉宾到来，我们的cultural highlights也更加丰富了起来，有好书分享、综艺盘点、二次元动漫推荐，快来收听吧~

Welcome our fantastic designer Ms.Carr! In 2023, Carr tried out and got loads of new talents to share with us. The list goes like: crochet, pottery, Chinese ink painting, patchwork, driving, and of course, podcasting! Who said you don’t have time to learn new things when you have a job? Getting new skills is key to promotion, opportunities and more exciting life! With Carr joining us, we also have more cultural highlights to share. From books to reality shows to anime, we have you covered!

时间线：

00:10 历时1年 终于请来了“视觉总监”

04:30 很culture 和 不怎么culture的 highlight

32:16 进入2023年 Carr没有什么不想体验的

涉及书籍电影剧目：

书籍：《在西伯利亚森林中》《外面是夏天》

电影：《在西伯利亚森林中》

动漫：《间谍过家家》《咒术回战》《物理魔法师马修》

真人秀：《卡戴珊家族》

综艺：《月曜》

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2023转眼过半，灵魂拷问来了：你的新年目标实现的如何了？反正Zane和Rita连目标是什么都不记得了……为什么我们总立flag？到底怎样才能切实地达成目标？6月来了，还有半年的大好时光，让我们一起亡羊补牢，制定真正可以实现的小目标吧！本期还有Zane和Rita 的奇奇怪怪好物分享等着你，快来收听吧~

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时间线：

00:10 本周的小catch up

12:53 Money Going：本周Rita又买了什么奇怪东西

43:00 Tips：如何更好的通过计划实现成功

涉及品牌及产品：

鞋垫：一次性木浆鞋垫

湿巾：Ch22鸡尾酒酒精消毒湿巾

隐形眼镜：moody

牛奶：明治铁骨真真、光明新鲜牧场

2023 is half way through. Do you still remember your New Year resolutions? Have you reached your goals? Well, to be honest with you guys, we don’t even remember what goals we’ve set! It’s funny we’re always making big plans but little progress. So, to make the rest of 2023 more productive, we reflected on how to make real, doable plans and eventually let them happen. Come join us!

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从一拍即合到持之以恒，Rita和Zane没想到可以将当初的播客梦想蓝图变为现实，甚至做到了100期！虽然离做大做强这个野望还有些距离，但也挺值得骄傲的了，不是吗？借此机会，我们不禁回望这近两年的播客旅途，从起步、设想、分工聊到最印象深刻的几期节目，总结了我们不抛弃、不放弃的动力和理由。当然，这趟播客之旅少不了所有支持我们的朋友们，感谢大家的留言与建议，希望与大家在第二季相见！

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时间线：

00:12 小catch up 两则大病初愈的更新

10:42 Money Going

37:30 我们的podcast做到100期啦

涉及品牌及产品：

煮蛋器：Olayks煮蛋神器

口罩：加湿口罩

饮料：丹竹液

Two years ago, Rita and Zane created the Soft Spot out of our shared love for podcasts. Never have we ever imagined our chatty program could reach episode 100! Though we haven’t got on any chart or hit say a million followers, this is something to be proud of and brag about, isn’t? We think it’s time for us to look back and share some backstage stories. Thank all our followers for supporting us and leaving those inspirational comments. We look forward to seeing you again in our second season!

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最近大火的Beef怒呛人生主打一个爽剧，让我们看到了亚裔生存的疯批、挣扎、与纠结。剧中的女主努力活成了have it all成功女性，但也难逃工作、婚姻和生活的种种压力。女性在职场中总有诸多无奈，最近的头条让我们又不禁唏嘘。面对职场性别歧视甚至骚扰，我们怎么聪明的化解？你曾感受过职场上的权利不公吗？让我们开诚布公的聊聊吧。

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涉及剧集及展览：

美剧：《怒呛人生》

电影：《灌篮高手》《长空之王》

展览：《志怪奇谈：阅不尽的日本绘卷》

Have you watched Beef? What’s your impressions of Asian Americans and East Asians today? When Asian women are trying to have it all, however, we still face gender discrimination and power unbalance. What could we do? Let’s have a chat.

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最近流行怎么说？离职是最适合中国宝宝体质的医美。关于离职我们说的不少了，可到底工作还是常态，所以本期我们关注“病根”——为什么在职就不美了？为什么上班让我们变丑？我们如何由内到外重新变美？加入我们一起讨论吧！另外本周还有好吃的、好用的玩意儿和大家分享，check us out!

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People love to say that leaving a toxic work environment is the best cosmetic procedure for Chinese youth today. We’ve had enough discussion on quitting, so this time we hope to trace back to the root and try to analyze what exactly are making us ‘ugly’ at work. Inside and out, how can we become the best of us again without quitting a job? Let’s chat!

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曾经被时代淘汰的“电子垃圾”回潮，当大家重拾CCD，一种模糊的美席卷社媒。虽然我们选择支持科技进步不予跟风，但也忍不住来了一波回忆杀，怀念起那些曾经风靡却难再寻觅的小确幸：必胜客的沙拉吧，街角的报刊亭，地下的小商品杂货城，亦或是一封封手写的信笺…..你的“爷青回”是什么？不如与我们一起分享吧！本期cultural highlights我们分享了两部风格迥异但同样精彩的纪录片，或猎奇或老少咸宜，总有一部适合你， check us out!

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What’s with the CCD trend? We didn’t quite get it. Yet, we did take the chance to remember the good old times and the disappearing trends. Do you remember Pizza Hut’s salad bar? Can you still find newspaper stands around your city? Have you ever written letters with your friends? Come share your memories with us. For cultural highlights this week, we prepared two very different documentaries. Hope you guys would enjoy as well. Peace!

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离开一份工作如同一次排毒，摆脱焦虑，拒绝内卷，用一次旅行找回平常心。在纠结再三后Rita最近裸辞，只为找回对生活的热情，重装出发。不过出师不利竟然先生了一场大病…Zane则是重返职场，重新加入了朝九晚五大军，她的新职场生活如何？快来收听本期节目吧~我们还有丰富的文化活动与你分享！

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涉及电影及剧集：

电影：《不止不休》《铃芽之旅》

剧集：《去有风的地方》

APP：bilibili漫画、快看

Leaving a toxic job is one of the best detox journey. No more anxiety, more sleep. Say no to aggressive competition but time for good food, exercise and relaxed life. What can quitting teach us? What can we make use of the free time we get? Check us out! P.S. Tune in for ample cultural highlights as well.

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人生就是无数个错过，你曾否想过重启人生，弥补当年的遗憾？看过日剧《重启人生》，Zane和Rita也想入非非，开始盘点过去人生中想要回到的人生节点。我怎么没在小时候培养个兴趣爱好，没在大学时出国交换，没在面包和爱情间更慎重一点，没在热爱和现实间坚持一下…当然，我们都知道人生不能真的重启，但如果你在面对这个问题时脑中还留有遗憾，不如抓紧当下，启动新的人生吧！本期前半依旧是我们的絮絮叨叨和好物分享，欢迎收听~

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Life is filled with regrets. What if we can restart our life? Maybe you want to get into a new career, learn a new hobby or be a better lover. Even if we only live once, it’s never too late to restart from right here, right now.

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最近，Zane和Rita非常有默契的“交换人生”，一个从职场苦海中脱身即将迎来富贵闲人生活，一个结束了休息调整期重回职场。借此机会，我们复盘了各自或长或短的工作经历，与大家聊一聊关于入职、辞职的那些事儿。进入新职场应该注意什么？有了辞职的念头应该如何下决断？裸辞真的有那么可怕吗？如何更好渡过赋闲在家的生活？加入我们分享你的职场心经吧！

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时间线：

00:01 本周新状态catch up

15:26 关于辞职以及是否应该辞职的标准

31:00 合格职场人的生存指南

49:40 富贵闲人放假如何更“富贵闲“

Every March marks a busy season for HRs in Chinese companies, when newbies poor in while old birds send in resignation letters. Our hosts have also made their career changes, with Rita leaving her job whereas Zane taking on a new position. That’s why we think it’s a perfect time for us to share our experiences all these years jumping from one company to another. Want some tips for heading into a new job? Feel hard to have that conversation before quitting? We have you covered!

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