Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 15 years and my husband is an associate pastor. He has office hours at the church and the church secretary is there from 9am-5pm. I started working part-time because I wanted to buy new furniture. I work in an artsy area of town at a craft store and there are several restaurants in the area. On 2 separate occasions, my husband called me to say he’d be in the area having lunch with some people from church................

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Dear Steve and Shirley, 2 years ago, I met the man of my dreams and he loves me, motivates me, and we can’t get enough of each other sexually. We've been talking about marriage and starting a family soon. There’s just one problem. Recently, I’d been thinking a lot about my ex-boyfriend and I decided to call to see how he’s been doing. I also wanted to let him know that I’d found happiness again...............

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in my early 50s and my husband and I have been married for 7 years. Since the beginning of our union, he knows that I’m able to manage all of our household expenses and he has taken advantage of it. I’ve funded a lot of hair-brained business schemes he’s invested in and lost a lot of money fooling with him. He’s had a string of jobs in leadership positions that I’ve helped him get, but the longest he’s stayed at one company is two years..............

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I was in a relationship with a man for 6 months, but we fell in love quickly and we were living together. He is 36 and I’m 31. He was going through a divorce when we met so I made him wait until the papers were signed before we had sex. He told me that his wife divorced him because he cheated on her multiple times. He told me that he cheated, simply cause his wife had stopped having sex with him.............

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Dear Steve and Shirley, a while back I met a man on a dating app and it was supposed to be just a one-night stand. He came over and we had the most explosive sex! After that, we talked all night. He lives out of town and when he got back home, we talked daily and spent hours getting to know each other. He came back to visit me because he was dying to have sex with me..............

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Dear Steve and Shirley I’m a 32 year old married woman and I’d normally never write in to you, but I heard you cover a topic that I’m going through so I’m turning to you for help. It’s about an issue I’ve been having with my husband since the quarantine began. He and I were having sex more than usual and it was getting boring. I wanted to spice things up with role-playing..........

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 40 year old black man with a lot of weight in my community. I’m a very well-known businessman and former professional football player. I’ve been married for 10 years and I have 3 children. My wife is very sweet and we never argue or have any issues with our children. Everything is great, except for our sex life. My wife is a good woman that is very reserved in the bedroom............

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 29 years old and my boyfriend is 30 and he’s an idiot. We have been together for 4 years and his ex-girlfriend and I were close friends before her man chose to be with me instead of her. I might have been wrong for dating him, but it felt like the right thing to do at the time. In the beginning, she tried to fight me 3 times and she showed up at my job once and I had her arrested. About a year ago, she started dating a new guy and she left us alone.............

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 40 years old and my boyfriend is a 45 year old, successful businessman. He’s divorced and has one kid from his marriage. We’ve been dating for 7 months and I love his kid and I get along well with his ex-wife. A few weeks ago, his ex and I were chatting in the driveway when she dropped their child off. She asked me if my boyfriend had revealed his big secret to me yet. I asked her what she was talking about and she assured me that it wasn’t about him cheating or anything like that, but it’s very strange and it was the cause of their divorce.

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I got married in January and I relocated to be with him, after the wedding. We dated for 2 years in a long-distance relationship before we got married. When I moved in with him, I found out he has a split personality. To my surprise, he used cocaine recreationally and he’s a binge drinker. I never saw this side of him when we were dating. The truth came out on our wedding day. He started drinking mid-day and looked like he was high..................

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