July 30, 2025

Solo Hotwife Play Date

55 minutes

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

EP202 – Solo Hotwife Play Date: From Lingerie Nerves to a CU-soaked Finish

Welcome to a juicy bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! In this unscheduled, unfiltered conversation, Cate takes us behind the scenes of her most recent solo hotwife play date—a sexy, nerve-wracking, pounding-filled night that left everyone hot, wet, and just a little bit awkward.

From lingerie mishaps to ben wa balls, awkward flirting to explosive orgasms, this episode is a raw (sometimes hilariously chaotic) look at what it’s really like to go on a solo hotel date with a single guy. Darrell weighs in with his thoughts on compersion, the thrill of being included before and after, and what it's like when your partner comes home smelling like someone else’s cologne.

Plus, a listener question dives into whether solo play still counts if it's only with people you've previously played with—and how to handle that tricky dynamic when it feels like freedom with limitations.

In This Episode:

🔹 The real logistics of setting up a hotwife solo date

🔹 How it feels to include your partner without them being there

🔹 Play anxiety, body compliments, and sensual 69s

🔹 The five-hour play session, the pounding, and the cum-soaked ending

🔹 Why this listener’s question about “controlled solo play” hits close to home

🔹 Red vs Black lingerie: how to ruin a sexy setup in two sentences

🔹 Reclaiming sex or just raw excitement?

Quick Links & Goodies:

Get the behind-the-scenes pics + pre/post-play video on our Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/SwingingDownunder

Join our upcoming Swingers Events Libertine Events https://libertineevents.com/

Find out more about global events on our podcast website https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/

Coming Soon:

August 6th: Our Paris & Cap d’Agde travel episode, recorded just before our return to the naked city!

Whether you're hotwife curious, deep into the lifestyle, or just here for the chaos and chemistry—this episode is pure swinger gold.

Tags:

Hotwife Lifestyle, Hotwife Podcast, Solo Play in Swinging, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Compersion, Swinger Podcast, Wanderlust Swingers, Non-Monogamy Stories, Hotwife Playdate, Cuckquean, Open Relationship Podcast, Swinger Advice, Swinger Diary, Swinger Lifestyle Humor, Libertine Events

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