Om Rupani teaches workshops in sensuality, tantra, and BDSM. In today’s conversation, Om and Alexa talk about knowing and discovering your sexual desires separate from your partner’s. Understanding your sensual side gives you a deeper understanding of yourself and how you show up in relationships, and allows you to create a more fulfilling life. Learn about the psychological side of BDSM, and gain resources for exploring the dominant-submissive realm.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• The feminine vs. masculine psyche within BDSM
• Evolving in your personal erotic journey separate from your partner
• How your traumas affect your sexual expression
• Submissive doesn’t mean passive
• Why you need to stop negative reinforcement
• The psychological aspect of dominant-submissive exploration
• Why we do consensual power exchanges

Connect with Om:

• Website: omrupani.org
• YouTube: Om Rupani

Follow Alexa:

• thatsexchick.com 
• IG: @thatsexchick
• Click here to Own Your Orgasm

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Whitney Miller, sex and relationship coach and co-host of the True Sex & Wild Love podcast, joins Alexa for a real AF conversation on lessons she’s learned from open relationships and heartbreak, all while being public with it all. They also talk about boundary setting, deep friendships, great sex, and evolving in your relationships.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Being a sex coach & the “why” behind Whitney’s passion
• What Whitney learned about boundaries from her open relationship
• Allowing the evolution of your desires in relationships
• What it’s like to have a public breakup
• Approaching tough conversations around jealousy & resentment

Follow Whitney:

• Website: whitnlove.com 
• IG: @whitnlove
• Podcast: True Sex & Wild Love
• Recommended resource: Kenneth Play’s Sex Hacker Pro Course
• Recommended book: Untrue

Connect with Alexa:

• thatsexchick.com 
• IG: @thatsexchick 
• Click here to Own Your Orgasm

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

As the author of The Evolved Masculine and founder & CEO of The Evolved Masculine, Destin Gerek is a leading voice in conscious masculinity. Today, he shares his experience living the archetype of the “erotic rockstar” and how the evolved masculine was birthed from his life experiences. Destin unpacks what it takes to evolve your masculinity, how connecting to your feminine will make you a better lover, and how to lean into the face of pleasure as well as pain.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• How Destin moved from erotic rockstar to evolved masculine
• Connecting to your feminine to be a better lover
• A practice for lasting longer in bed
• How you can achieve sexual self-mastery
• Being in awe of the feminine through pregnancy & birth
• How society would operate when in the feminine vs. masculine

Follow Destin:

• Instagram: @evolvedmasculine 
• Website: evolvedmasculine.com 
• Book: The Evolved Masculine
• Podcast: The Evolved Masculine

Connect with Alexa:

• thatsexchick.com 
• IG: @thatsexchick 
• Referenced Book: Spirit Babies
• Click here to Own Your Orgasm

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today’s episode is all about the world of sex coaching and how to become one! Learn how Alexa and Bryn each ended up on the path of sex coaching, different ways they help their clients, and the role of intention and integrity when you’re facing imposter syndrome. They unpack the process of becoming a sex coach, sharing resources and trainings to help guide you on your own journey.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Busting myths around being a sex coach
• Alexa and Bryn’s personal journeys to becoming coaches
• How sex coaches help their clients
• What it looks like to be a coach versus a therapist
• How to get started & resources for becoming a sex coach
• Facing imposter syndrome, fear of failure, & being in integrity

Resources:

• Sex Coach Prep School: alexa-martinez.mykajabi.com/prep-school 
• Listen: How BDSM Changed My Sex Life Forever
• Recommended Books: Come As You Are ; Vagina: A New Biography ; King, Warrior, Magician, Lover ; The Way of the Superior Man

Connect with Alexa & Bryn:

• thatsexchick.com ; @bryndaylor
• IG: @thatsexchick 
• Click here to Own Your Orgasm

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Do you crave more from your sex life, but don’t know what that is or how to get it? Today, Alexa unpacks how to utilize one of her favorite tools, a roadmap to your sexual desires—the Want/Will/Won’t list. This worksheet will help you understand your pleasure and allow you to have a deeper connection to yourself and your partner(s).

Today on That Sex Chick:

• What the Want/Will/Won’t list is & how to use it
• Using the Want/Will/Won’t list to understand you & your partner’s pleasure
• Strengthen your communication & your connection to your partner
• Ways Jordan and Alexa have benefited from using the list
• Normalize sex talk by doing the Want/Will/Won’t list with friends

Connect with Alexa:

• thatsexchick.com 
• IG: @thatsexchick 
• Want Will Won’t list: alexa-martinez.mykajabi.com/want-will-wont 
• Free Holiday Gift Guide: thatsexchick.com/holidaygiftguide 
• Click here to Own Your Orgasm

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Stefanos Sifandos, love and relationship coach, has dug through the trenches of his own shadow, healing deep wounds that left him feeling fragmented. In today’s conversation, he shares the pivotal moment when he decided to stop numbing and begin healing, and tools to help on your growth journey. Stefanos unpacks what it looks like to heal infidelity issues when you’re the unfaithful one, and how to attract your ideal partner. Alexa and Stef also talk about non-attachment, de-armoring for deep connection, and building your self-worth.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• The pivotal moment when Stef stopped numbing & began healing
• Healing infidelity issues when you’re the unfaithful one
• Tools for addressing & exploring your fears and core wounds
• How to prepare yourself for a meaningful partnership
• De-armoring yourself for deep connections
• What’s the work men can do today to be better men

Follow Stefanos:

• IG: @stefanossifandos 
• Coaching: coachwithstef.com 
• All-In-1: growwithstef.com
• Love Block Assessment: stefanossifandos.com/love-block-quiz 
• YouTube: youtube.com/c/StefanosSifandos 
• Facebook: facebook.com/stefanossifandos 

Connect with Alexa:

• thatsexchick.com
• IG: @thatsexchick
• Free Holiday Gift Guide: www.thatsexchick.com/holidaygiftguide
• Click here to Own Your Orgasm

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Get ready for today’s episode as Alexa brings you a fun crash course in creating a Sex Magick ritual! This practice can be a solo pleasure ritual or with a partner (or multiple!). Through these simple steps, you can begin to create your reality through your orgasms by attracting in whatever you desire. It not only connects you deeper to yourself and your partner, but it brings in new energy to your sex life, allowing you to play and spice things up!

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Why you want to create a sex magick ritual (solo or with a partner)
• How to create your sex magick scene & set the vibe
• Questions to ask when setting your intention for your sex magick practice
• The best type of breathwork for sex magick
• Using a visualization practice with orgasm
• How Alexa & Jordan use their sex magick practice

Resources:

• thatsexchick.com
• IG: @thatsexchick
• Free Holiday Gift Guide: www.thatsexchick.com/holidaygiftguide
• Click here to Own Your Orgasm

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

JP and Amber Sears take us on a journey through their love story, sharing how they built the foundation of their relationship, move through challenges, and allow their intuition to guide them. They explore how their parent’s marriage dynamics influenced who they are in relationships, teaching them about equality, not settling, and doing inner work. The couple also shares the evolution of their sex life, how they’ve improved low libido, and how they want to approach parenting when their son Wilder is born.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• JP & Amber’s soul recognition when they met
• Making their relationship work while living in different countries
• Following the guidance of inspiration & your heart
• Evolution of their sex life, challenges, & masculine/feminine balance
• Creating a ritual around sex
• How they’ve cultivated a fulfilling relationship

Follow JP & Amber:

• Instagram: @awakenwithjp ; @amberleesears 
• Website: awakenwithjp.com ; epicself.com 

Click here to Own Your Orgasm

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Alexa is joined by her fiancé, Jordan Bowditch, to delve deep into his hero’s journey of reclaiming his sexuality. From his porn-watching days as a teen to him and Alexa’s monogamish relationship, they unpack how his journey has translated into the man he is today, and how you can utilize sex and relationships to self-realize.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• The shameful hiding of masturbation and porn
• When Jordan began questioning his relationship with porn
• Tools to approach sex from a conscious place
• Monogamish & the nontraditional start of Jordan and Alexa’s relationship
• How Jordan’s journey has translated into the man he is today
• Manifesting through sex magic
• Utilizing sex and relationships to self-realize

Resources:

• thatsexchick.com 
• IG: @thatsexchick
• Free Holiday Gift Guide: www.thatsexchick.com/holidaygiftguide
• Click here to Own Your Orgasm

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today, Alexa takes you on her journey of discovering BDSM, how it opened her mind to sexual possibilities, and helped Alexa find home within her own body. She recounts her first BDSM experience and how that relationship developed, sharing both the submissive and dominant perspectives. Grab a pen and paper because at the end, Alexa unpacks actionable steps for entering the world of BDSM!

Today on That Sex Chick:

• How Alexa was challenged in her understanding of traditional relationships
• Alexa’s first BDSM experience & the relationship that developed
• The submissive and dominant perspectives
• What made Alexa’s BDSM experiences impactful and positive
• Red flags in BDSM & how to create a safe experience
• Action items for entering the world of BDSM

Connect with Alexa:

• thatsexchick.com 
• IG: @thatsexchick 
• Referenced Books: Playing Well With Others ; The Ultimate Guide to Kink ; Urban Tantra
• Referenced Quiz: bdsmtest.org
• Click here to Own Your Orgasm

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions