Tabling Thoughts

Have you ever wondered if your relationship is nourishing you or quietly draining you? Closeness gives energy. Codependence erases you. In this Episode of the Tabling Thoughts podcast, I’ll show you how to recognize the difference and how to build love that feels like freedom, not obligation. This is part 1, stay tuned for the next episode! 

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Copyright Notice: All rights to this podcast and its content are exclusively owned by Solmaz Barghigr. This content is legally protected, and any unauthorized downloading, reproduction, or redistribution may have legal consequences. If you wish to share an episode, please do so only by sharing the official link from the platform where you are listening (such as Spotify, YouTube, Castbox, Buzzsprout, Apple Podcasts)

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You chase, they pull away! You stay hopefull, they stay distant! What if it's not about them at all, It's about a pattern wired deep inside you? In this episode, we unpack the psychology behind “Emotional Unavailability”. The fantasy that keeps us stock and the quiet heartbreak of loving people who can not love us back! Its not your fault! But, it's your pattern, and patterns can be broken.

Link to Reflect and Colour Book by Solmaz Barghgir

Setting Boundaries Workshop
The Miracle of Meditation to Overcome Fear
Self Steam Course
Relationship Course
Stress Course

Solmaz LinkedIn
Copyright Notice: All rights to this podcast and its content are exclusively owned by Solmaz Barghigr. This content is legally protected, and any unauthorized downloading, reproduction, or redistribution may have legal consequences. If you wish to share an episode, please do so only by sharing the official link from the platform where you are listening (such as Spotify, YouTube, Castbox, Buzzsprout, Apple Podcasts)
Music:
Song: Retro Groove (Upbeat Fun Retro)_ Main Version
License: Individual License, Commercial, APRA/AMCOS
Composer: Henrique Tavares Dib - APRA IPI: 00611600895
Email: [email protected]
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Lam Ta Kalaam CastBox
Lam Ta Kalaam Apple Podcast
Website:   www.barghgir.com
YouTube:  https://youtube.com/@solmazbarghgir

You can be confident in public and still doubt yourself in silence. In this episode, I'm talking about the gap between self esteem and self confidence. why do high-achievers feel like imposters? where does our sense of worth really come from? How do we stop performing and start belonging to ourselves?

Link to Reflect and Colour Book by Solmaz Barghgir

Setting Boundaries Workshop
The Miracle of Meditation to Overcome Fear
Self Steam Course
Relationship Course
Stress Course

Solmaz LinkedIn
Copyright Notice: All rights to this podcast and its content are exclusively owned by Solmaz Barghigr. This content is legally protected, and any unauthorized downloading, reproduction, or redistribution may have legal consequences. If you wish to share an episode, please do so only by sharing the official link from the platform where you are listening (such as Spotify, YouTube, Castbox, Buzzsprout, Apple Podcasts)
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Song: Retro Groove (Upbeat Fun Retro)_ Main Version
License: Individual License, Commercial, APRA/AMCOS
Composer: Henrique Tavares Dib - APRA IPI: 00611600895

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Website:   www.barghgir.com
YouTube:  https://youtube.com/@solmazbarghgir

Have you ever said, “I’m so tired,” but couldn’t quite explain why?

Maybe your body wasn’t sore, your sleep was fine, and yet something inside felt deeply worn out. That, my friend, is fatigue, but not just the physical kind.

In this episode, we explore the many faces of fatigue and why it’s more complex than we often realize.

Link to Reflect and Colour Book by Solmaz Barghgir

Setting Boundaries Workshop
The Miracle of Meditation to Overcome Fear
Self Steam Course
Relationship Course
Stress Course
Copyright Notice: All rights to this podcast and its content are exclusively owned by Solmaz Barghigr. This content is legally protected, and any unauthorized downloading, reproduction, or redistribution may have legal consequences. If you wish to share an episode, please do so only by sharing the official link from the platform where you are listening (such as Spotify, YouTube, Castbox, Buzzsprout, Apple Podcasts)
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Song: Retro Groove (Upbeat Fun Retro)_ Main Version
License: Individual License, Commercial, APRA/AMCOS
Composer: Henrique Tavares Dib - APRA IPI: 00611600895

Email: [email protected]
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Website:   www.barghgir.com
YouTube:  https://youtube.com/@solmazbarghgir

Safe But Heavy: The Guilt of Being Okay When Others Aren’t. Survivor’s Guilt.

You’re safe… but your heart is heavy.

You laugh… and then guilt creeps in.

In this episode of Tabling Thought, we unpack the quiet weight of survivor’s guilt—that uneasy feeling of being okay while others are hurting. Is your peace a betrayal? Can you hold space for your own joy without denying someone else’s pain? Let’s explore how to sit with this complex emotion, without abandoning yourself in the process.

Link to Reflect and Colour Book by Solmaz Barghgir

Setting Boundaries Workshop
The Miracle of Meditation to Overcome Fear
Self Steam Course
Relationship Course
Stress Course
Copyright Notice: All rights to this podcast and its content are exclusively owned by Solmaz Barghigr. This content is legally protected, and any unauthorized downloading, reproduction, or redistribution may have legal consequences. If you wish to share an episode, please do so only by sharing the official link from the platform where you are listening (such as Spotify, YouTube, Castbox, Buzzsprout, Apple Podcasts)
Music:
Song: Retro Groove (Upbeat Fun Retro)_ Main Version
License: Individual License, Commercial, APRA/AMCOS
Composer: Henrique Tavares Dib - APRA IPI: 00611600895

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Website:   www.barghgir.com
YouTube:  https://youtube.com/@solmazbarghgir

Are you truly at peace — or just afraid of conflict?

Silence isn’t always a sign of calm; sometimes, it’s self-abandonment. In this episode, we unpack the hidden cost of staying quiet and explore the power of speaking our truth.

Link to Reflect and Colour Book by Solmaz Barghgir

Setting Boundaries Workshop
The Miracle of Meditation to Overcome Fear
Self Steam Course
Relationship Course
Stress Course
Copyright Notice: All rights to this podcast and its content are exclusively owned by Solmaz Barghigr. This content is legally protected, and any unauthorized downloading, reproduction, or redistribution may have legal consequences. If you wish to share an episode, please do so only by sharing the official link from the platform where you are listening (such as Spotify, YouTube, Castbox, Buzzsprout, Apple Podcasts)
Music:
Song: Retro Groove (Upbeat Fun Retro)_ Main Version
License: Individual License, Commercial, APRA/AMCOS
Composer: Henrique Tavares Dib - APRA IPI: 00611600895

Email: [email protected]
Solmaz_Barghgir_Coach Instagram
Tabling Thoughts Instagram
Lam Ta Kalaam CastBox
Lam Ta Kalaam Apple Podcast
Website:   www.barghgir.com
YouTube:  https://youtube.com/@solmazbarghgir

Ever wonder why you keep attracting the same kind of person, even after all that healing?

It’s not bad luck — it’s your nervous system chasing the familiar. In this episode, we dive deep into why this happens and share practical techniques to help you break the cycle and create healthier relationships. 

Tune in and take the next step in your healing journey. 

Link to Reflect and Colour Book by Solmaz Barghgir

Setting Boundaries Workshop
The Miracle of Meditation to Overcome Fear
Self Steam Course
Relationship Course
Stress Course
Copyright Notice: All rights to this podcast and its content are exclusively owned by Solmaz Barghigr. This content is legally protected, and any unauthorized downloading, reproduction, or redistribution may have legal consequences. If you wish to share an episode, please do so only by sharing the official link from the platform where you are listening (such as Spotify, YouTube, Castbox, Buzzsprout, Apple Podcasts)
Music:
Song: Retro Groove (Upbeat Fun Retro)_ Main Version
License: Individual License, Commercial, APRA/AMCOS
Composer: Henrique Tavares Dib - APRA IPI: 00611600895

Email: [email protected]
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Lam Ta Kalaam CastBox
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Website:   www.barghgir.com
YouTube:  https://youtube.com/@solmazbarghgir

It's not on a checklist, it's not in your job description, but it's always on your mind! the mental load, the emotional labour, the constant effort to hold it all together quietly. in the 30th episode of "Tabling Thought" podcast we finally give that invisible work a voice.

Link to Reflect and Colour Book by Solmaz Barghgir

Setting Boundaries Workshop
The Miracle of Meditation to Overcome Fear
Self Steam Course
Relationship Course
Stress Course
Copyright Notice: All rights to this podcast and its content are exclusively owned by Solmaz Barghigr. This content is legally protected, and any unauthorized downloading, reproduction, or redistribution may have legal consequences. If you wish to share an episode, please do so only by sharing the official link from the platform where you are listening (such as Spotify, YouTube, Castbox, Buzzsprout, Apple Podcasts)
Music:
Song: Retro Groove (Upbeat Fun Retro)_ Main Version
License: Individual License, Commercial, APRA/AMCOS
Composer: Henrique Tavares Dib - APRA IPI: 00611600895

Email: [email protected]
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Tabling Thoughts Instagram
Lam Ta Kalaam CastBox
Lam Ta Kalaam Apple Podcast
Website:   www.barghgir.com
YouTube:  https://youtube.com/@solmazbarghgir

Link to Reflect and Colour Book by Solmaz Barghgir

Setting Boundaries Workshop
The Miracle of Meditation to Overcome Fear
Self Steam Course
Relationship Course
Stress Course

Music:
Song: Retro Groove (Upbeat Fun Retro)_ Main Version
License: Individual License, Commercial, APRA/AMCOS
Composer: Henrique Tavares Dib - APRA IPI: 00611600895

Email: [email protected]
Solmaz_Barghgir_Coach Instagram
Tabling Thoughts Instagram
Lam Ta Kalaam CastBox
Lam Ta Kalaam Apple Podcast

Why is mental health such a taboo in many immigrant families? what keeps us from seeking help even when we are seriously and deeply hurting? in this episode of tabling thoughts podcast we will explore the cultural roots of silence the emotional toll of immigration and how we can begin to heal, so let's break the silence together. 

Link to Reflect and Colour Book by Solmaz Barghgir

Setting Boundaries Workshop
The Miracle of Meditation to Overcome Fear
Self Steam Course
Relationship Course
Stress Course
Copyright Notice: All rights to this podcast and its content are exclusively owned by Solmaz Barghigr. This content is legally protected, and any unauthorized downloading, reproduction, or redistribution may have legal consequences. If you wish to share an episode, please do so only by sharing the official link from the platform where you are listening (such as Spotify, YouTube, Castbox, Buzzsprout, Apple Podcasts)
Music:
Song: Retro Groove (Upbeat Fun Retro)_ Main Version
License: Individual License, Commercial, APRA/AMCOS
Composer: Henrique Tavares Dib - APRA IPI: 00611600895

Email: [email protected]
Solmaz_Barghgir_Coach Instagram
Tabling Thoughts Instagram
Lam Ta Kalaam CastBox
Lam Ta Kalaam Apple Podcast
Website:   www.barghgir.com
YouTube:  https://youtube.com/@solmazbarghgir

You have built a life that others admire. Maybe you have moved to countries, got the degree, started a family, or even built a business. But there is this voice that still whispers : “Is this all ?!”. In this episode we will talk about when success doesn’t feel like enough and why high achievers still feel empty. 

Link to Reflect and Colour Book by Solmaz Barghgir

Setting Boundaries Workshop
The Miracle of Meditation to Overcome Fear
Self Steam Course
Relationship Course
Stress Course
Copyright Notice: All rights to this podcast and its content are exclusively owned by Solmaz Barghigr. This content is legally protected, and any unauthorized downloading, reproduction, or redistribution may have legal consequences. If you wish to share an episode, please do so only by sharing the official link from the platform where you are listening (such as Spotify, YouTube, Castbox, Buzzsprout, Apple Podcasts)
Music:
Song: Retro Groove (Upbeat Fun Retro)_ Main Version
License: Individual License, Commercial, APRA/AMCOS
Composer: Henrique Tavares Dib - APRA IPI: 00611600895

Email: [email protected]
Solmaz_Barghgir_Coach Instagram
Tabling Thoughts Instagram
Lam Ta Kalaam CastBox
Lam Ta Kalaam Apple Podcast
Website:   www.barghgir.com
YouTube:  https://youtube.com/@solmazbarghgir