As we stated last week, no one teaches us how to have, difficult conversations, and as a result, many of our relationships suffer. If you’ve listened to What Would You Do Part 1, you may have an idea of what WE would do but for WWYD, Part 2, Elle, Em, Mel-J & Kenzie Double DOWN and get into more messy situations and discuss what our reactions would be. Again, these scenarios are designed to force you into  having burdensome discussions so you can think about how YOU would or should respond and at the end of this episode, Em has really practical, Sooo…Lutions we review, that can help you prepare to have difficult conversations. Don’t forget to head over to our Instagram, for a visual link to this week’s Sooo…Lutions! 

Sources for this week’s episode:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/friendship-20/201509/7-ways-make-your-most-difficult-conversations-easier

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Intro and Podcast Theme music by: Duce Williams. 
Outro Music: Parade by: James Gardin
Show Produced by: Em Remones and Kenzie Crawford

WWYD??  We have ALL been in situations where a difficult conversation needs to take place and even though it's an inevitability, (you can't go through life without having hard convos, no matter how hard may try!) it's not a skill that is easily acquired!  In this week's episode, Elle, Em, Mel-J and Kenzie are presented with tough scenarios, covering all areas of life, from sex, family secrets and workplace mishaps! Each co-host offers up their honest opinion on what they would do and say, however, these scenarios are designed to force you to have an arduous discussion and although, as always, we have lots of laughs, 1 scenario in particular gets really deep and that's why this is PART 1! We do have an interesting Listener Letter this week, so make sure to stick around until the end. Our Sooo...Lutons & Sources will be available in our Part 2 where we will get into how to have difficult conversations successfully! 

Curious and want more info on the co-hosts of the Sooo…Podcast? Visit us at sooo_podcast on Instagram or check out our website at www.sooopodcast.com

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Sources & References for this Episode:

TBD in Part 2

Sooo...Lutions Source:

TBD in Part 2

Intro and Podcast Theme music by: Duce Williams. 
Outro Music: Parade by: James Gardin
Show Produced by: Em Remones and Kenzie Crawford

Self, Self, Self! It's like you can't escape people talking about self! To those of us from Gen-X or the Caribbean it almost seems like a violation because we've been taught NOT to focus on one's self too much because that meant you were vain and selfish but that couldn't be farther from the truth! Focusing on yourself, in a good way, can lead to growth, fulfilment and you can fix those areas in your life that have been causing roadblocks in your career and relationships! There is no better place to start than with your #selfesteem! Join Elle, Em, Mel-J and Kenzie as they discuss some interesting facts, define and discuss how #selfesteem and their lack of it has affected their lives as individuals and what they did to build up their self-esteem! Our Sooo...Lutions were brought to us by Em and we have a very cute and actionable guide you can see on our Instagram so make sure to check us out there for that take-away that will help you as you increase your self-esteem!


Sources & References for this Episode:

Self-Esteem Test:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/tests/personality/self-esteem-test

Self-Esteem Study & Interesting Facts Source:
https://positivepsychology.com/self-esteem/


Self-Esteem Definitions:
https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/self-esteem/art-20047976

Oprah & Tracee Ellis Ross Soul Sunday:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TyTRjxkqbJU

Sooo...Lutions Source:
http://nicolevalek.com/how-to-work-on-your-confidence/

Intro and Podcast Theme music by: Duce Williams. 
Outro Music: Parade by: James Gardin
Show Produced by: Kenzie Crawford

We’ve talked about #sex in 2020 and we’ve discussed what we think you should know before you get #married but this week, we are getting into the Dating Do’s and Don’ts! Elle, Em, Mel-J and Kenzie offer up advice from their own experiences the good, the bad and the ugly and somehow end up sidetracked on a mini-debate on if what you are wearing is helping or hurting you when it comes to attracting the right mate! Don’t worry, as with all of our discussions we always come to a deeper understanding and we always learn and grow from our conversations and so will you! Make sure to listen until the very end as the co-host gets their  minds blown by a discovery Em has made and we believe this perspective will help you be more aware of what to look out for while you are #dating! Sooo…there are no Sooo…Lutions or listener letter because this week, we have fun but get DEEP with this conversation Sooo...basically the entire episode is a Sooo...Lution! Be sure to tell us what your thoughts are!

Sources for this week’s episode:

Dating Tips from the Experts:

www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/finding-cloud9/201305/10-dating-dos-and-donts-6-therapists

www.mydomaine.com/dating-tips

Curious and want more info on the co-hosts of the Sooo…Podcast? Visit us at sooo_podcast on Instagram or check out our website at www.sooopodcast.com

Did you enjoy this episode? Make sure to leave a comment or rating, we would appreciate it greatly and share the show with your friends!

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Intro and Podcast Theme music by: Duce Williams.  Find out more at: www.ducewilliams.com

Outro Music by: Outro Music by Skrxlla

Show Produced by: Mel-J & Kenzie Sound

Are you up to date on current events? Do you have opinions on the latest hot-topics of today?  Well…WE DO! Join us for another hilarious – (now we know we keep saying ‘hilarious’ discussions, but can we help it if we honestly if we keep getting funnier and funnier each episode?) Discussion as we give our opinions on the what’s going on in these internet streets!

References for each story:

#RKelly in jail.

https://youtu.be/BqDSw_uUDOg

 Ryan Henry of #BlackInkCrew

https://www.instagram.com/ryanhenrystattoo/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aw-rYVK_k7c&t=4s

https://rollingout.com/2020/10/18/ryan-henry-admits-sleeping-with-best-friends-former-girlfriend-video/

 #RussellWilson gives Future’s Baby mothers $10,000

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mZ7TD9RZOqc&t=3s

 #Slutcracker

https://deadline.com/2020/10/christmas-themed-burlesque-show-the-slutcracker-to-be-released-as-a-film-due-to-pandemic-disruption-1234604060

 #NewYorkUnderCover Reboot

https://madamenoire.com/1196754/new-york-undercover-rboot-peacock/

#AmberRose teaches her son

https://ca.finance.yahoo.com/news/amber-rose-red-table-talk-195350993.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAACz927VAlIxcw6varm_V-WLbutpMvARjKA7qeJgbCGTba5oQ9TjFW3-FGbW8J3yhnxAw0PWHHAa4Ae6gvivnxKvJeoP7sGzKFM92NEu3zu22EJC3QppXolSg1fjqpfE2_l-KFCsjmkdlj_UWLw8JHH77sY6u1dk8HYKkroql9LV0

NO SOLUTIONS REQUIRED ON THIS EPISODE! 

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Intro and Podcast Theme music by: Duce Williams. 
Outro Music by Skrxlla
Show Produced by: Em Remones and Kenzie Crawford

Are you aware of what irritates you? Can you name what your major aggravations or triggers are and more importantly how they may be affecting your behaviour or your relationships at home or at work? Join Elle, Em, Mel-J & Kenzie as they engage in another hilarious discussion while delving deep into their pet peeves and how they manage them. During our Sooo…Lutions segment we give you tangible, actionable suggestions so you can learn when to address the source of what’s aggravating you and when to just, let it go.

Stay tuned until the end as we answer our VERY FIRST LISTENER LETTER!

Sources for: 

Pet Peeve Definition: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pet_peeve

Study on Pet Peeves by Survey Monkey: https://www.surveymonkey.com/curiosity/study-a-look-at-our-biggest-pet-peeves-and-how-we-react-to-them/

Sooo…Lutions: https://www.inc.com/kevin-daum/5-ways-to-resolve-pet-peeves.html and;

The lives and experiences of the co-host of the Sooo…Podcast!

Curious and want more info on the co-hosts of the Sooo…Podcast? Visit us at sooo_podcast on Instagram or check out our website at www.sooopodcast.com

Did you enjoy this episode? Make sure to leave a comment or rating, we would appreciate it greatly and share the show with your friends!

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Intro and Podcast Theme music by: Duce Williams.  Find out more at: www.ducewilliams.com

Outro Music by Skrxlla

Show Produced by: Kenzie Sound

Is quarantine running you RAGGED? With everything that continues to happen as a result of Covid-19 we certainly are! It seems that stress is at an all-time high, between managing working from home with homeschooling the kiddies to trying to figure out what our lives will look like in the future, we are EXHAUSTED mentally!  Join Elle, Em, Mel-J & Kenzie as they discuss Sooo...Self-Care During Covid. We don’t have all the answers, or any answers but we do understand the need for #selfcare and one thing is for certain, self-care is more important now than ever before. The co-hosts discuss what self-care is, what they currently do for selfcare and the importance of creating an intentional selfcare plan!  During our Sooo…Lutions we give you tangible, actionable suggestions sooo…you can create a self-care plan that is effective which we will list on our Instagram account so be sure to visit us at https://www.instagram.com/sooo_podcast/ 

Curious and want more info on the co-hosts of the Sooo…Podcast? Visit us at sooo_podcast on Instagram or check out our website at www.sooopodcast.com

Did you enjoy this episode? Make sure to leave a comment or rating, we would appreciate it greatly and share the show with your friends!

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Source for: selfcare definitions and suggestions: https://psychcentral.com/blog/what-self-care-is-and-what-it-isnt-2/ and the lives and experiences of the co-host of the Sooo…Podcast! 

Intro, Podcast Theme and Outro music by: Duce Williams find out more at: www.ducewilliams.com

Show Produced by: Kenzie Sound

Have you listened to a few episodes and not understood the lingo? Confused why the co-hosts sound like Drake? (ummm what's wrong with you! lol)  Well, this week Elle, Em, Mel-J and Kenzie discuss what it was like growing up in a homogeneous society (the GTA or the Six or if your normal, Greater Toronto Area :) with immigrants parents. Being black is not a monolithic experience and we often hear about what life is like for our US brothers/sisters however; we have our own experiences to share! Join us for this hilarious discussion on how having immigrant parents have affected our youth, speech and life outlook and learn the difference between the immigration ideologies of Canada vs.US and how it affects how we view cultural appropriation vs cultural appreciation. 

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Original Airdate: September 30, 2020

Get ready to grow, learn and laugh as we review of #sex terminology in 2020! This week, Elle, Em, Mel-J & Kenzie play an informative and fun game and give useful Sooo...lutions on how to introduce new things into your rotation! 

HEADPHONES are recommended for this episode! You don't want to listen around the kiddies!  Things have changed, do you think you’re up-to-date on sex in 2020? Take the quiz along with us, send it to your friends and see who knows what and be sure to leave your comments on our IG page find us at https://www.instagram.com/sooo_podcast/ or visit us at www.sooopodcast.com

Did you enjoy this episode? Make sure to leave a comment or rating, we would appreciate it greatly!

We would LOVE to answer your inquires, do you have a situation or an entanglement you need advice on? Send us your listener letter at [email protected].

Sex Term Sources:
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a28915884/sex-slang-glossary-list/

https://www.yourtango.com/2016285258/11-sex-slang-words-you-never-thought-youd-need-know

https://www.allure.com/story/sex-acts-defined

Please remember to be safe, practice safe sex and CONSENT is KEY! Yes consent is imperative when introducing new things regardless of the relationship type, always get clear consent!

Sooo...lutions Source:

https://greatist.com/live/have-more-sex-without-hurting-feelings#1 and

The minds of the Sooo...Podcast Co-Hosts! 

Get ready to grow, learn and laugh as we review of #sex terminology in 2020! This week, Elle, Em, Mel-J & Kenzie play an informative and fun game and give useful Sooo...lutions on how to introduce new things into your rotation! HEADPHONES are recommended for this episode! You don't want to listen around the kiddies!  Things have changed, do you think you’re up-to-date on sex in 2020? Take the quiz along with us, send it to your friends and see who knows what and be sure to leave your comments on our IG page find us at https://www.instagram.com/sooo_podcast/ or visit us at www.sooopodcast.com

Did you enjoy this episode? Make sure to leave a comment or rating, we would appreciate it greatly!

We would LOVE to answer your inquires, do you have a situation or an entanglement you need advice on? Send us your listener letter at [email protected].

Sex Term Sources:
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a28915884/sex-slang-glossary-list/

https://www.yourtango.com/2016285258/11-sex-slang-words-you-never-thought-youd-need-know

https://www.allure.com/story/sex-acts-defined

Please remember to be safe, practice safe sex and CONSENT is KEY! Yes consent is imperative when introducing new things regardless of the relationship type, always get clear consent!

Sooo...lutions Source:

https://greatist.com/live/have-more-sex-without-hurting-feelings#1 and

The minds of the Sooo...Podcast Co-Hosts!