YOU GUYS! The EMILY NAGOSKI is on the pod, and I've never been more excited in my entire life. She is the author of Come As You Are, Come Together, Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle, and a really cool s*x expert.  She walks us through how to complete the stress cycle and make way for sexy time! We touch on stress in the body, partner-caused stress, stress hitting your s*x breaks, transitioning from stressed to turned on, completing the stress cycle, acute versus chronic stress, pleasure, and what kind of s*x is worth wanting! 

We also nibble on Bloomington, Indiana, fan fiction, commutes, nice hotels, Residence Inns, Trader Joe’s, recalled foods, Libby, and more.