The Captivatingly Confident Podcast

The Captivatingly Confident Podcast

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The Captivatingly Confident Podcast episodes

  • Sweet Cravings Aren't a Character Flaw

    Sweet Cravings Aren't a Character Flaw

    If you've ever found yourself standing in the kitchen at night thinking, "Why can't I just stop eating this?"—you're not alone, and you're not lacking willpower.

    In this episode, we're taking a different look at persistent cravings. Instead of treating them as a discipline problem, we'll explore what your body, brain, and nervous system might actually be trying to tell you.

    We'll talk about how under-eating, restriction, stress, fatigue, habits, and even the way we think about certain foods can make cravings feel almost impossible to resist. And more importantly, we'll talk about what you can do to understand and respond to cravings without adding more rules, guilt, or restriction.

    Because the goal isn't to become better at fighting your cravings. It's to understand why they're happening—and learn how to nourish yourself in a way that makes food feel a whole lot less complicated.

    **Want to learn more about how to work with Kim? Schedule a free 30 minute Discovery Call today! (https://p.bttr.to/3gkqXe1)

    45 min
  • The Confidence Trap: Waiting to Feel Good Until You Lose Weight

    The Confidence Trap: Waiting to Feel Good Until You Lose Weight

    How much of your life are you putting on hold until your body changes?

    Maybe you tell yourself you'll wear the clothes you really love when you lose weight. Take the pictures when you feel better. Go on the trip when you're more comfortable in your body. Finally feel confident when the number on the scale is where you want it to be.

    But what if confidence isn't waiting for you at your goal weight?

    In this episode, we're talking about the confidence trap—the belief that you have to change your body before you're allowed to feel good, show up fully, or live the life you want.

    We'll explore why losing weight doesn't necessarily create the confidence you're looking for, what confidence actually comes from, and how you can begin building trust and confidence in your body right now—without giving up on your goals.

    Because you can want to change your body without putting your life on hold until you do.

    Your life doesn't have to wait for a smaller body.

    Want to learn more about working with Kim? Schedule a free 30 minute Discovery Call today! (https://p.bttr.to/3gkqXe1)

    42 min
  • Pattern Disrupt (AKA "Boop")

    Have you ever thought to yourself "why can't I just be happy" or "why do I keep getting in my own way"? If so, this episode is for YOU! In this episode, we discuss:

    • How the Ego part of the brain works.
    • What the Higher Self brain looks like.
    • Why the brain craves routine, loops, patterns and consistency.
    • Why the thing or feeling you want is always out of reach.
    • How to create more capacity for the feelings you want.
    • Practical exercise to start to increase your ability to hold the feelings you want.

    Make sure you share this episode and tag us- @captivatinglyconfidentpodcast!

    32 min
  • Cultivating Compassion, Curiosity and Connection Through Conflict with Tim Ludeman LPC
    Episode 127- Cultivating Compassion, Curiosity and Connection Through Conflict with Tim Ludeman LPC How do you feel about conflict?? If you're like most people, it's not your favorite and you may even go to great lengths to avoid it. This avoidance or fear robs couples of the opportunity to really connect and grow on a deeper level. In this episode, Licensed Professional Counselor, Tim Ludeman, joins Kim to talk about how conflict can actually create connection and improve intimacy in romantic relationships. Kim and Tim have been married since April 2009 and have learned a lot about conflict in their 15 years together. In this episode, they talk through common pitfalls in conflict and how to shift into curiosity and compassion to increase connection. You can learn more about the work Tim does with couples and individuals on his site, www.lighthousecounselingpdx.com. Mentioned in the show: Marriage and Relationship Experts, The Gottmans- https://www.gottman.com Kim and Tim talking about anxiety- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/captivatingly-confident-podcast/id1436115186?i=1000471425589 Our Guest: Tim Ludeman is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Oregon who sees clients online. He started his practice, Lighthouse Counseling PDX, in 2005. He loves working with couples and individuals to help them utilize tools and feel a sense of empowerment and agency in their relationships and personal lives. He and Kim have been married for 13 years and have two children, ages 8 and 20 months. About the Host, Kim: Kim is a Certified Brainspotting Coach who works with clients all over the world using her unique blend of Brainspotting and Nutrition/Health/Fitness Coaching. She is the creator of Reveal Retreats which creates a safe space to reveal what the real blocks are to loving the life you live utilizing small group expansion Brainspotting. Kim is also the founder of Summit Seekers, a national hiking community committed to empowering women to connect deeply with themselves and others both on and off the trail. She is a mom to two kiddos, Louis 8 and Lucy 20 months. She loves hiking, cooking, shopping and sleeping. Kim discovered a passion for connecting people to tools and support after the loss of her mom in 2004. She thrives on creating safe spaces for women to connect and feel seen. She has been coaching for over 13 years and loves seeing people feel empowered and confident. You can connect with Kim via email ([email protected]) and Instagram (@kim.ludeman). www.kimludeman.com www.summitseekersllc.com www.revealretreats.com
    1 hr
  • Cultivating Empowerment: Swap Your "Can't" for "How"

    Do you ever find yourself feeling stuck in a rut? Like you feel like you "can't" get out of it no matter what you do? In this episode, Kim talks about how to cultivate empowerment by swapping "can't" for "how". This pivitol shift can create clarity, spaciousness and curiosity in helping you identify and meet your needs.

    27 min
  • Use Stop, Drop and Roll to Regulate Your Nervous System
    It can be really easy to get overwhelmed when you get triggered by others, circumstances or things you feel you can't control. It's so easy to jump into self-soothing behaviors like eating, busyness, shopping, binging, scrolling etc. When that happens, wouldn't it be nice to have a tool that was quick and easy to use that actually helps?? Tune in to learn how to use Stop, Drop and Roll to help you calm down no matter where you are or what you're doing.
    39 min
  • Episode 124- It's Not You, It's Me

    Have you ever said "they made me feel____"? Maybe you have felt like people had the power to make you feel a way. The truth is, people are mirrors and reflect back that which we are uncomfortable with in ourselves.

    In this episode, Kim explores what it looks like to take control back and empower yourself to understand your feelings and communicate them so you feel seen and understood. With practical tools, you can confidently say "It's not you, it's me!".

    30 min
  • Episode 123- Wanting=Resisting

    I'M BACK!!!! After an 6 month hiatus from the mic, I finally found inspiration to record this episode all about wanting, lack and abundance. I am sooo excited to be back with you and can't wait to share my thoughts on law of attraction and manifesting with you!!

    41 min
  • Episode 121- Guided Nature Meditation

    This was my first time leading a guided meditation online, so bear with me in this episode! My heart and intention was to bring nature to you wherever you are. Take a moment for yourself to listen and participate. Fill up your diffuser with some tree oils, grab some crystals or a comfy blanket and let's venture out under the trees together.

    26 min

About The Captivatingly Confident Podcast

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As a Certified Brainspotting Practitioner and Coach, Kim Ludeman doesn't just help people feel good. With more than 10 years of health & fitness coaching experience, she's passionate about helping people create lasting change. Kim holds space for her clients stop hiding and live the life they WANT rather than one they think they SHOULD.