What really happens when blame takes over our relationships—and how can we break free from its toxic grip?
In this thought-provoking episode of "Strong Mind, Strong Body," host Angie Miller and featured guest, Dr. Nilda Perez, dive into “The Cost of Blame: How It Hurts Relationships,” unpacking why finger-pointing is so destructive and what you can do about it.
Drawing from real-life examples and Dr. Perez's expertise in behavioral health, this episode goes deep into the “blame cycle”—how it often begins in childhood, shapes our adult interactions, and spirals into victimhood, isolation, anxiety, and even depression. Discover why chronic blamers act the way they do, the difference between healthy accountability and toxic blame, and how subtle language (“I’m sorry you feel that way...”) keeps us stuck.
You’ll learn practical, science-backed strategies to ditch the blame game—like pressing pause, taking true responsibility, embracing “both/and” thinking, and asking, “How does it feel to always be the victim?” This isn’t just self-help fluff: the episode reveals how blame rewires your brain and undermines both mental health and meaningful connection.
If you’re ready to transform your relationships, boost self-awareness, and truly step into your own power (or just want to end endless arguments), this is a must-listen. Tune into this encore presentation to find out how you can move from blame to genuine accountability—and why that shift changes everything.
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