That Husband Podcast

By That Husband Podcast

Husbands trying to know better so that we can do better

Hosted By Blaque Nubon

New episodes every Wednesday!... more

5

44 ratings

Download on the App Store

Download on the App Store

Get it on Google Play

FAQs about That Husband Podcast:

How many episodes does That Husband Podcast have?

The podcast currently has 101 episodes available.

That Husband Podcast episodes:

August 06, 2025 What’s The Point Of Winning At Work While You're Destroying Your Home? | Ezekiel Nkotsoe
Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources

[S2] EPISODE 29: ALTAR OF AMBITION

In this episode, we sit down with Ezekiel Nkotsoe, seven months into marriage and already confronted with the question most men never dare to ask: "Am I idolizing success at the expense of my wife?" Ezekiel shares how his obsession with performance, numbers, and being “the best” collided head-on with the quiet but holy demands of marriage. What began as a journey to build wealth and legacy was slowly revealed as a quest for validation, rooted in childhood trauma and masked as ambition.

As husbands, we often say we’re grinding “for the family,” but how many Christmases can you miss before you’ve actually started grinding away from them? Ezekiel opens up about the difficult conversations with his wife, his coach, and God, uncovering the subtle lies we believe about ambition, provision, and masculinity. He reminds us that spiritual, emotional, and physical presence matters more than the car you pull into the driveway. And sometimes, the most godly ambition is learning to be content, to be present, and to serve the family God has placed in front of you.

This episode is not just for the high performers or sales guys in Jozi, it’s for every husband trying to reconcile his grind with his calling. Whether you’re newly married, seasoned, or still considering what kind of man you want to be, this conversation is a sacred space for honest reflection. Because at the end of the day, no amount of ambition can hold your hand when you're old, only the woman you chose to love well can do that.

#thathusbandpodcast #ChristianHusbands #MarriageMatters #godlymarriage #husbandswholead #FaithAndAmbition #MarriageOverMoney #contentmentinchrist #menofgod #christianmanhood #MarriageIsWork #BlackLoveMatters #generationalwealth #AmbitionWithPurpose #FaithfulNotFamous #HusbandsSupportingHusbands #ModernMarriageTalks #HustleAndHoliness #EmotionalProvision #GodlyMasculinity #KingdomMen #christcenteredmarriage #marriagepodcast #RealTalkForHusbands #marriageandfaith

...more
1h 37min
July 30, 2025 Divorce, Loss, Hitting Rock Bottom - My Struggle To Provide For My Family | Caskey Ndaba
Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources

[S2] EPISODE 28: DON'T LEAVE A MESS BEHIND

What happens when the baton is passed to us and we’re not ready to carry it? In this conversation with the incredibly grounded and eloquent Caskey Ndaba, we talk about what it means to become the uncles, the fathers, the leaders we once looked up to. From drafting a will to defining a family vision, we wrestle with the reality of death, not in fear, but in wisdom. Caskey reminds us that masculinity is less about the muscle and more about the mind, and that real manhood means planning, preparing, and protecting.

Mr. Ndaba opens up about walking from Diepsloot to Centurion to restart his life after losing everything, including his home and career. He shares how his divorce and later, the tragic loss of his children’s mother, shaped his journey as a father and a husband. These are not just stories, they are scars with purpose. His vulnerability, wrapped in clarity and determination, reminds us that being a husband is not about perfection but about showing up, again and again, even when it hurts.

We don’t just talk policies and funeral plans, we go deeper into the fears, insecurities, and silence that often keep men from leading well. Whether you're a newlywed, a father of three, or a man trying to fix the brokenness you inherited, this episode offers both a mirror and a map. Because in the end, being a husband isn’t just about loving your family, it’s about leaving them ready when you’re no longer here. Let’s talk legacy, leadership, and love—because silence is no longer an option.

#thathusbandpodcast #failingforward #legacybuilding #husbandswholead #fatherhoodmatters #BlackMenLead #purposedrivenmen #masculinityredefined #ManhoodJourney #menoffaith #VisionForFamily #DeathPreparedness #WillAndTestament #lifeinsurancematters #financialfitness #ModernHusband #healingfromloss #breakinggenerationalcycles #BePresentDad #ManUpMovement #authenticmanhood #griefandgrace #RealMenPlan #LeadershipInMarriage #intentionalliving

...more
1h 58min
July 23, 2025 ⁠Why Getting Married In Your 30's Doesn't Make You More Ready | Sbu Dube
Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources

[S2] EPISODE 27: CALLED TO BE PRESENT, NOT PERFECT!

This week we sit down with Sbu Dube, for a heartfelt conversation where he opens up about the sacred moment he chose to love not just his wife, but her child too. He shares the weighty but beautiful decision of stepping into marriage with intention, not as a rescue plan, but as a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church. With honesty and humility, he reminds us that becoming a husband isn’t about perfection, but instead, it’s about presence, sacrifice, and a willingness to grow.

Together, we explore the quiet fears that fathers often carry, the pressure to get marriage “right,” and how grace makes space for dreams to flourish in the home. Sbu's story takes us through his upbringing in a family that modeled long-term commitment, the lessons he gleaned from watching his father provide with silent strength, and how he carries those values into raising his own children. From changing nappies with trembling hands to the sacred joy of baptising his daughter, Sbu reveals that fatherhood isn’t just a title, it’s a calling, and sometimes, it starts the moment you say "I do."

Whether you’re in the thick of raising young children, navigating a busy work-life balance, or wrestling with the tension between dreams and duty, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone. It's a call to stay home, not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually. Because being a husband and father is less about doing everything right, and more about being right there when it matters most.

Get in touch with us - [email protected]

FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON...
TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

#thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsWhoLead #christianmarriage #blacklovestories #IntentionalFatherhood #modernmarriage #StepdadLove #marriagegodsway #PresentFathers #fathersmatter #faithandfamily #biblicalmanhood #marriagewisdom #lovelikechrist #parentingwithpurpose #husbandgoals #menoffaith #StayAtHomeDadVibes #marriageconversations #legacybuilding #fatherhoodjourney #godlymarriages #dadlifeunfiltered #christcenteredmarriage #marriagematters

...more
1h 45min
July 16, 2025 The Danger Of Marrying Someone Who Can't Handle You | Tshepo Hlongwane
Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources

[S2] EPISODE 26: BE THE HUSBAND YOU ENVISIONED

What does it mean to be a husband in a world that’s constantly shifting its standards? In this episode, we sit with Tshepo Hlongwane, not just to talk about marriage, but to reflect on the weight and wonder of this sacred calling. From the lessons of mentorship, the quiet strength found in friendship with your spouse, to the spiritual responsibility of protecting your family, not just from physical harm but from the subtle spiritual battles, we leave no stone unturned. This is a conversation about choosing to show up even when it's hard, about repentance before repair, and about seeing your wife as a friend before a role.

We dive into the real stuff. What happens when you're called to lead but feel underqualified? When your personal wiring clashes with your spouse's? When your dreams won’t let you rest? This episode unpacks how men can steward their marriages, their emotions, and their faith without letting shame or culture dictate the pace. Through laughter, conviction, and layered storytelling, this isn’t just theory, it’s lived experience. Blaque & Tshepo, wrestle with the everyday decisions that shape the men they become at home.

If you're a husband who’s ever asked, "Am I doing enough? Am I becoming who God called me to be?", this episode is for you. Whether you’re newlywed, ten years deep, or just dreaming of what kind of husband you want to be, this conversation will meet you where you are. And it will push you, gently, intentionally, toward growth, friendship, and spiritual clarity. This is not just a podcast, it’s a mirror, it's a map, and it's a call to step up.

Get in touch with us - [email protected]

FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON...
TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

#ThatHusbandPodcast #ChristianHusband #FaithfulMen #KingdomMarriage #MarriageMatters #GodlyManhood #HusbandLife #LeadWithLove #MenOfFaith #HusbandGoals #MarriageGodsWay #SpiritualLeadership #BiblicalManhood #ProtectAndProvide #MenWhoPray #HusbandsWhoLead #RealMenRealTalk #MarriageConversations #MentorshipMatters #FriendshipInMarriage #ChristCenteredMarriage #HusbandGrowth #PurposeDrivenMarriage #ModernManOfGod #StepUpHusbands

...more
1h 29min
July 09, 2025 ⁠I Hid My Pain So I Wouldn't Look Weak: The Price Men Pay To Pretend We're Okay | Alvin Fredericks
Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources

[S2] EPISODE 25: FROM PAIN TO PROMISE

In this episode, we sit with Alvin Fredericks of @thetruedadventurer a husband, father, and faithful follower of Christ, who walks us through a raw, heartbreaking, and ultimately redemptive journey through 5 miscarriages depression, spiritual wrestling, and healing. This isn’t just a story about grief, it’s a story about carrying unbearable weight silently, about standing at the edge of faith and finding God even when you feel abandoned. It’s a rare glimpse into what miscarriage and loss feel like for a husband, one who is expected to be strong, while silently fracturing on the inside.

What do you do when you’ve done all the “right” things, but life still knocks the breath out of you? What does it mean to reflect Christ to your wife when you yourself are crumbling? Alvin opens up about being forgotten in the grief, misunderstood by the church, and pushed to the brink of ending it all. But he also shares the power of faithful friends, fatherly love, and how God used an unexpected encounter to plant the seed of hope again. This episode is not about easy answers, it’s about honest questions, deep pain, and a real Saviour.

If you're a husband walking through loss, or standing beside someone who is, this episode will move you. It’s for the men who feel unseen in their suffering. It's for the ones who keep showing up despite the weight. And it’s for anyone who needs a reminder that even in deep suffering, God is not absent, He is forming something eternal. This is not just an episode; it's a lifeline.

Get in touch with us - [email protected]

FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON...
TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

#thathusbandpodcast #christianmarriage #faithinsuffering #husbandswholead #MarriageAfterLoss #miscarriageawareness #MenAndGrief #christianhusbands #fatherhoodjourney #infantlosssupport #biblicalmanhood #HopeInHeartbreak #GodInTheStorm #marriageministry #faithoverfeelings #healingtogether #christiantestimony #MenWithFeelings #HusbandPerspective #JesusInThePain #RealMarriageTalk #failingforward #christianpodcast #griefandgrace #christcenteredmarriage

...more
1h 29min
July 02, 2025 Young, Broke, And Married: Why I Started A Family At 22 | Shaun Mahlangu
Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources

[S2] EPISODE 24: YOUNG, MARRIED & FIGURING IT OUT

What happens when your faith, finances, and fatherhood all collide? In this honest and soul-stirring episode, we sit down with Shaun Mahlangu, a husband, father of three, and creative content creator, who opens up about the raw reality of becoming a husband at 22 and navigating life, love, and fatherhood with nothing but a dream, a prayer, and a patient wife. From counting coins, trying to buy a "kota" to losing jobs, feeling like a failure, and watching the light fade from his wife's eyes, Shaun doesn’t hold back. This isn’t just a story; it’s a mirror for every man who's ever wondered, “Am I enough?”

Shaun shares how being a broke husband nearly broke him, and what it took to climb out of depression, insecurity, and envy. We discuss retrenchment and redefining masculinity through the lens of failure and faith. You’ll hear what it’s like to cry in the car before work, battle anxiety silently, and still choose to show up every day for your wife, your kids, and your calling. More than that, you’ll hear how God shows up with grace for every child born, every prayer whispered, and every husband willing to keep failing forward.

If you’ve ever felt crushed under the weight of expectations or afraid to dream with empty pockets, this episode is for you. It’s a love letter to resilient wives, a tribute to cycle-breaking fathers, and a reminder to all men: your brokenness doesn’t disqualify you, it may just be the very place where God rebuilds you. Don’t miss this deeply reflective, personal, and hope-filled conversation.

Get in touch with us - [email protected]

FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON...
TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

#ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandTalks #failingforward #youngmarriage #BlackLoveStories #christianmarriage #HusbandsInTheMaking #fathersmatter #MenCryToo #MarriageInRealLife #realmenrealtalk #FaithfulFathers #GraceInTheMess #menandmentalhealth #VulnerableMen #cyclebreakers #BlackHusbandsMatter #marriagetestimony #godstiming #loveandstruggle #marriagepodcast #menwholead #DadLifeUnfiltered #FromBrokenToBuilt #GodsEconomy
...more
2h 8min
June 25, 2025 Failed Engagement, Giving Up My Apartment: The Pressure To Marry Almost Broke Me | Justin Henry
Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources
[S2] EPISODE 23: MARRIAGE IDOLATRY

What happens when a man decides to rewrite his story of marriage? In this raw and heartfelt episode, Justin Henry sits across the table to unpack the emotional weight of growing up in a father-absent home, idolising marriage, and healing through it. He shares how he once tried to outrun the pain with career ambition and dating cycles, but ultimately discovered that God's grace and the hard work of real love are what make a husband. This is not just another love story, it's a story of redemption, restoration, and choosing to be present.

Together, we talk about the pressures men face, from churches that rush young people into marriage, to mothers who ask, “So when are you getting married?”, to societal metrics that equate manhood with money. Justin reflects on what it's like to try, fail, and try again with wisdom. If you’ve ever made marriage an idol, rushed into love, or felt unprepared for the weight of being a husband, this one’s for you. We don't hold back in this one!

Whether you’re married, divorced, dating, or single by design, this conversation will challenge you. Because at the core, this isn’t just about marriage, it’s about what kind of human you’re becoming. Hit play, and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe.

Get in touch with us - [email protected]

FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

#ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandsWhoLead #MarriageRedefined #FaithAndMarriage #ModernHusbands #RealTalkMen #GodlyMarriage #BlackMenHealing #FatherWound #MenAndMentalHealth #MarriageJourney #RedefiningManhood #PurposefulMarriage #LoveAfterLoss #HealingThroughMarriage #PremaritalCounseling #MarriageMatters #ChristCenteredMarriage #MarriageIsMinistry #MenWithVision #ChristianHusbands #DoMarriageWell #ManhoodRestored #MarriageAndFaith #BetterHusbandsBetterHomes
...more
1h 35min
June 18, 2025 Cheated On, Broken & Finding Real Love – How Friendship Opened Up My Heart Again | Tebogo Mphohle
Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources

[S2] EPISODE 22: FRIEND-ZONE IN MARRIAGE

"Marriage isn’t hard—what’s hard is pretending to love someone you don’t even like." In this episode, we unpack what it truly means for a husband to be friends with his wife. Our guest, Tebogo Mphohle opens up about how friendship in marriage isn't just a bonus, it’s a lifeline. He reflects on the moments where being friends with his wife quite literally saved their relationship. Without that foundation of mutual admiration, laughter, and understanding, many couples, especially men, drift emotionally while still sharing a home. The cost is intimacy being lost, and eventually, so is the marriage.

What makes this episode special is how unashamedly it weaves faith, family legacy, and vulnerability. Tebogo speaks about growing up in a home where love was modeled not just privately but publicly, and how that shaped his vision of marriage. Yet even with a beautiful template, he found himself in a toxic relationship before meeting his wife. The contrast was jarring but redemptive. It was only when he was truly seen, truly safe, and truly befriended that his heart began to heal. What followed wasn’t just romance, it was renewal.

If you’re a husband wondering why things feel dry, distant, or just… dull, maybe what’s missing isn’t a new date night strategy or more counselling sessions. Maybe what’s missing is friendship. Real, intentional, "you're my day-one" type of friendship. And as you’ll hear in this episode: you don’t have to fake it till you make it, you can choose to like her, again and again. Tune in, be challenged, and rediscover the power of being her friend.

Get in touch with us - [email protected]

FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON...
TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

#marriagetalk #husbandlife #thathusbandpodcast #faithfulhusbands #marriageadvice #RealMarriageConvos #christianmarriage #HusbandWisdom #leadwithlove #marriagematters #FriendshipInMarriage #godlymarriages #StrongMarriageStrongFamily #modernmarriage #MarriedMenTalk #BeHerFriend #MarriageIsMinistry #BlackLoveMatters #SouthAfricanHusbands #MarriageGoalsDaily #husbandswholead #marriageunfiltered #christcenteredmarriage #MarriageRealTalk #HusbandsOfInstagram

...more
1h 51min
June 11, 2025 I Asked Her To Trust Me, But I Didn’t Realise How Costly It Would Be | Sihle Xulu
Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources

[S2] EPISODE 21: OUR CONVICTION & FAMILY VISION
In this soul-stirring episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with Pastor and friend Sihle Xulu for a conversation that feels less like an interview and more like a mirror—reflecting the quiet weight many husbands carry but rarely speak of. From moving provinces with nothing but conviction, to rebuilding a marriage that once felt beyond repair, Sihle opens up about the unseen cost of calling, and the holy tension of wanting to lead well without losing the people who matter most.
This isn’t just about ministry or marriage, it's about the sacred in-between. The moments when your wife says, “I don’t like you right now,” but you still have to show up. The quiet wrestle of asking your family to follow you again—another city, another job, another dream, and wondering if this time, it's really God or just ambition. It’s about learning to hold your calling and your family with both hands and choosing to stay when it would be easier to escape.
For every man who’s ever felt torn between purpose and presence, this conversation is an anchor. It’s a tender reminder that you don’t have to perform your way through pain. That true strength is often hidden in confession, and healing begins the moment we say, “This is hard… but we’re still here.” Press play, this one might change how you see your story.
Get in touch with us - [email protected]

FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON...
TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

#thathusbandpodcast #christianhusbands #marriagematters #MenInMinistry #FaithAndFamily #faithandfamily #TheCostOfCalling #christianmarriage #HusbandsWhoLead #PurposeAndPresence #GodFirstFamilyNext #CalledToLove #ModernMarriageRealTalk #GospelCenteredMarriage #realtalkformen #MarriedAndCalled #PastorsWhoStruggleToo #HoldingBothHands #FaithInHardSeasons #MarriageIsMinistry #FromBrokenToBetter #sacrificeandlove #HusbandsInTheFight #MinistryAndMarriage #StillHereStillFighting
...more
1h 52min
June 04, 2025 Asking My Wife To Live With My Mom Wasn't About Control: The Truth Of "Ukukotiza" | Ayanda Buthelezi
Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources
[S2] EPISODE 20: BREAKING THE IN-LAW STIGMA
What happens when culture, marriage, and modern masculinity collide? In this deeply personal episode, we sit down with Ayanda Buthelezi to unpack the often misunderstood practice of "Ukukotiza." In this traditional Nguni custom, a new bride spends time with her in-laws to learn the rhythms, responsibilities, and expectations of married life. But this is not just about tradition—it's about identity, manhood, and the sacred in-between space where a wife is not just joining a family but shaping one.
As husbands, we often stand silently at the edge of this process. But what if our silence is costing us something? Ayanda opens up about how Ukukotiza has evolved—how some families still treat it as a rite of passage with dignity, while others risk turning it into exploitation. We reflect honestly on what it means for a man to guide, protect, and honour this season, not as a controller, but as a covering. It’s about more than chores—it’s about culture, character, and covenant.
Whether you grew up watching "Ukukotiza" from the side lines or are navigating it with your new wife today, this episode invites you to rethink your role as a husband in a culturally rich but emotionally complex tradition. This isn’t just a conversation about our wives—it’s about us, too. About how we honour her, honour our elders, and honour God in how we merge culture and covenant.
Get in touch with us - [email protected]
FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON...
TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/
#Ukukotiza #MakotiDiaries #MarriageCulture #NguniTraditions #ModernMakoti #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsInCulture #FaithAndTradition #marriagetalks #SouthAfricanMarriage #ChristianHusbands #CulturalConversation #ManhoodAndMarriage #MakotiJourney #MarriageRoles #UbuntuInMarriage #CulturalRites #AfricanMarriageTraditions #MenWhoLeadWell #loveandculture #BridgingGenerations #biblicalmanhood #HonouringHer #marriagewisdom #AyandaButheleziConversation
...more
1h 17min

FAQs about That Husband Podcast:

How many episodes does That Husband Podcast have?

The podcast currently has 101 episodes available.

More shows like That Husband Podcast

Elevation with Steven Furtick by iHeartPodcasts

Elevation with Steven Furtick

15,751 Listeners

The Sister Circle Podcast by Chrystal Evans Hurst

The Sister Circle Podcast

1,279 Listeners

Woman Evolve with Sarah Jakes Roberts by Woman Evolve

Woman Evolve with Sarah Jakes Roberts

6,966 Listeners

Jerry Flowers Podcast by Jerry Flowers Ministries

Jerry Flowers Podcast

1,919 Listeners

With The Perrys by The Perrys

With The Perrys

7,133 Listeners

The Feeling Station by The Feeling Station

The Feeling Station

96 Listeners

Dear Future Wifey by Laterras R. Whitfield

Dear Future Wifey

2,126 Listeners

Ideas That Matter Podcast by Vusi Thembekwayo by Vusi Thembekwayo

Ideas That Matter Podcast by Vusi Thembekwayo

136 Listeners

Wisdom & Wellness with Mpoomy Ledwaba by Africa Podcast Network

Wisdom & Wellness with Mpoomy Ledwaba

27 Listeners

Social Dallas Podcast by Social Dallas Church

Social Dallas Podcast

720 Listeners

In Totality with Megan Ashley by Megan Ashley

In Totality with Megan Ashley

4,514 Listeners

The Leader’s Cut with Preston Morrison by Preston Morrison

The Leader’s Cut with Preston Morrison

498 Listeners

Because We Said So by Zama Marubelela; Landiwe Gama

Because We Said So

11 Listeners

Plug Pod with Stephanie Ike Okafor by Stephanie Ike Okafor

Plug Pod with Stephanie Ike Okafor

200 Listeners

NXT Chapter with T.D. Jakes by iHeartPodcasts

NXT Chapter with T.D. Jakes

183 Listeners