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Welcome to a special episode of Startup Dad! It’s the holiday time again when the list of responsibilities, performances, potlucks and gifts goes through the roof for already busy parents. To help you navigate the chaos I’ve asked many of my past guests to share with me their favorite books from the past year – those they’d gift to another person and those they’d tell parents to get for their kids. I’ve also highlighted parent’s favorite meals to make with and for their kids.

I'm joined by Alex Cohen, Andrew Capland, Brian Balfour, Adam Nash, Adam Grenier, Will Rocklin, Rob Schutz, Casey Handmer, Tye DeGrange, Josh Herzig-Marx, Carla Naumburg, and Michael Perry.

In this episode we discuss:

- Top book recommendations from 2024 for adults

- Their top book recommendations for kids of all ages

- A favorite recipe to make with your kids

Where to find Adam Fishman

- Newsletter: FishmanAFNewsletter.com

- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/

- X: https://twitter.com/fishmanaf

- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/

Timestamps:

[00:41] Favorite book to gift this holiday season?

[14:27] Favorite book that you’d recommend to another parent for their kids?

[28:52] What recipe do you like to get your kids involved in at the holiday time?

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Show References

A full list of ALL references in this show can be found here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/17eDnhGaRWvCqBl0RmM746Je7Ovpt7qL-14TNzQS4DUg/edit?tab=t.0

Nick Soman’s Episode: https://startupdadpod.substack.com/p/building-a-company-and-family-nick-soman-decent

Founding Sales, The Founder Led Sales & Early Stage Go-to-Market Handbook by Pete Kazanjy: https://www.foundingsales.com/

Decent: https://www.decent.com/

Casey Handmer’s Episode: https://startupdadpod.substack.com/p/astrophysics-saving-the-planet-and-three-kids

Poor Charlie's Almanack: The Essential Wit and Wisdom of Charles T. Munger

by Charles T. Munger: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/poor-charlies-almanack-charles-t-munger/1142619102

Eric Bahn’s Episode: https://startupdadpod.substack.com/p/integration-over-balance-and-hustling-with-kids

Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It by Chris Voss: https://www.amazon.com/Never-Split-Difference-audiobook/dp/B01COR1GM2/

Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/demon-copperhead-barbara-kingsolver/1140860121

Eric Mauskopf Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jOkHqWbJI1c

Will Rocklin Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LnPwKjSosyM

A Swim in a Pond in the Rain: In Which Four Russians Give a Master Class on Writing, Reading, and Life by George Saunders: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/a-swim-in-a-pond-in-the-rain-george-saunders/1137150630

Michael Perry’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AP6JJhiFfK4

Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman:https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/four-thousand-weeks-oliver-burkeman/1137427241

Tye DeGrange Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVs8FnMNIQI

Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtry: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/lonesome-dove-larry-mcmurtry/1001920809

Adam Nash’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MaOCL5WSzhc

When the Heavens Went on Sale: The Misfits and Geniuses Racing to Put Space Within Reach

by Ashlee Vance: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/when-the-heavens-went-on-sale-ashlee-vance/1142161472

Liftoff: Elon Musk and the Desperate Early Days That Launched SpaceX by Eric Berger: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/liftoff-eric-berger/1137428010

Reentry: SpaceX, Elon Musk, and the Reusable Rockets that Launched a Second Space Age

by Eric Berger: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/reentry-eric-berger/1144620800

Brian Balfour’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iiQ_wAwfv5s

100% Unofficial AB to Jay-Z by Jessica Chiha: https://www.amazon.com/100-Unofficial-Jay-Z-Jessica-Chiha/dp/0648073912/

Andrew Capland’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1p-4ir53gZc

The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level by Gay Hendricks:https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-big-leap-gay-hendricks/1102667522

Rob Schutz’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g611gCs4g0A

The Ferryman by Justin Cronin: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-ferryman-justin-cronin/1141941765

Carla Naumburg’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcrzFhbeIVs

Case Histories (Jackson Brodie Series #1) by Kate Atkinson: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/case-histories-kate-atkinson/1100163888

Josh Herzig-Marx’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YiaE6ZmaOIQ

Gnomon by Nick Harkaway: https://www.amazon.com/Gnomon-Nick-Harkaway/dp/0525432930

The Gone-Away World by Nick Harkaway: https://www.amazon.com/Gone-Away-World-Nick-Harkaway-ebook/dp/B001EL6R9W/

Adam Grenier’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PoOXR_3dnLU

Faster Than Normal: Turbocharge Your Focus, Productivity, and Success with the Secrets of the ADHD Brain by Peter Shankman:https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/faster-than-normal-peter-shankman/1125456961

Alex Cohen’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OOa9mS-CIuQ

Outlive: The Science and Art of Longevity by Peter Attia: https://www.amazon.com/Outlive-Longevity-Peter-Attia-MD/dp/0593236599

Lloyed Lobo’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hRuVbAHaUb0

Zero to One: Notes on Startups, or How to Build the Future by Peter Thiel and Blake Masters: https://www.amazon.com/Zero-One-Notes-Startups-Future/dp/0804139296

Masters of Scale: Surprising Truths from the World's Most Successful Entrepreneurs by Reid Hoffman: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/masters-of-scale-reid-hoffman/1138865531

Penguin Problems by Jory John: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/penguin-problems-jory-john/1123199367Red Mars (Book #1) by Kim Stanley Robinson: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/red-mars-kim-stanley-robinson/1100623050

The Cat Kid Comic Club Collection: From the Creator of Dog Man (Cat Kid Comic Club #1-3 Boxed Set) by Dav Pilkey: https://www.amazon.com/Cat-Kid-Comic-Club-Collection/dp/1338864394/

Pig the Pug (Pig the Pug Series) by Aaron Blabey: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/pig-the-pug-aaron-blabey/1123894006?

Du Iz Tak? by Carson Ellis: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/du-iz-tak-carson-ellis/1123161884

How the Grinch Stole Christmas! Full Color Edition by Dr. Seuss: https://www.amazon.com/How-Grinch-Stole-Christmas-Jacketed/dp/0593434382

The Polar Express by Chris Van Allsburg: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-polar-express-chris-van-allsburg/1100303321

The Pout-Pout Fish by Deborah Diesen: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-pout-pout-fish-deborah-diesen/1100935993

Tickle Monster by Josie Bissett: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/tickle-monster-josie-bissett/1009267028

The Hunger Games (Hunger Games Series #1) by Suzanne Collins: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-hunger-games-suzanne-collins/1100171585

Teach Your Giraffe to Ski by Viviane Elbee: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/teach-your-giraffe-to-ski-viviane-elbee/1128007314

Little Blue Truck Makes a Friend: A Friendship Book for Kids by Alice Schertle: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/little-blue-truck-makes-a-friend-alice-schertle/1142263535

The Book with No Pictures by B. J. Novak: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-book-with-no-pictures-b-j-novak/1118663264

How to Stop Freaking Out: The Ultimate Guide to Keeping Cool When Life Feels Chaotic

by Carla Naumburg: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/how-to-stop-freaking-out-carla-naumburg/1145065982

Someday a Bird Will Poop on You: A Life Lesson by Sue Salvi: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/someday-a-bird-will-poop-on-you-sue-salvi/1128829321

The Spooky Wheels on the Bus: (A Holiday Wheels on the Bus Book) by J. Elizabeth Mills: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-spooky-wheels-on-the-bus-j-elizabeth-mills/1019165966

From Grassroots to Greatness: 13 Rules to Build Iconic Brands with Community Led Growth

by Lloyed Lobo: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/from-grassroots-to-greatness-lloyed-lobo/1143861087

Ninja Life Hacks Mindsets 8 Book Box Set (Books 65-72: Accountable, Respectful, Flexible Thinking, Consent, Entrepreneur, Healthy, Negative, Adaptable) by Mary Nhin: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1637316976

Improvise. Scene from the Inside Out by Mick Napier: https://www.amazon.com/Improvise-Scene-Inside-Mick-Napier/dp/156608198X

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For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected].

For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/

Martin Glover is an IT professional by day and the founder of cooking Website Dad What Cooks by night. He turned a love of bread baking, barbecuing and being the primary cook in the family into a fantastic Website and recipe guide for Dads everywhere. He’s on a mission to help Dads learn cooking skills and be more involved in the kitchen starting with making it less intimidating. In addition to his cooking pursuits and work in IT he’s also a husband and the father of one daughter (who also loves to cook). We discussed:

* The origin story of Dad What Cooks

* His journey from raising a newborn to becoming an empty nester

* How he found community with other Dads at a young age

* How he became passionate about cooking

* How to get your kids interested in cooking and building memories in the kitchen

* Important kitchen safety with kids

* The biggest mess he’s made with his daughter

* His absolute favorite recipes and core holiday dishes

* What to do with all those holiday leftovers

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Where to find Martin Glover

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadwhatcooks

* Website: https://www.dadwhatcooks.com

Where to find Adam Fishman

* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/

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In this episode, we cover:

[1:38] Welcome

[2:16] Professional background

[3:31] Origin of Dad What Cooks

[6:08] Martin’s childhood

[7:02] Family now

[8:41] Decision to start a family

[9:08] Earliest memory of becoming a dad

[10:47] Journey from newborn to empty nester

[12:42] How did you find a dad’s group?

[14:54] Did you cook before Dad What Cooks?

[17:09] Getting kids interested in cooking

[21:40] Safety in the kitchen

[23:00] Building memories in the kitchen

[24:09] Biggest mess in the kitchen

[25:43] Most surprising things as a dad

[26:41] Advice for younger Martin

[28:07] Advice to ignore

[29:04] Absolute favorite recipe

[30:19] Basic tips for cooking as a family

[35:40] Core holiday dishes

[37:04] What do do with leftovers

[39:49] Mastering BBQ & bread

[45:34] Most important utensils to have

[46:24] Kitchen guilty pleasure

[47:41] Where he and his partner don’t align?

[49:27] Kid’s relationship to technology

[52:22] Mistake as a dad

[53:34] Follow along

[54:36] Lightning round

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Show references:

How To Actually Build Lasting Memories With Your Kids, Tod Francis on Startup Dad: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-actually-build-lasting-memories-with-your-kids/id1693312339?i=1000656304243

Great British Baking Show: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1877368/

Halloumi Fries Recipe: https://www.dadwhatcooks.com/ultimate-kfc-style-halloumi-fries/

Boxing Day: https://www.britannica.com/topic/Boxing-Day

Yorkshire Puddings: https://www.food.com/recipe/gordon-ramsays-yorkshire-pudding-424498

Ninja Foodie: https://www.ninjakitchen.com/page/pressure-multi-cookers?srsltid=AfmBOorQ710y6UY5FSM0lUSfSvRmX0a7c67qMFcmz02Lpp5vpp3Nba69

Garlic Press: https://www.amazon.com/Professional-Dishwasher-Efficient-Crusher-Imperial/dp/B098WNQ44MPasta Maker: https://www.amazon.com/Adjustable-Thickness-Settings-Spaghetti-Fettuccini/dp/B07HB2KL4C

Diaper Genie: https://diapergenie.com/

You're Pregnant Too,Mate!: The Essential Guide for Expectant Fathers By Gavin Rodgers: https://www.harpercollins.com/products/youre-pregnant-toomate-the-essential-guide-for-expectant-fathers-gavin-rodgers

Where you send your kid’s artwork to make a book - Artkive: https://www.artkiveapp.com/

Spongebob Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0345950/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1

Goonies:https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218

The Naked Gun: From the Files of Police Squad!: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0095705/

Airplane!: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0080339/

Only Fools and Horses: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0081912/

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For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected].

For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com 

Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/

Bianca Schulze is the founder and editor of The Children's Book Review—a resource devoted to children's literature and literacy—and the host of The Growing Readers Podcast. Bianca is also the author of DON'T WAKE THE DRAGON which has been translated into 20 languages and is now a six-book series, as well as 101 BOOKS TO READ BEFORE YOU GROW UP which is an Amazon Editors' pick for Best Nonfiction for Kids. She also a wife and the mother of three kids! In our conversation today we discussed:

* How to raise readers in your household

* How to foster a love of reading within your family

* Her Top 5 book recommendations for 2024

* The Children’s Book Review journey from blog to important literary resource

* How she came to write her earliest books

* Classic holiday stories for families

* How parents can work with kids who are struggling to find reading enjoyable

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Where to find Bianca Schulze

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/biancaschulze/

* Website: https://www.biancaschulze.com/

* The Children’s Book Review: https://www.thechildrensbookreview.com/

Where to find Adam Fishman

* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/

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In this episode, we cover:

[1:38] Welcome

[2:19] Professional background

[4:05] Family

[5:13] Children’s book review evolution

[8:11] How does being an author inform your work?

[10:25] Don’t Wake the Dragon Series

[14:27] Inspiration for 101 Books to Read

[17:25] Top book recommendations by age

[27:55] New releases you’re excited about?

[29:08] Where to buy all your books

[31:41] Classic holiday book recommendations

[33:24] How do you choose age level books?

[35:29] Using Children’s Book Review as a resource

[37:05] Trends in children’s literature right now

[39:17] How to encourage children to love reading

[44:24] Diversity/representation in literature

[46:45] Growing Readers Podcast

[48:44] What’s next?

[49:46] Advice on how to juggle work & family

[53:25] Lightning round

[58:43] Thank you

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Show references:

Children’s Book Review: https://www.thechildrensbookreview.com/

Growing Readers Podcast:https://www.thechildrensbookreview.com/thegrowingreaderspodcast/

Bianca’s Published Works: https://www.biancaschulze.com/#published-works

CU Boulder: https://www.colorado.edu/

Dragons Love Tacos : https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/dragons-love-tacos-adam-rubin/1107389326

Impossible Creatures by Katherine Rundell, Ashley Mackenzie (Illustrator): https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/impossible-creatures-katherine-rundell/1143746993

The Poisoned King (B&N Exclusive Edition) (Impossible Creatures #2) by Katherine Rundell: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-poisoned-king-katherine-rundell/1146144609

Kate DiCamillo: https://www.katedicamillo.com/

Priya's Kitchen Adventures: A Cookbook for Kids by Priya Krishna: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/priyas-kitchen-adventures-priya-krishna/1142903399

The Yellow Bus by Loren Long: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-yellow-bus-loren-long/1143921425

Where Is Koketso?: A Search, Seek & Find by Nyasha Williams, Anna Abl (Illustrator): https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/where-is-koketso-nyasha-williams/1144786418

The Remarkable Journey of Coyote Sunrise by Dan Gemeinhart: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-remarkable-journey-of-coyote-sunrise-dan-gemeinhart/1128564272

Coyote Lost and Found by Dan Gemeinhart: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/coyote-lost-and-found-dan-gemeinhart/1143297511

BookShop: www.bookshop.org

Barnes and Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/

The Outsiders by S. E. Hinton: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-outsiders-s-e-hinton/1100458329

Twas the Night Before Christmas by Clement C. Moore: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/twas-the-night-before-christmas-clement-clarke-moore/1102050730

Stick Man by Julia Donaldson, Axel Scheffler (Illustrator): https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/stick-man-julia-donaldson/1015184424

Diary of a Wimpy Kid (Diary of a Wimpy Kid Series #1) by Jeff Kinney: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/diary-of-a-wimpy-kid-jeff-kinney/1100714716

Dog Man (Dog Man Series #1) by Dav Pilkey: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/dog-man-dav-pilkey/1123324195

Harry Potter: Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone:(Harry Potter Series #1) by J. K. Rowling, Mary GrandPré (Illustrator): https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/harry-potter-and-the-sorcerers-stone-j-k-rowling/1143017727

The Chronicles of Narnia Box Set by C. S. Lewis, Pauline Baynes (Illustrator): https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-chronicles-of-narnia-box-set-c-s-lewis/1100542419

Noise canceling headphones: https://www.bose.com/c/holiday-sale

Inside Out: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2096673/

Inside Out 2: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt22022452/

Edward Scissorhands: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099487/

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For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected].

For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com 

Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/

Carlo Navarro is a former marketing leader turned fractional executive and the owner of the @StartupDad instagram handle (I’m jealous!). He’s been a mentor in the Chicago startup scene via 1871 and a marketing director and sales leader at companies like Blueleaf, Carrum Health, Pandora and more. He’s also a husband and the father of five (!) kids. In our conversation today we discussed:

* Helping your kids discover their passions and dreams

* Avoiding the temptation to push your kids to live your idealized version of life

* Navigating complex health issues in a large family and managing through them

* The role of social media and technology for your kids

* A framework on following through with consequences for your kids

* How to capture the idea Christmas card photo with a family of 7

* The family adjustment when his wife went back to work

* How he identifies and catches himself when he’s about to lose his patience

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Where to find Carlo Navarro

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlonavarro/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdad/

Where to find Adam Fishman

* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/

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In this episode, we cover:

[1:28] Welcome

[2:37] Professional background

[3:46] Childhood

[5:58] Were there other Filipino kids in your school?

[7:29] How did you meet your wife?

[8:12] What does your wife do for work?

[9:15] Adjustment of wife going back to work

[10:29] Their decision to start a family

[12:27] Household dynamic of kids

[15:13] Helping kids navigate their dreams

[17:54] Not living vicariously through kids

[20:49] How to pull off the perfect family Christmas card

[23:56] What has changed emotionally after multiple kids

[25:33] Balancing health issues in a large family

[33:30] Advice to younger Carlo

[35:28] Favorite book to read to your kids?

[37:10] An area you and partner don’t align?

[40:24] Kid’s relationship with technology

[43:53] Mistake you made as a dad?

[44:48] Ways to identify when losing patience?

[47:02] Follow along

[48:03] Lightning round

[57:00] Thank you

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Show references:

1871: https://1871.com/

Blue Leaf: https://www.blueleaf.com/

Karim Health: http://karimhealthcare.com/

Pandora: https://www.pandora.com/

Detroit Lions: https://www.detroitlions.com/

Swisher Home Improvement SHI: https://swisherhomeimprovement.com/

HHT: https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/hereditary-hemorrhagic-telangiectasia

Rosie Revere Engineer & Series by Andrea Beaty: http://www.andreabeaty.com/

Troomi: https://troomi.com/

Connected Families: https://connectedfamilies.org/

Bottle Warmer: https://www.amazon.com/Philips-Temperature-Control-Automatic-Shut-Off/dp/B0876T9DQZ/

Messi: https://www.intermiamicf.com/players/lionel-messi/

Michael Jordan: https://www.hoophall.com/hall-of-famers/michael-jordan/

Caillou: https://en.caillou.com/

Blippi: https://blippi.com/

Atlas 7 Passenger: https://www.vw.com/en/models/atlas.html

Pee Wee Herman: https://peewee.com/

Lion King: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110357/

Lion Guard: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3793630/

Sandlot: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108037/

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For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected].

For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com 

Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/

Nathan Jefferson is an entrepreneur, turned tech recruiter, turned entrepreneur (again). His latest company, Dadversity, is focused on helping Dads improve their personal, professional and parenting skills. It’s rooted in his own lived experience with two abusive stepfathers and a biological father who left him at a young age. He’s on a mission to help Dads be better so they don’t repeat the mistakes he experienced in his childhood. Nathan is also a husband and the father of two kids. In our conversation today we discussed:

* The origin story of Dadversity

* What it’s like being the product of a broken home

* How to balance (or not) building a business with Dad life

* How to maintain strong relationships at home when your mind is elsewhere

* He he has learned to be a better Dad despite having poor role models

* The most impactful conversations he’s had with Dadversity guests

* The emotional toll that building a community can have on you

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Where to find Nathan Jefferson

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nathanjefferson/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadversitynathan/

* Dadversity: https://dadversity.co.uk/

Where to find Adam Fishman

* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/

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In this episode, we cover:

[1:45] Welcome

[1:59] His background as a recruiter

[4:46] Origin of Dadversity

[12:22] Example of a Dadversity workshop

[14:52] How Nathan met his wife; all about his kids

[17:28] His wife as the family anchor

[18:55] Earliest memory of becoming a Dad

[20:34] Balancing Dadversity and fatherhood

[23:03] A good piece of advice

[25:39] How did you learn to be a dad withou role models?

[28:37] Dadversity conversation that has stuck with Nathan the most

[31:39] Most surprising thing about becoming a Dad

[34:31] Advice to ignore

[36:41] Writing a book/favorite book to read?

[37:51] Frameworks

[41:39] Where do you and your partner not align?

[43:20] Something you gave up to be a Dad?

[46:16] Mistake as a Dad?

[47:48] Where to follow along

[49:19] Lightning round

[56:31] Thank you

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Show references:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadversitynathan/

Dadversity: https://dadversity.co.uk/

University of Oxford: https://www.ox.ac.uk/

 CocoMelon: https://cocomelon.com/

Two For Joy - The true story of one family's journey to happiness with severely disabled twins by James Melville-Ross: https://www.amazon.com/Two-Joy-happiness-severely-disabled-ebook/dp/B0DHYQ77BP/

Sing 2: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6467266/

Home Alone:https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099785/

Green Mile:https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120689/

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For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected].

For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com 

Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/

Phil Carter is a consumer subscription growth expert and advisor. He has built a popular Reforge course on consumer subscriptions and advises companies on their growth strategy. Prior to that he led growth and product functions at Faire, Quizlet and Ibotta. Phil is also a husband and the father of two kids.

Phil’s wife, Ashley, founded a non-profit called Daring Girls that comes up in today’s episode and has helped over 20,000 Tanzanian women further their education. Donate today!

In our conversation today we discussed:

* Raising kids during the pandemic

* Traveling internationally with young children

* How to teach kids cultural empathy and understanding

* Protecting coveted time with your spouse

* Avoiding everything becoming a household logistics conversation

* The weekly family meeting and how that works for Phil and his family

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Where to find Phil Carter

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philgcarter/

X: https://x.com/philgcarter

Where to find Adam Fishman

* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/

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In this episode, we cover:

[1:29] Welcome

[2:03] Professional background

[4:14] Childhood

[5:32] What family are you close to now?

[7:27] How you met your wife

[8:39] Daring Girls and his wife’s work

[11:28] Decision to start a family

[13:27] Earliest memory of becoming a dad?

[16:36] Raising kids during the pandemic

[20:21] Taking kids to Tanzania

[25:42] Talking to kids about diversity

[29:02] Family meeting

[32:37] Advice for younger Phil

[35:56] Advice to ignore

[37:43] Protecting time w/ spouse

[40:59] Standing date-night time/sitter

[42:03] Keeping date-nights from becoming logistical discussions

[44:09] Where do you and partner not align?

[47:16] Mistake you made as a dad?

[49:05] Halloween

[51:11] #1 book recommendation 

[52:29] Fav holiday recipes or traditions?

[54:10] Follow along

[54:49] Lightning round

[1:03:56] Thank you

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Show references:

Daring Girls: https://daringgirls.org/

Donate to Daring Girls: https://daringgirls.org/donate/

Quizlet: https://quizlet.com/

Ibotta: https://home.ibotta.com/

Bain: https://www.bain.com/

Stanford: https://www.stanford.edu/

Turo: https://turo.com/

Faire: https://www.faire.com/

Reforge: https://www.reforge.com/

Harry Potter: https://www.harrypotter.com/

Tanzania: https://www.britannica.com/place/Tanzania

Pokemon: Detective Pikachu: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5884052/

DinoLingo: https://www.dinolingo.com/

Duolingo: https://www.duolingo.com/

The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini: https://www.amazon.com/Kite-Runner-Khaled-Hosseini/dp/159463193X

Children Of The Corn: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087050/

Lion King Soundtrack: open.spotify.com/album/7e8y48Z2fkJNGBOKSECCeS

The Five Love Languages: https://5lovelanguages.com/

Osprey backpacks: https://www.osprey.com/

How to Train Your Dragon: https://www.dreamworks.com/how-to-train-your-dragon

Bluey: https://www.bluey.tv/

The Wild Robot: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt29623480/

Mighty Ducks: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0104868

The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness by Jonathan Haidt:https://www.amazon.com/Anxious-Generation-Rewiring-Childhood-Epidemic/dp/0593655036

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For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected].

For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com 

Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/

Rob Taylor is a growth and sales advisor and the founder of the Dads in Business community. Dads in Business is a supportive network of content, resources and community to help busy dads better manage themselves, their family and their business. Rob is also a husband and the father of four children. In our conversation today we discussed:

* What to do when they don’t teach Dad in school

* Robs journey to create Dads in Business

* The feeling of loneliness that Rob experienced after becoming a Dad for the first time

* How to fight off the “Should Gremlins”

* Where Dads can learn about fatherhood with such limited resources

* Some of the most impactful conversations he’s had on Dads in Business

* Balance and boundaries

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Where to find Rob Taylor

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robtaylorofficial/

* YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dadsinbusiness

Where to find Adam Fishman

* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/

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In this episode, we cover:

[1:46] Welcome

[2:16] Dads In Business

[13:07] Example of oldest son’s questions

[14:03] Rob’s wife & four kids

[17:50] Decision to start a family

[19:48] “Should” gremlins

[22:48] Combatting “should” gremlins

[25:45] Earliest memory of becoming a dad

[27:04] What does “teaching dad” mean to you?

[33:39] Most surprising thing about becoming a dad?

[35:54] Dads in Business most impactful moments

[39:57] Memorable story of DIB impact

[42:45] How has Rob’s parenting style evolved

[45:54] Mistake as a dad?

[46:57] What’s next?

[49:05] Follow along

[50:11] Lightning round

[56:36] Thank you

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Show references:

Dads In Business LI: https://www.linkedin.com/company/dads-in-business/

Dads In Business Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3NsyHEWffBfu5gNpU2x-Ow

Dads In Business TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dadsinbusiness

Dads In Business Website: dadsinbusiness.co.uk

Book Of Dad: https://dadsinbusiness.co.uk/the-book-of-dad/

Deck Of Dad: https://dadsinbusiness.co.uk/dad-deck/

WWE: https://www.wwe.com/

Undercover Billionaire: https://www.discovery.com/shows/undercover-billionaire

Cereal Dad Preneur: Put Your Family First While You Build An Empire And Create Wealth by Matt Smith: https://www.amazon.com/Cereal-Dad-Preneur-Family-Empire-ebook/dp/B08GRXW2QB

Grant Cardone: https://grantcardone.com/

Mike Michalowicz Profit First: https://mikemichalowicz.com/profit-first/

Dads in Business Podcast - Sleep Fitness: Transforming Men's Health Performance: youtube.com/watch?v=nRDh4Nn3pw4

Inside Out: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2096673/

Die Hard: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0095016/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1

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For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected].

For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com 

Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/

Michael Perry is a serial founder and entrepreneur. He is currently the founder and CEO of Maple, an all-in-one app that helps parents get and stay organized. Prior to Maple he founded Live For Fame, Giving and Kit which he led for 6 years before selling to Shopify and then continuing with them for another four years. He was early in the leveraging AI to transform marketing for small businesses. Michael is also a husband and the father of two children. In our conversation today we discussed:

* Remote work as a founder and parent

* His thoughts on Amazon’s return-to-work policies

* The feelings that arose for him when becoming a father

* Advice he’d give his younger self

* Decision-making frameworks to make the best use of his time

* What it means to leverage FOMO to be present and purposeful

* How having kids changed him as a founder and a manager

* The relationship he wants his kids to have with technology

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Where to find Michael Perry

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mlperry/

* X: https://twitter.com/michaelperry

* Maple: https://growmaple.com/

Where to find Adam Fishman

* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/

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In this episode, we cover:

[1:43] Welcome Michael

[2:33] Professional background

[13:51] Maple

[23:01] How he met partner and their decision to have kids

[28:29] IVF journey

[32:57] Earliest memory of becoming a dad

[36:53] FOMO

[40:37] Amazon’s return to office policy

[46:51] Frameworks

[51:17] Area where you and partner don’t align?

[55:07] Kids' relationship to technology?

[1:02:06] Where to follow along with Michael’s journey

[1:03:18] Lightning round

[1:08:32] Thank you

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Show references:

Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/

Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/

Kickstarter: https://www.kickstarter.com/

Shopify: https://www.shopify.com/

Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/?ref=lgo

BigCommerce: https://www.bigcommerce.com/

Madison, Maine: https://www.madisonmaine.com/

Santa Barbara, CA: https://santabarbaraca.com/

IVF: https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/in-vitro-fertilization/about/pac-20384716

Snoo: https://www.amazon.com/SNOO-Smart-Sleeper-Happiest-Baby/dp/B0716KN18Z

Frozen: https://frozen.disney.com/

Spiderman and his Amazing Friends: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0083481/

Star Wars: https://www.starwars.com/

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For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected].

For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com 

Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/

Sean Ellis is a growth legend and the creator of the term “growth hacker.” He has built a legendary framework (the “Sean Ellis test”) for determining product/market fit, wrote the original book on Growth (“Hacking Growth), and has founded several companies along with working at or advising companies like LogMeIn, Dropbox, Eventbrite, Bounce and more. In addition to his role as the Godfather of Growth he’s also a husband and the father of two adult children.

* Maintaining strong relationships with your daughters during the tumultuous teenage years and into their 20’s

* Sean’s philosophy on not waiting until it’s convenient

* Navigating big challenges with kids—from autoimmune disorders to depression

* Balancing the approach between letting kids figure stuff out on their own vs. jumping in to help them

* When to push and when to back off

* Sean’s meteoric rise as a CEO and head coach of a youth soccer team

* Some controversial approaches that worked for his family

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Where to find Sean Ellis

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanellis/

* X: https://twitter.com/SeanEllis

* Sean’s Newsletter: https://substack.com/@seanellis

Where to find Adam Fishman

* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/

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In this episode, we cover:

[2:05] Welcome

[2:42] Sean’s professional background

[7:49] Childhood

[9:13] How Sean met his wife; all about their kids?

[11:18] Are 20 year olds “kids”?

[12:00] Decision to start a family

[13:01] Earliest memory of becoming a Dad

[15:31] Maintaining relationship w/daughters into adulthood

[20:55] Surprising thing you learned as a Dad?

[22:28] Advice for younger Sean

[23:41] Shared advice to friends

[25:31] Balancing parenting techniques 

[30:20] Did the kids come back home while working?

[31:54] Sean the soccer coach

[37:05] Parenting style evolution

[41:41] Where Sean and his wife don’t align on parenting

[43:36] Kid’s relationship with technology

[45:36] What he gave up to become a dad?

[47:24] Mistakes he made as a dad?

[49:10] Where to follow along

[49:55] What inspired you to write again?

[52:00] Lightning Round

[55:38] Thank you

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Show references:

LogMeIn: https://www.logmein.com/

Dropbox: https://www.dropbox.com/

Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/

Bounce: https://usebounce.com/

UC Berkeley: https://www.berkeley.edu/

UCLA: https://www.ucla.edu/

Breathalyzer: https://www.amazon.com/BACtrack-Breathalyzer-Professional-Grade-Smartphone-Connectivity/dp/B079XXNBF3/ref=zg_bs_g_15992781_d_sccl_1/143-4646178-9363038?psc=1

Vuori: https://vuoriclothing.com/

Anastasia: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0118617/

National Lampoon’s European Vacation :https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089670/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1

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For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected].

For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com 

Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/

Dan Doty is the founder of Fatherhood Unlocked – a company that is helping Dads win at work, build deeper family connections and thrive in relationships. He’s also a writer, wilderness guide and has been an inner city high school teacher. Through his work Dan is at the forefront of the global men’s movement to help Dads be better at all aspects of life. His most recent project, Fatherhood Ready, is a course and community that helps prepare men for fatherhood. He’s also a husband and the father of three kids! In our conversation today we discussed:

* The exciting and historical changes in the role of fatherhood

* Why the role of fatherhood is changing

* The differences between how we were raised by our fathers and how they were raised by theirs

* The transition into fatherhood as a rite of passage

* Parenting in the time of great technical and societal change

* All about Fatherhood Ready and what it means to prepare for fatherhood

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Where to find Dan Doty

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dan-doty-18a50719/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodunlocked/

* Fatherhood Unlocked: https://www.fatherhoodunlocked.com/

Where to find Adam Fishman

* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/

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In this episode, we cover:

[1:48] Welcome

[2:10] Dan’s Professional background

[4:24] Most surprising aspect of your work?

[6;38] Childhood and destiny

[9:58] Balancing of bonding & wilderness

[12:03] Dan’s life now

[14:20] Their decision to start a family

[20:24] What is driving this historical change?

[23:08] Dan’s wife as a spiritual guide and intuitive

[25:14] Sense of “fit”

[26:52] Earliest memory of becoming a dad

[29:09] Differences in emotion from kid to kid

[30:29] Rite of passage into fatherhood

[35:37] Advice  to younger Dan

[37:48] Advice to ignore?

[38:37] Fav book to read to kids?

[40:34] Frameworks

[43:46] Area where you and partner don’t align?

[44:26] Role of fatherhood in this time?

[48:16] What’d he give up to be a father?

[50:25] How does he recharge his batteries?

[52:00] Mistake as a father?

[54:04] How does he recover when losing his temper?

[57:07] Where to find Dan

[58:53] Lightning round

[1:01:11] Thank you

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Show references:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodunlocked/

Fatherhood Unlocked: https://www.fatherhoodunlocked.com/

Fatherhood Ready: https://www.fatherhoodready.com/

Meat Eater: https://www.netflix.com/title/80126646

Evryman: https://evryman.com/

RIchard Reeves: https://richardvreeves.com/

REI: https://www.rei.com/

Match.com: match.com

Anthony Bourdain: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anthony_Bourdain

0.0 Productions: https://zeropointzero.com/

Will To Change by Bell Hooks: https://bellhooksbooks.com/product/the-will-to-change/

Jason Mraz: https://jasonmraz.com/

Martha’s Vineyard: https://www.mvy.com/

Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs: https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html

Moana: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3521164/

Princess Bride: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0093779/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0_tt_8_nm_0_in_0_q_the%2520princess%2520bride

Maine: https://www.maine.gov/portal/index.html

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For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected].

For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com 

Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/