Four questions this week. Two about relationships. Two that aren't.

-A friend wants another shot with an ex after a long marriage. I've watched four couples try this. Two made it. Two didn't. The merry-go-round of unresolved issues, and why you do the work up front or you do it later when everything is breaking.

-Dating someone from your BJJ gym. What to weigh before you start it, and what Leah has seen when it ends. Starting over later in life. The narrative that all the good ones are already taken is wrong.

-June 28th is the anniversary of Operation Red Wings. How to explain that day to young people now that the story carries controversy. The sacrifice still stands.

-Last one comes from a civilian who thinks military pay is a joke, the VA fails everyone, and nobody should enlist. I had a lot to say about that.

Join the Cleared Hot Newsletter Here: https://www.clearedhotpodcast.com

Today's Sponsors:

Ridge: Listeners get 10% off at Ridge by using code "clearedhot" at checkout. Just head to https://www.Ridge.com

Spartan Forge: https://www.spartanforge.ai