Elul and the high holidays are a period of introspection and self accounting. In this conversation with Matti Banon, we discuss the Chassidic perspective on gentle growth, what it looks like to live our lives with agency while remaining humble enough to recognize our recurring flaws, the balance between intellect and emotion, the transformative power of compassion and curiosity, and the parenting truths that can guide us in becoming more whole ourselves.

Matti Banon is a campus shlucha in Montreal who enjoys learning and delving into topics like marriage and parenting through the lens of Chassidus. Her children are her biggest helpers when it comes to her shlichus and self growth. She can be reached at [email protected]

References:

Story of the Baal Shem Tov & the shofar: https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/3080/jewish/The-Master-Key.htm

Chapter 27 of the Tanya (the sweet & spicy paths): https://www.chabad.org/library/tanya/tanya_cdo/aid/7906/jewish/Chapter-27.htm

More about Reb Levi Yitzchok of Berdichev: https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/1007604/jewish/A-Brief-Biography.htm

The 4 Body System: https://a.co/d/djfpzDu

Parenting reference: Blimieheller.com

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Introduction and Personal Background

01:53 The Essence of Parenting and Nurturing

05:13 Leading Ourselves: The Journey of Self-Discovery

10:03 Awareness and Compassion: The First Steps

14:42 The Role of Emotions in Personal Growth

19:52 The Chassidic Balance of Intellect and Emotion

24:48 Transforming the Inner Critic

29:43 Discipline and Connection in Parenting

34:33 Embracing Imperfection and Growth

39:27 The Importance of Compassion in Relationships

44:34 Curiosity and Self-Exploration

49:06 Final Thoughts