In this episode, I share how to stop chasing money, relationships and success – and instead be chased by everything you want!

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This is exactly how you can forever put a stop to being needy and start effortlessly attracting what you want.

Full disclaimer though. Make sure you stick around to the end of this to for the full solution, doing parts of it will not work.

First of all, understand why being needy drives everything you want away from you:

It subconsciously communicates that you are unworthy of what you want.

You start living a self fulfilling prophecy of acting as if you won’t get it.

It puts what you ‘need’ on an unreachable pedestal and weakens your self-image further, which makes you more needy.

Here’s how to fix it!

A) Visualize the Ideal Outcome:Relax and let go by imagining what it’ll be like when you get what you want.

B) Act As If You Already Got It:How would you behave if you already had it? Try that feeling on for size.

C) Release All Expectations:If you can simply let go of depending on the outcome for your happiness, you can focus on the actual process of making it more likely to get what you want.

D) Flip the Script:When you’re trapped in the need of something, your mind is too busy to actually help you get it.

If you flip this around and focus on what the other person/people might want or need, you are able to shift into a position of power!