(SCROLL FOR TIMESTAMPS) - Your friends are going to take sides if your relationship doesn't end well- but what if your story isn't the one they believe? Next week we're talking about what happens when you become the villain in someone else's story. Our interviewee got kicked out of her friend group after her friend's got half the story from her ex. Now they (and the rest of the internet) are going to hear her side.

Timestamps

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(01:08) - Abby and CoWorker Justin read the submission

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(02:58) - Interview Begins(03:53) 

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 How being closeted affected their relationship(04:52)

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How moving to Nashville/moving in together affected their relationship(05:37)

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The demise of the relationship(07:10)

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She breaks up with her GF(07:29)

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 "Why do I want to break up with my girlfriend?"(08:34) 

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 The mistake that made their relationship blow up(10:11)

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 Her ex confronts her about her private journal entries(14:21) 

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 Her ex confronts her and her wife at a Pride event(17:13)

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The aftermath of the relationship(20:01)

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Advice for people who aren't 100% sold on their relationships(22:37)

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Closing announcements

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SUBMIT A BREAK UP STORY: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JhayC6xUgMldTWgiQRa2mfzSXfac7kY0yOSaOAu5p8M/edit

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(SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS/TIMESTAMPS) - Being in a "secret" engagement should probably be the first sign you're in a toxic relationship, but when you're crazy in love...crazy just seems like love. Next week's episode has something everyone can relate to. Whether you were in a toxic relationship or just had to hear about one from a friend, we dive into the reasons why people stay in relationships that just aren't good for them.I'm verified on Spotify!!! 

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Check out my Break Up Playlists Here: https://open.spotify.com/user/22nnbzo6iuxetz4f6dtczrabaTimestamps(01:38) 

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Abby and Coworker Justin Read the Submission(04:56)

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 Interview Begins/How they met(06:02)

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The "proposal" story no one knows about(08:37)

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 When things started to go south....(10:46)

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 "I've never cheated on you but...."(11:59)

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The texts that tipped her off that something was up(15:03) 

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When the relationship (almost) ended completely(16:13) 

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The humiliating public argument(17:31)

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 The couple tries to work things out(19:14)

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 Why she chose to stay in the relationship(22:22) 

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If she could go back and do things differently....(24:43)

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 The hardest thing about ending this relationship(28:23)

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 Closing announcements

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Resources:The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) www.ndvh.orgNational Dating Abuse Helpline 1-866-331-9474 www.loveisrespect.orgThe Love and Abuse Podcast: https://loveandabuse.com/the-podcast/How To Recognize Emotional Abuse: https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse

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Steps to help you leave an abusive relationship: https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/getting-out-of-an-abusive-relationship.htm

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SUBMIT A BREAK UP STORY: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JhayC6xUgMldTWgiQRa2mfzSXfac7kY0yOSaOAu5p8M/editCW: abuse

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SCROLL FOR TIMESTAMPS - On this week's episode, we dive into a polyamorous couple's break up that explores the boundaries of the grey areas in relationships. Tune in to hear about the benefits and challenges of polyamory and how it ultimately led to the demise of this relationship.

Timestamps(0055) - Abby and Co-Worker Justin Talk About the Submission(03:23) - Start of the Interview/How They Met(05:44) - The couple starts to explore non-monogamy(10:43) - The birthday weekend where things got complicated(15:23) - When their relationship started to unravel(17:33) - The weekend that started to shut down the relationship(21:00) - The last straw in the relationship(24:19) - The aftermath of the breakup(28:41) - The Instagram post that made the breakup even more painful(31:47) - Did this change her opinion on polyamory?(34:56) - Her advice for getting through difficult breakups(38:28) - The one thing she wished more people talked about (regarding relationships that end)(39:55) - Episode Announcements!

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