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[S2] EPISODE 4: A SERIOUS WAKE-UP CALL

In this episode, Blaque sits with Jabulile of Men Speak With Jabulile who grew up believing that men were unreliable, untrustworthy, and ultimately dispensable in marriage. Raised by a feminist mother who lowered her expectations of men and was discipled by a divorced female pastor who unknowingly passed down unhealthy marital habits, she entered marriage with a mindset that slowly unravelled her relationship. But when divorce forced her to confront her own shortcomings, she realized a sobering truth—her expectations, beliefs, and behaviours had contributed just as much to the breakdown of her marriage as her ex-husband’s actions.

Now, after deep personal work and accountability, Jabu is on a mission to change the conversation. Instead of silencing men, she wants to empower them to speak up, lead with confidence, and take their rightful place in shaping stronger marriages and families. Through her journey, she’s discovered that men aren’t the problem—silencing them is. In this episode, she shares what she’s learned, the painful realisations she faced, and why she now believes that men hold the key to changing the future of marriages in our country.

If you’ve ever felt unheard in your marriage or struggled with the weight of unrealistic expectations, if you're a husband struggling to be heard, or a wife who wants to understand marriage from a new perspective, this episode is for you. Join us as we unpack the lessons Jabulile learned the hard way and explore how husbands can reclaim their voice, their role, and their impact in building thriving marriages.

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[S2] EPISODE 3: FEELING STUCK, FEELING LOST?

In this raw and honest episode, Blaque and Lilly dive deep into the complexities of marriage and personal growth. They reflect on the emotional struggles that can lie beneath the surface of everyday issues, like domestic chores, and how these seemingly small tasks often carry larger emotional weight. Through humor and vulnerability, they discuss how unresolved fears—like the fear of losing control or not being enough—can manifest in ways that affect your commitment to your partner.

The episode also highlights the importance of nurturing both yourself and your marriage. Blaque and Lilly emphasize how prioritizing your own physical, mental, and spiritual well-being can transform your relationship. The concept of weekly check-ins provides a practical way to address tension before it builds up, creating a proactive approach to marriage.

The conversation goes deeper as they explore how subconscious patterns, shaped by our upbringing, can influence how we show up in our relationships. They discuss the delicate balance between “expecting the worst” and fully committing to your spouse, creating space for openness, honesty, and connection.

This episode will make you think about your own approach to marriage, especially when it comes to leadership and self-care. How do you care for yourself while leading your family? How do your habits and fears shape your commitment? Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation!.

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[S2] EPISODE 2: YOU CAN NEVER BE TOO HONEST

In this episode, we explore the highs and lows of navigating marriage and faith as Charlie opens up about his journey of growth and intentionality in every area of life. From the struggles to the breakthroughs, his honest reflections on marriage highlight the importance of being intentional, especially when it comes to creating peace and emotional security at home. It’s easy to overlook these foundational elements, but Charlie beautifully shows how the effort of nurturing a home that’s rooted in love and faith leads to a stronger bond and a deeper connection with his wife. His message about building a marriage centered around spiritual and emotional growth resonates deeply with any man seeking to lead in this way.

The conversation takes a powerful turn when Charlie speaks about stewarding his singleness before marriage. His reminder that there’s no rush to jump into relationships without first understanding the value of working on yourself is a critical lesson for younger men. Too often, society pressures us to test the waters of life before we’ve even learned to manage our own emotional and spiritual health. His message encourages men to lean into this season of singleness as a time for personal growth, so they can enter relationships and marriages with a healthier, more intentional mindset.

The episode also takes a vulnerable look at how faith plays an integral role in overcoming the challenges of marriage. Charlie shares how leaning on God and supporting each other in marriage has led to significant personal growth. He’s transparent about the hard moments and the work it takes to nurture a healthy marriage, encouraging men to seek support when needed and remain authentic in their relationships. This conversation is a powerful reminder that becoming the man God created you to be requires commitment, humility, and an openness to grow every single day.

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[S2] EPISODE 1: REPAIRABLE MISTAKE

Have you ever looked at those couples who seem to navigate life in perfect sync and wondered, “What’s their secret?” The truth is, it’s not magic—it’s intentional living. For so many of us in South Africa, where cultural diversity and unique challenges shape our relationships, this practice can be the difference between thriving together and growing apart. In this video, we’re exploring what it takes to align your dreams, values, and goals with your partner, creating a shared vision that keeps your relationship grounded and purposeful.

Unmet expectations—or worse, uncommunicated ones—are often the invisible threads pulling couples apart. You might think it’s about money or intimacy, but those are often just symptoms of deeper frustrations. Maybe you feel stuck in a career that can’t support your dreams, or perhaps unspoken resentments are spilling into the bedroom. The drift doesn’t always start with a big fight; sometimes, it’s the slow erosion of connection as life pulls you in different directions. But here’s the good news: intentional living can be the anchor that keeps you together through every season.

In this episode, we’re giving you practical tools to realign as a couple. From identifying shared values to setting goals and scheduling regular check-ins, this is about more than just surviving—it’s about thriving together. We’ll share real insights and a take-home challenge to help you start aligning your vision today. Because when your marriage is rooted in purpose, it doesn’t just transform your relationship; it becomes a testimony of unity and hope for your family, your community, and yes, for South Africa. Let’s take that first intentional step—together.

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In this reflective episode, we take a moment to celebrate the growth and journey we've experienced throughout this season. Looking back, we’re filled with gratitude for the incredible guests who joined us, sharing their wisdom and insights on everything from communication and vulnerability to faith and resilience in marriage. The conversations were authentic, often messy, but always real—showing the ups and downs of marriage while inspiring our listeners to keep pressing forward. We’re honored to have had such meaningful discussions that illuminated the value of husbandhood and deepened our collective understanding of what it means to be a committed partner, father, and friend.

As we’ve navigated this season, our aim has always been to be as realistic as possible—highlighting both the beauty and the struggles of marriage. We’ve heard from you, our listeners, and your feedback has been nothing short of encouraging. Whether you're in the newlywed phase, dealing with the complexities of raising children, or experiencing the unique challenges of long-term marriage, our mission has been to offer truth, hope, and tangible tools to help you in every stage. It’s been a privilege to connect with so many of you and witness firsthand how this community has grown stronger. Your stories and comments have blessed us deeply, and we're more motivated than ever to continue this journey alongside you.

Looking ahead to 2025, we’re excited to expand our reach and impact even further. We're planning in-person meetups and sessions to connect face-to-face, providing a platform for deeper, more personal conversations. We’re also launching new merch, events, and even books—designed to continue empowering husbands in their growth journey. This is just the beginning, and we can't wait to see how this movement continues to grow. Thank you for being a part of That Husband Podcast and for making this community what it is today. Your support, comments, and feedback have been a constant source of inspiration for us, and we’re looking forward to all that’s to come! 

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[S1] EPISODE 40: PREMARITAL

In this episode we dive deep into the importance of preparation in marriage, exploring the spiritual and practical aspects of building a strong foundation. From navigating personal growth to understanding the value of premarital counselling, Tshwari shares his personal journey and the lessons he’s learned along the way. He highlights how self-awareness, patience, and embracing God's timing are crucial in shaping a relationship that honours both partners.

We also tackle some of the tough, often unspoken aspects of marriage prep, such as the impact of personal histories, emotional programming, and the vital role of vulnerability in communication. Tshwari emphasizes the importance of being honest about your past and how addressing these issues head-on can set you up for a more resilient and connected marriage.

Finally, we discuss the role of work, responsibility, and humility in preparing for marriage. We focus on how it's not just about chasing big dreams but about being faithful in the small, steady tasks that contribute to long-term stability and growth. This episode is packed with wisdom, humour, and real-life insights that will encourage and inspire both current and aspiring husbands.

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S1] EPISODE 39: LIVE FOR THEM NOW, DON'T BE A HERO AT THE END!

In this heartfelt and humorous episode, we dive into the rich, complex world of parenting five daughters, ranging from a curious three-year-old to a blossoming sixteen-year-old. We explore the joys and challenges of raising girls with distinct personalities and navigating sibling dynamics, from the competition over matching outfits to the marshmallow-sweet moments of unconditional love. Hear how one father grapples with the unexpected blessing of twins during the pandemic, the possibility of having a son but realizing God knew exactly what he needed, and how each child has taught him something profound about life, patience, and faith.

Marriage takes center stage as we unpack how this couple nurtures their love amidst the demands of a large family. From frequent getaways and uncompromised date nights to facing financial hardships with resilience, their commitment to “moving toward each other” serves as a foundation for their home. They candidly share how a night nanny, gym sessions, and worship help them maintain their sanity, while navigating the ups and downs of being a big family. With authenticity, they recount how their love spills over into their parenting, showing their daughters the power of a united couple.

Bevin offers a treasure trove of insights for fathers and husbands alike, emphasizing the importance of health, self-care, and speaking life into your marriage. Whether it’s tough-love gym sessions with your spouse, making dietary changes before your fifties, or savoring every fleeting moment with your kids, this conversation is both a challenge and an inspiration. Tune in for stories of triumph, love, and the kind of wisdom that only comes from raising five little souls and cherishing the one who shares the journey with you.

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[S1] EPISODE 38: FAITH, STRENGTH & HOPE...

In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with SAFTA-winning director Ricardo 'Ricwa' Klaasen for a raw and reflective conversation about faith, family, and the transformative power of commitment. Ricwa takes us on a journey through his 13 years of marriage, sharing how he and his wife began their life together in a Wendy house, raising two children and later on having to navigate the unique challenges of parenting a son with autism. Through financial setbacks and career sacrifices, his wife’s steadfast support and their shared faith in Jesus Christ became the pillars that held their family together.

Ricwa opens up about the struggles many men face but often keep hidden—fighting to provide, wrestling with self-doubt, and learning to surrender the weight of leadership to God. He reflects on the enduring legacy of his parents’ 40-year marriage and the lessons it taught him about perseverance and love. He also speaks to the beauty of intentionality in relationships, recounting the influence of friends who model what it means to love with purpose. With candor and gratitude, Ricwa unpacks how celebrating the small wins, keeping Christ at the center, and embracing faith over fear have shaped his identity as a husband and father.

This episode is an emotional and inspiring exploration of what it means to lead a family with grace and courage. Ricwa’s story is a powerful reminder that even in life’s messiest and most uncertain seasons, God’s faithfulness never falters. For husbands seeking to grow, reconnect, or simply feel seen, this conversation offers a space to reflect, be challenged, and find hope.

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[S1] EPISODE 37: WHAT ARE GOING TO CHOOSE?

Honouring absent fathers is a profound act of maturity and intentionality, requiring deep reflection and a commitment to healing. In today's episode, Blaque sits down with Seta to explore what it looks like to honor their fathers despite their absence. Seta shares how his uncle stepped in as a father figure, modeling strength and manhood in a way that provided him with a solid foundation. Together, Blaque and Seta delve into the scars left by absent fathers and the long journey toward wholeness, discussing how therapy, faith, and deliberate effort have played vital roles in their healing. Seta also opens up about the incredible support of his wife, who has stood by him in his hardest moments, offering unwavering love and encouragement through his struggles.

The conversation shifts to marriage, where Seta emphasises the importance of men stepping up as husbands and fathers. From the value of regular date nights to navigating financial challenges, he shares how tough conversations with his wife shaped him into a better partner. One such moment involved confronting the insecurities that led him to overspend on his bakkie—a humbling experience that taught him the value of vulnerability and growth. Through these honest reflections, Seta offers practical advice for men looking to strengthen their relationships and become better for their families.

Finally, the episode dives into fatherhood, as Seta reflects on the kind of dad he wants to be for his children. Drawing lessons from his own upbringing, he speaks about breaking generational cycles and building a legacy of love and presence. Whether you’re navigating the challenges of marriage, reflecting on your role as a father, or striving to grow as a man, this episode is packed with wisdom, authenticity, and hope for the journey ahead.

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[S1] EPISODE 36: UNDER SCRUTINY

In this episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Priviledge to reflect on his first 11 months of marriage. We discuss the reality of early marriage, the disconnect between expectations and the challenges that arise, and the growth that comes with working through those struggles. Privilege shares how his idealised views on marriage have been reshaped by experience, leading him to greater self-awareness and a deeper understanding of love.

The conversation delves into the messy but rewarding process of navigating conflicts and learning how to show up fully in a relationship, all while figuring out how to love better. We then explore the evolving roles of husbands in today’s world, discussing the need for clear communication and flexibility in how responsibilities are shared.

We tackle the generational shift in marriage dynamics, where today's husbands are more involved in household tasks and childcare, but also face new challenges without traditional role models. The conversation highlights the importance of sacrificial love versus compromising love and how marriage requires both partners to adjust their expectations and align on a shared vision. We emphasize that true leadership in marriage is about guiding your wife toward Christ, not demanding submission.

With a focus on growth, mutual respect, and faith, the episode provides valuable insights into how husbands can embrace their roles as leaders, partners, and spiritual heads of their households. We encourage men to approach marriage with realistic expectations, understanding that the difficult moments can strengthen their bond and lead to deeper love.

It’s a reminder that being a husband is a God-given mandate, and through love, patience, and continuous growth, husbands can build a strong foundation for their marriages.