Why do so many women feel an unspoken pressure to “be good”—to perform endless selflessness at the cost of their own identity?

In this conversation, I sit down with Elise Loehnen, author of On Our Best Behavior, to unpack the centuries-old scripts that bind women to ideals of goodness rooted in the Seven Deadly Sins. We’ll explore the neuroscience behind identity formation, why reputation feels like survival, and how to break free without burning bridges.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

✅ The hidden cost of cultural conditioning on women’s mental health

✅ Why “being good” often comes at the expense of authenticity

✅ The neuroscience of identity and how to rewrite old scripts

✅ Practical steps for reframing self-worth and reclaiming agency

Visit Elise Loehnen’s Website: https://www.eliseloehnen.com/

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Get Elise's New Book "Choosing Wholeness Over Goodness: A Process for Reclaiming Your Full Self:"

https://www.eliseloehnen.com/onourbestbehavior

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Being a parent doesn’t just ask for your time—it asks for your mind, your brain, and your body. The planning, predicting, soothing, deciding, remembering… it adds up. And the longer you carry the invisible weight, the more it rewires your mind to expect pressure instead of peace.

In this episode, I’ll show you the neuroscience behind mental load, why emotional regulation often falls to one person in the home, and how to use small brain-based strategies to reduce burnout without guilt.

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Success is supposed to feel good. But what if it also feels… lonely? 

What if your growth created distance from the people you love most?

In this episode, I’ll explain the neuroscience of relational disconnection after personal growth—why self-comparison, status shifts, and unspoken shame rewire the brain and fracture emotional safety. Whether it’s family, friends, or your partner, I’ll show you how to recognize when distance is caused by trauma patterns—not truth—and how to rebuild closeness without shrinking yourself.

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Why does political division feel so personal—and so addictive?

In this episode, I unpack the neuroscience of ideological entrenchment, how tribal identity shapes our threat response, and why outrage keeps getting rewarded by your brain’s own chemistry.

You’ll learn:

✅ How repeated exposure to conflict rewires your brain (ideological neuroplasticity)

✅ Why your nervous system confuses disagreement with danger

✅ The real cost of certainty—and how dopamine drives polarization

✅ A 5-minute micro-tool to break the loop and reclaim mental clarity

This isn’t about silencing your values. It’s about staying present in a world designed to keep you outraged—and helping your brain feel safe without rigidity.

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Why do some people turn vision into reality—again and again?

In this episode, I sit down with entrepreneur and philanthropist Mark Pentecost, founder of It Works! and author of Life of Your Dreams. Mark went from high school teacher and coach to building a global business—and now teaches others how to “train” vision like a muscle.

We’ll map his practical steps onto the neuroscience of behavior change, so you can learn how environment, micro-habits, and meaning rewire your brain for sustainable success.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

✅ How to “train” vision like a muscle (and pick the right rooms)

✅ A tiny daily rehearsal that locks in momentum

✅ How to reconceptualize failure so it upgrades your wiring

✅ Why purpose & generosity improve mental regulation

Follow Mark on Instagram: @themarkpentecost

Order Mark’s New Book “The Life of Your Dreams” https://www.amazon.com/Life-Your-Dreams-Financial-Freedom/dp/1637634234#:~:text=Review,action%20can%20create%20extraordinary%20results.

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We talk about breakups all the time—but rarely about the pain of losing a close friend. Yet, the grief can feel even heavier. Why? Because friendships are coded deep into your brain’s identity systems.

In this episode, I’ll explain:

✅ How the brain stores friendship bonds in emotional memory

✅ Why the loss of a friend triggers identity confusion

✅ Why you still replay conversations and crave closure

✅ How to heal without the “final talk” and start feeling whole again

This isn’t about pretending it didn’t matter. It’s about finding coherence inside your mind when the friendship story feels unfinished. 🎧 Watch now to understand why your grief is real—and how to move forward without losing yourself.

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Brain fog, anxiety, and mental decline are often treated like inevitable parts of aging. But what if that narrative is wrong?

In this episode, I’m joined by Harvard-trained physician and NAD expert Dr. Andrew Salzman, Chief Medical Officer at Wonderfeel, to explore the science of brain aging—and why your brain’s “fuel supply” matters more than you think.

We’ll unpack:

✅ Why cognitive decline isn’t inevitable

✅ How one molecule (NAD+) drives 500+ critical cellular functions

✅ Why NAD levels plunge by 50% by midlife—and what that means for brain health

✅ The surprising role of CD38 in accelerating aging

✅ Real-life benefits of NMN supplementation for energy, focus, and recovery

✅ How the Wonderfeel Youngr™ NMN formula is designed to protect NAD and support healthy aging

This conversation is about proactive longevity—not just adding years to life, but life to your years. Whether you’re 25 or 65, your brain needs energy to thrive.

🎧 Tune in now and learn how to keep your brain sharp, your memory strong, and your mind energized for decades to come.

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Is fear for your child’s future ruining your life?

Parenting today feels like living in a state of constant alert—climate headlines, tech dangers, school safety, mental health worries. But what if your chronic fear is changing your brain and sabotaging your ability to parent with presence?

In this episode, I break down the neuroscience of parenting fear loops and explain:

✅ Why your brain keeps rehearsing worst-case scenarios

✅ How chronic hypervigilance rewires neural networks

✅ Why vigilance isn’t love—and what protects your child better

✅ Simple, science-backed steps to reset your brain and regain peace

This isn’t about ignoring danger. It’s about breaking free from fear-based parenting so you can lead with calm clarity.

🎧 Watch now to learn the tools that protect your peace—because your peace protects your child.

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😳 “I might be the problem.”

That’s not a trend. That’s a turning point.

In this powerful episode, Dr. Caroline Leaf walks you through 8 psychologically disruptive truths that your brain might resist—but your healing may depend on. Rooted in neuroscience and psychoneurobiology, this is your invitation to reflect deeply, interrupt rehearsed patterns, and get radically honest without shame.

🧠 You’ll learn:

• Why your brain treats uncomfortable truth like a threat
• How the anterior cingulate cortex and default mode network resist accountability
• What happens when shame hijacks healing (and how to stop it)
• How overidentifying with self-diagnoses can rewire dysfunction
• Why joy is not a reward—it’s a skill your brain can rehearse
• How sugar and stillness shrink your brain’s adaptability
• The neuroscience behind why we push away what we most need to hear

💥 Whether it’s facing your patterns, questioning your comfort, or re-evaluating what you call “coping”—this episode is here to interrupt, not to punish. To clarify, not to condemn.

🎧 Chapters include:

• 00:00 Facing Your True Self
• 00:57 The Science of Confronting Hard Truths
• 01:39 The Power of Neuroplasticity
• 02:07 Five Hard Truths for Personal Growth
• 03:46 Acknowledging Your Role in Healing
• 06:30 The Impact of Labels on Self-Perception
• 08:58 Happiness as a Practice
• 12:35 The Effects of Sugar on the Brain
• 14:09 The Importance of Movement
• 15:55 Embracing Discomfort for Growth
• 18:23 Reflective Insight Over Shame
• 20:57 Conclusion and Next Steps

This is one of the most powerful episodes we’ve ever recorded—and if it stings, that doesn’t mean it’s wrong. It means it landed.

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Feeling wired, foggy, or emotionally reactive? Your gut might be the first place to look. 

In this powerful conversation with research microbiologist Kiran Krishnan, founder of Just Thrive, we explore how your microbiome shapes mood, resilience, immunity, and even the way you handle stress. Kiran is a research microbiologist and a health and wellness expert who aims to make complex information understandable to all. He has founded a number of successful health and supplement companies over the last 20 years including co-founding and leading Microbiome Labs, the preeminent, microbiome therapeutics focused brand among healthcare professionals. 

He has also been the driving force behind the scientific development of Just Thrive's line of products. He has conducted and published several research studies in scientific journals, has published chapters in scientific textbooks/reference books, has global patents and is a sought after speaker on human health and the microbiome. Kiran brings his extensive knowledge and practical application of the latest science on the human microbiome as it relates to health and wellness.

You’ll learn why most probiotics don’t survive your stomach acid, the five pillars for protecting your gut-brain connection, and how small shifts can transform your mental clarity. We also cover the surprising science of gut health in pets—and what you can do for them too.

Head to https://justthrivehealth.com/DRLEAF to save 20% and start your 90-Day Just Thrive Challenge today. Because when you fuel your gut, you fuel your life!

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