The Secure Husband

Step Three: Healing the Wounded Inner Child


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Many men feel lost in their marriage because they carry pain from the past they’ve never faced. This episode explains how to start healing that pain by connecting with the wounded inner child — the younger version of you who still feels hurt, unloved, or not good enough.

Bruce, certified coach and founder of SecureHusband.com, breaks it down in a clear, simple way. You’ll learn how childhood wounds can shape your reactions today — and how to take steps to change that pattern.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ What the inner child really is
✅ How childhood pain shows up in your marriage
✅ Signs your inner child is running the relationship
✅ Step-by-step ways to start healing and re-parenting yourself
✅ Real-life examples of men who did this work and changed everything
✅ A daily routine to stay connected and grounded

This episode is for you if:
✔️ You feel anxious or unworthy in your marriage
✔️ You overreact or shut down when your wife pulls away
✔️ You’re tired of chasing her love and feeling empty
✔️ You want to stop living from old wounds and lead with strength
✔️ You’re ready to take responsibility for your healing

What You’ll Get From This Episode:

Clear language and examples

A step-by-step method to begin inner child work

A daily routine to stay grounded

Encouragement that you’re not broken — just learning how to lead yourself

You can’t fix your marriage by fixing your wife.
You fix it by healing the part of you that’s still hurting.

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.


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The Secure HusbandBy M. Bruce Abbott, M.A, CPC

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