Will Humphreys sits down with Jennie Dildine, a certified life coach and host of the LDS Mission Podcast, to talk about what actually helps missionaries before they leave, while they are serving, and after they come home. Jennie has spent seven years coaching missionaries and their parents through anxiety, burnout, identity struggles, and the transition home, and in this episode she breaks down what she has learned.
The conversation is rooted in Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf's talk Forget Me Not from October 2011. Jennie read the talk, replaced every mention of sisters with missionaries and elders and sisters, and found something she now teaches nearly everyone she works with: five things missionaries, and the people who love them, are not supposed to forget.
In This Episode, Will and Jennie Discuss:
- Why Jennie became a certified life coach for missionaries and their parents, and the moment that convinced her this was her calling
- Elder Uchtdorf's Forget Me Not talk and the five things it teaches missionaries never to forget
- Why worth was never tied to goals met, lessons taught, or how a mission looks from the outside
- The normalize, validate, and repeat method for what to say when a missionary wants to come home
- The missionary spiral, and how a single hard moment turns into guilt, shame, and frustration
- Support versus challenge, and how parents can find the right balance for their missionary
- How to prepare a missionary before they leave, including five things to teach before departure
- Navigating romantic relationships before and during a mission
- The biggest myth about returned missionaries, and what actually helps them transition home
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