Today, Bryn and her ex-husband Chris Marhefka take us behind the scenes of what their 10-year relationship looked like where sex wasn’t working and how they each stepped into their best sexual selves on the other side of it. They talk about the spicy energy and wild sex of new relationships, and how the lack of intention and communication led to avoidance, playing a role in their divorce. Bryn and Chris share how individually hiring sex coaches after separating helped them heal limiting beliefs, take personal responsibility, strengthen communication, and now have deeply fulfilling sex lives.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• The start of Bryn & Chris’ relationship & what caused the breakdown
• Chris’ sexual beginning: lack of sex talks, porn, and being under the influence
• New relationship energy & wild sex leading to avoidance and resentment
• How creating space leads to desire
• How they evolved by hiring sex coaches after separating
• Tips for approaching tough conversations with your partner

Resources:

• Follow Chris: @chrismarhefka 
• Chris’ Podcast: Fully Expressed
• Follow Bryn: @bryndaylor 

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: thatsexchick.com 
• Email: [email protected] 
• Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources
• Facebook Group: That Sex Group 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Host of The Kelli Show and CEO of Soulfire Productions, Kelli Tennant, is back on the show! Today, Alexa and Kelli talk about creating their own rules in relationships outside of societal norms, and how this has led to healing, stronger communication, and novel experiences in the bedroom. Kelli shares her journey leading up to having sex with women and threesomes with her fiancé, Conner, and she shares their dating process for finding others to play with.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Having sex with women & Kelli’s journey leading up to this intimacy
• Spankings, kink, and the nuances of sexuality
• How being monogamish has deepened Kelli and her fiancé’s relationship
• Communicating your fear-based stories to your partner
• How intimacy with women can heal sisterhood wounds
• How Kelli and Conner approach finding a third

Work with The Sex & Love Co Team! Visit www.thatsexchick.com/work-with-me to apply for coaching.

Follow Kelli:

• Instagram: @kellimtennant 
• Website: kellitennant.com 
• Podcast: The Kelli Show
• Listen: F*ck Social Norms & Step Into Your Truth

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: thatsexchick.com 
• Email: [email protected] 
• Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources
• Facebook Group: That Sex Group 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In today’s episode, Jordan interviews Alexa for her 33rd birthday! As she moves into this new year, Lex vulnerably shares what’s on her heart around familial relationships, releasing resentment, and closing loops. Jordan also asks some juicy questions on dating, Lex’s favorite advice on relationships, and her best sex experience at age 32. They wrap up the episode with Jordan sharing his birthday wish for Lex, and Lex sharing what she wants to leave behind and bring with her into this new year.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Healing Alexa’s relationship with her father
• Alexa’s relationship with her body
• Reducing shame around STIs and multiple partners
• Favorite advice Alexa’s been given around love & being a team with Jordan
• Alexa’s best sex experience at age 32! 
• What Alexa wants to leave behind and take forward with her this year
• Jordan’s birthday wish for Alexa

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: thatsexchick.com 
• Email: [email protected] 
• Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources
• Facebook Group: That Sex Group 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, Alexa and Jordan are delving into how they are navigating bringing a third into their relationship to play! You’ll hear the journey that brought them to this place, including what they’ve understood relationships to be in the past and how this allows them to build a stronger foundation with more connection and love. They talk about their concerns, hesitations, what they’re most excited about, along with the process of finding an incredible woman to treat like a queen!

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Why Alexa & Jordan are looking to play with others
• Concerns and hesitations around bringing others into their relationship
• What they are most excited about & how it’ll positively challenge them
• Dynamics to navigate with having a third
• Their past experience with a threesome & their most recent date night
• How to approach finding a third and what they each are looking for when using Feeld
• How they want their third to feel after the experience

Resources:

• Follow Jordan: @conscious.bro 
• Dating app: Feeld
• Facebook Group: That Sex Group
• Referenced book: Playing Well with Others

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: thatsexchick.com 
• Email: [email protected] 
• Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, Alexa and Bryn are unpacking the new erotic Netflix series, ‘Sex/Life’. The ladies reveal their thoughts on the show, exploring various scenes and the positive and shadow aspects of the series. This episode is for anyone who has watched ‘Sex/Life’ from start to finish because there are SPOILERS!

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Alexa & Bryn’s perspectives on the series “Sex/Life”
• The waning passion in Billie’s marriage & the lack of communication between partners
• Personal responsibility, knowing your desires, & communicating your needs
• What to do if you’re challenged by dick size
• Friendships and how they play a role in your sex life
• How play and fantasy evolve throughout the show
• The sexual revolution we are moving into

Resources:

• Follow Bryn: @bryndaylor 
• For painful sex: ohnut.co 
• Referenced episodes: Play Parties, Erotic Blueprints, + Fantasy Exploration with Kimi Inch and The Sex & Love Co Team ; Sex Parties Done Right with Lila Donnolo

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: thatsexchick.com 
• Email: [email protected] 
• Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, Alexa and Bryn are giving you a peek into the language of kink! Exhibitionist, switch, brat, rope bunny… learn through their delicious stories what these terms mean, how you may connect with them, and the imagination and play behind all of it.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Juicy stories explaining the language of kink
• How Alexa & Jordan use erotic discipline
• Experience transformation through consensual pain and pleasure
• How kink is a way for adults to use curiosity, imagination, & play 
• Watching others & being seen in your pleasure
• Dom and sub space as altered state of consciousness

Resources:

• Follow Bryn: @bryndaylor 
• Guide to Kink: https://alexa-martinez.mykajabi.com/offers/NVMB5RLc

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: thatsexchick.com 
• Email: [email protected] 
• Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Get ready to hear about The Sex & Love Co weekend of play! Alexa is joined by her team, Bryn Daylor and Jordan Bowditch, and professional dominatrix and somatic therapist, Kimi Inch. The foursome dives deep into their sexy weekend full of personal growth, sharing the various ways this play party workshop was educational, entertaining, empowering, and erotic!

Today on That Sex Chick:

• The physical and emotional prep for the play party
• What went into choosing the workshops for the play party
• Deepen your sexual experience by understanding your erotic blueprint
• The intentional setup of the play party space
• Fantasy exercise using erotic language 
• Pain as an access point to pleasure and laughter 

Follow Kimi:

• Instagram: @kimiinch 
• Email: [email protected] 
• Website: www.kimiinch.com 

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: thatsexchick.com 
• Email: [email protected] 
• Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Arielle D'Angelo is an LGBTQ+ Self-Love Coach and founder of WeTheRainbow. Today, Elle shares her personal story of discovering her own sexuality and what her coming out process was like. Elle and Alexa also talk about navigating coming out, sex toys, and approaching same-sex sexual experiences! This is a beautiful conversation about self-love, acceptance, and embracing your sexuality.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Elle’s coming out process & discovering her own sexuality
• Using labels and identities when it feels empowering
• Navigating coming out and loving yourself first
• Sex toys, scissoring, and same-sex sexual experiences
• LGBTQ+: What more straight people should know

Follow Elle:

• Instagram: @arielledangelo ; @wetherainbowofficial 
• Website: arielledangelo.com 

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: thatsexchick.com 
• Email: [email protected] 
• Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Get ready for a juicy AF episode with the fairy godmother of female online fitness coaches, Hannah Deindorfer! Hannah starts by sharing the challenging relationship she’s had with her body and sexuality, and how exploring BDSM helped heal her trauma. You’ll hear about her relationship in a Dom/sub dynamic, what it means to be collared, and red flags to be aware of when you’re a sub looking for a Dom.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Deriving worth and value from your body & sexuality
• Hannah’s experience as a collared submissive in her Dom/sub relationship
• Trauma and body image healing through Dom/sub power play
• Red flags to be aware of when you’re a sub looking for a Dom
• What Hannah learned about Dom/sub dynamics as a top to a female bottom

Follow Hannah:

• Instagram: @hannahdeindorfer 
• Website: hannahdeindorfer.com 

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: thatsexchick.com 
• Email: [email protected] 
• Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Dominance and submission aren’t only for the bedroom, and today you’re going to hear how this dynamic can lead to a deeply loving, trusting, fulfilling, and growth-oriented relationship. Andrew and Dawn share how their relationship evolved into a 24/7 Dom/Sub dynamic, and how having these roles have enriched their relationship and sex life.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• How Andrew & Dawn’s relationship evolved into a 24/7 Dom/Sub dynamic
• How self-awareness, confidence, and personal growth played a role in developing a D/S relationship
• What a 24/7, D/S dynamic looks like inside & outside the bedroom
• Why conflict is almost nonexistent in Andrew & Dawn’s marriage
• Roles of the Dom & how the Dom leads the Sub to feel more free and happy

Follow Andrew and Dawn:

• Instagram: @freeandfit.life 
• Recommendations: Mating in Captivity ; Anna Rova ; Lorin Krenn

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: thatsexchick.com 
• Email: [email protected] 
• Free resources: thatsexchick.com/resources 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions