Renowned author, speaker, facilitator of consciousness and change, and the co-creator of Access Consciousness, Dr. Dain Heer joins Chelsea for a deep conversation. That seems like a given and, yet, in hearing this episode back it hit me that the depth in this conversation really is multi-dimensional. Not only will hear how being the only white kid in the neighborhood taught him about judgment, but you'll hear about the dynamic abuse he suffered at the hands of women—an experience that awoke the seeker in him.

We spoke about how putting suicide on the agenda pushed him out toward life, the question you can ask yourself to see whether you're telling yourself a lie or hearing your truth, how we have a hand in building the wall of judgment that separates us in relationships, why freedom means knowing you have choice, and how the belief that we're only good and successful in relationship, if we make it last forever  is harming our growth. Plus, so much more.

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Website: https://drdainheer.com
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At the time of her accident, Linda Olson, author of Gone: A Memoir of Love, Body, and Taking Back My Life, had it all. She and her husband were both young doctors traveling through Germany when a train hit their van in an accident that shattered their lives—and Linda's body—forever.

Now, as a triple amputee, Linda opens up about the pact her and her husband made when they were first reunited in the hospital and why the family secret they kept for 35-years was an important part of why their lives turned out so well.

She talks about dropping the blame game and never looking back at "what-if," using humor to make others comfortable with her disability, why initiating contact with a single word—hello—kept her from being left behind in her new life and how a recent Parkison's diagnosis is daring her, once again, to overcome limitations through a mindset of innovation.

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Website: www.lindakolson.com
Amazon: Gone: A Memoir of Love, Body, and Taking Back My Life

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With 20 World Cup and World Championships Medals in Tumbling and Double Mini Trampoline, Kalon Ludvigson became an American trampoline and tumbling champion. Then, in 2013, he suffered a spinal injury that left him paralyzed.

In conversation with Chelsea, he opens up about the discomfort of being overlooked and how he celebrates those who are courageous enough to approach and ask him questions rather than stare, assume, or look away.  He talks about his struggle to leave a toxic relationship, the loving relationship he is in now, no longer sweating the small stuff, where he finds his identity, and what freedom looks like to him today.

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"You check the substances at the door but you get this pass to be able to live with this way of running your life so you're always in a step, so to speak," certified Life and Spiritual coach, Hypnotherapist, and certified Meditation teacher Ryan Haddon shares, opening up 4 minutes in about the disease of denial (otherwise known as addiction), the not good enough and not enough voice that propelled her toward alcoholism and co-dependency, and how working the steps proved to be the first practical, spiritual program for living that made a miraculous difference.

Ryan talks about the affection she feels toward her ex-husband, a gentle compassion that comes from being in the trenches together and seeing him now as the teacher he is, how dating emotionally unavailable men may sound like a heroic plea for love but is really an invitation to have a mirror held up to your face, why the best question to ask yourself at the altar of your relationship is, what am I bringing? and how true love can happen in a moment when you're toiling and conscious of your wounds and trauma. In other words, don't wait for perfection, but do stay in your lane and grow out the good in you.

Plus, so many more gems.

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Website: https://ryanhaddon.com
Courses & Offerings: https://ryanhaddon.com/courses-and-offerings
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryanhaddoncoach
Poosh Articles: https://poosh.com/author/ryan-haddon

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Author of the recently released memoir I'm So Glad You're Here, Pamela Gay opens up about the ramifications of growing up around her father's mental illness, how suffering from PTSD of abandonment infected her romantic relationships, and the healing power of EDMR therapy.

To connect with Pamela, visit her:

Website: https://pamela-gay.com
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Digital Wellness Coach and Founder of TTYL—a tech-free community dedicated to human connection—Liana Pavane joins Chelsea 4 minutes in to talk about being blindsided by a breakup during quarantine, how ambition and finances can complicate the dating process, why male insecurities make men human not weak, and how sometimes the most powerful way to let a man leave you is in tears.

To connect with Liana, visit her:

Website: www.ttylnyc.com
Coaching: www.ttylnyc.com/coaching
Events: www.ttylnyc.com/workshops
Instagram: www.instagram.com/lianacolada
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Author of Relationship. Are you sure you want one?, global Access Consciousness® facilitator, entrepreneur, business and life mentor Brendon Watt joins Chelsea 6:15 minutes in to talk about just how much the world needs us to be different, the ways we invent our needs to validate what we decide we lack, and why our guiding question should always be, if I choose this, will I have more of me?

To connect with Brandon, visit his:

Website: https://www.brendonwatt.com
Relationship. Are you sure you want one? via Amazon
SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/brendonwatt
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/accessbrendonwatt
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brendonwattcfmw

Relationships Done Different:
Website: https://www.relationshipsdonedifferent.com
SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/access-consciousness/sets/relationships-done-different
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Journalist and author of The World Looks Different Now: A Memoir of Suicide, Faith, and Family Margaret Thomson joins Chelsea 4:30 minutes in to talk about the nearly impossible journey of coming to terms with her son’s suicide, her choice to not blunt the pain but, rather, feel the enormity and intensity of her agony, and how resiliency serves as a great protector from death and in the midst of grief.

To connect with Margaret, visit her:

Website: https://margaretrileythomson.com
Memoir: The World Looks Different Now
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TEDx speaker, workshop leader, five-star author of The Ego Cleanse: Becoming Your Own Best Friend, and the founder of The Rise Organization Randy Haveson joins Chelsea 13:30 minutes in to talk about his mission to shift us from an ego-driven society to a self-esteem society, the difference between being humbled and humiliated and A-frame relationships and H-frame relationships, the tools to keep us from turning hurdles into walls, how the feeling of falling short was his gateway into 11 years of drug abuse and how, with 36 years of sobriety under his wing, it's humbling to know "I'm still here."

To connect with Randy, visit his:

Website: https://randyspeaks.com
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Books via Amazon: The Ego Cleanse: Becoming Your Own Best Friend and Party with a Plan
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Brand Designer and Strategist, Nikki Arensman, joins Chelsea 5 minutes in to talk about how a knack for listening to a “ping” from the universe and remaining unattached enables her to take bold risks in business, how a few crazy coincidences and a dose of emotional unavailability aided her in committing to her husband, the value of trusting in and following the gut hit in your body, managing the downward mental spiral of anxiety, and the two questions that plague people most: how and why?

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Website: www.nikkiarensman.com
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Podcast: The Business of Branding 
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