The Secure Husband

Speak Up For Your Needs


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Do you struggle to ask for what you really want in your marriage? Maybe you stay silent, hint, or hope your wife will notice—but it only leads to resentment and disconnection. Speaking your needs calmly and clearly is not weakness. It’s leadership.

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott shows you how to break free from silence, shame, and fear so you can speak your truth without guilt or pressure. You’ll learn how to honor your needs with confidence, using The Secure Husband Process to guide you step by step.

Here’s what you’ll take from this episode:
✔️ Why asking for what you want feels so risky for good men
✔️ How childhood wounds taught you to stay silent
✔️ Why hinting, complaining, or blowing up doesn’t work
✔️ How to speak your needs calmly and directly—without fear of rejection
✔️ Why your worth isn’t defined by her response
✔️ How consistent truth-telling builds safety and connection over time

Your voice matters. Your needs are valid. And your marriage needs the strength of your presence—not a man who hides behind silence. When you learn to speak with clarity and love, you stop abandoning yourself and start creating the connection you’ve always wanted.

👉 If you’re ready to practice this in your own marriage, sign up for a free 30-minute consultation at securehusband.com
. No sales pitch, no pressure—just a real conversation about what’s happening in your marriage and how coaching might help.

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.


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