In this episode, I sit down with a London-based entrepreneur in his mid 40s who’s spent years going in circles—falling hard for the first woman who meets his checklist, spoiling her, and ending up lost every time. After a rough experience with a daygame bootcamps and serious doubts about daygame, he joined my online coaching program as a skeptic, cherry-picking advice and resisting real change. But when he finally let go of his “nice guy” habits and stopped putting women on a pedestal, everything shifted. Listen in as he shares the real turning points, the mistakes, and what it actually took to stop fearing he’d lose these women and finally take control of his dating life.

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(0:00) Intro

(1:12) Background Info

(1:44) History Of Simping

(4:02) Didn’t Trust Daygame Coaches

(5:30) Why Coaching Didn’t Work First Few Months

(7:35) What Made You Trust Me?

(8:00) Red Pill Beliefs

(9:12) How To Quit Red Pill

(10:24) Daygame Lay

(13:18) Lessons Learned

(16:10) Next Goals

Constant alcohol on dates, long nights and daygame trips really messed with my health. To understand how I can work on my fitness while living the lifestyle in Latin America I invited my fitness help to help me (and you).

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(00:00) Intro

(01:36) Interview

(04:43) Alcohol on dates. How to do sober dates or limit how much you drink

(15:16) Travel. How it messes everything up. This is why I’m travelling less now

(25:43) Weed and fitness

(29:08) Sleep. How late night dates fuck with your fitness

Men suck at starting relationships. They either can't get dates, date very average girls or if they become good at sleeping with women, these women don't want a relationship with them.

Both simping and becoming a “bad boy PUA” are terrible ideas for starting a relationship. But there are guys who get rid of these old habits. They have fun with many girls while building connection that helps women open up for wild adventures. And it builds great foundation for starting meaningful relationships with the girl of your dreams whenever you’re ready for it.

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(00:13) Simp

(01:15) Pick up artists

(03:27) What is your dream lifestyle?

(04:20) 3 Part Evolution Of A Seducer

(04:23) AFC(Average Frustrated Chump)

(04:40) Bad Boy PUA

(06:44) Nice Bad Boy

(08:31) How Simping Stops You From Having Casual

Relationships

(10:17) Can I Skip The Bad Boy PUA Part?

(11:10) Does It Mean I Can Only Start A Relationship After

Fucking Around

If you're sometimes getting 2 dates in one week and then nothing for 6 months your daygame results are dependent on getting lucky. But there are 4 things you can do to get consistent dates.

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(00:00) Intro

(00:46) You aren’t all in

(02:02) You know the fundamentals. But there still are

huge holes in your game

(06:28) What You Can Do About It

(09:01) Loving to go out. Having fun

(15:33) Ability To Stay Positive

(17:47) Who You Follow And Whether You Listen To

What They Tell You To Do

(25:15) Consistency

(30:50) Outro

This guy in his late 40s has spent a lot of time in Ukraine during the war partying and dating local girls. I knew Ukrainian girls are very sweet but also pretty wild once they open up. And this guy's dating stories confirm my beliefs.

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I know several people who have been robbed, pickpocketed and even had an AK-47 pulled on them in Latin America. Follow the safety tips from this video to make it less likely you'll get in trouble during your Latin America adventures.

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(00:58) Horror stories

(10:35) General Advice

(10:40) Don’t Go Too Deep On Your First Trip

(14:39) Do Your Homework

(17:06) Get Your Information From The Locals

(17:36) Don’t Show Anything Valuable

(18:08) Watch Your Stuff

(19:17) Pay Attention To Your Surroundings

(21:01) Don’t Do Online Dating In Places Where Everyone One Travels For Girls

(22:58) Uber, Cabify, etc.

(23:48) Don’t Carry Stuff

(24:40) Don’t Wait For Them To Ask Again

(25:27) Have Enough Money To Give

(25:52) Know Which Hospital To Go To

(29:45) Know How To Get Home

(30:11) Decoy Wallet

(31:15) Insurance

(31:44) Don’t Relay On Device Insurance

(32:08) Daygame

(32:43) Know The Streets

(40:13) Dates

(40:18) Pick The First Venue

(40:59) Stick To Areas You Know

(41:49) Don’t Leave Your Drink

(42:09) Only Pull To Your Place

(42:26) Your Apartment

(42:31) Make Sure Guests Are Allowed

(43:27) Don’t Leave Any Valuables Out

(43:47) Don’t Be An Idiot

(43:50) Be Careful If/When Buying Drugs

(44:33) Don’t Sell Drugs

(45:10) Don’t Talk About Your Bitcoin

(45:46) If You Behave Like An Idiot, You Are Quite Likely To Be Robbed

(46:50) How a guy tried to rob me in Barcelona

If you chat with guys who go on daygame trips, you'll quickly realise there are two types of guys. The ones for whom the best case scenario is getting a date here and there and getting lucky once in a while. And the guys who are having wild adventures with women on almost all trips. Learn about the mistakes to avoid if you want to be one of the guys having all the fun!

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(00:00) Intro

(02:15) Being Pissed Off About Different Culture

(07:02) Wrong Destinations

(11:45) Bottleneck

(14:43) Going Too Deep On The First Trip

(15:15) Short Trips

(16:07) Hanging Out With Bad Daygamers (Except Locals)

(17:38) Bad Logistics

(19:16) Believing You’re Higher Value

(21:20) Lying About How Long You’re In The City For

(22:24) Speaking Or Not Speaking The Language

(24:55) Don’t Know How To Daygame In Places With Lower English Levels

Let's settle this debate. I see comments saying daygame has become much harder. Even from guys who used to do great. But I also know many daygamers who are doing just as good as years ago. The reality is - daygame still works and is the best way to meet women. And has became harder. But not for everyone.

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(00:00) Intro

(02:00) Why Does It Seem That Daygame Has Become

Much Harder?

(02:43) Weirdos

(06:32) People Underestimate How Much Work It Takes

(07:36) Is Daygame Harder?

(08:03) How Covid Made Daygame Harder

(09:55) Daygame Is More Popular Now

(10:15) Daygame Hasn’t Became Harder

(10:45) Are Some Cities Overgamed?

(14:49) How To Connect With The Best Daygamers

Daygame might be easy for you if you're a 25 year old, tall, good looking guy who's great with people. But what if you're around 40 and aren't a natural born fuckboy?

If you look at most daygame content online it might seem that you have to start wearing a leather jacket & become a smooth talking bad boy. But that's complete nonsense. I know very different types of men doing great with women. Some are natural seducers while others are fairly serious guys who spend most of their time working and on hobbies that aren't really considered sexy in the daygame community.

In this podcast episode you'll learn how you can compete with the younger, better looking guys.

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(0:00) Intro

(2:13) Don't play by their rules

(4:00) What to do

(7:19) Why smart guys suck at daygame

(10:01) How to spark attraction and connect with women fast

(11:38) Find your strengths

(11:42)⁠ ⁠what are you interested in?

(12:46) ⁠Interesting stories

(15:41) ⁠Style and grooming

(17:18) ⁠Potential for something serious

(19:36) Build your daygame around your real personality

Since the student I just coached in Helsinki fits the "high value guy" stereotypes, his story is the perfect way to look at:

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