In this episode, I’m diving into the pervasive and often misunderstood emotion of guilt. Whether it’s guilt for setting boundaries, guilt tied to cultural or religious conditioning, or simply guilt for not meeting self-imposed standards, it’s something most of us face. Together, we’ll explore practical ways to identify, process, and release guilt so it no longer controls your life.

• The difference between rational and irrational guilt and how to identify them in your life.

• How cultural, familial, and societal conditioning contribute to chronic feelings of guilt.

• Simple techniques to break free from guilt cycles.

• How to check if you’re living in alignment with your values and moral code.

• Why self-compassion and self-forgiveness are transformative tools for moving past guilt.

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In this transformative episode, I share actionable insights on creating your identity intentionally, especially as we prepare for a new year. We explore why crafting your identity matters, the obstacles that often hold us back, and a step-by-step guide to aligning your actions with your desired self. This process is about living authentically, reducing inner conflict, and creating a fulfilling life. Whether you're striving for personal growth or professional success, this episode provides the tools to help you step into the person you’re meant to be.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

1. Why creating your identity on purpose is essential for living a fulfilling life.

2. The impact of societal and familial expectations on shaping who we are.

3. How to define your future self with clarity and alignment to your core values.

4. The science of small habits and their role in transforming identity over time.

5. How to embrace setbacks as opportunities for growth and practice self-compassion.

Tune in to this week’s episode, Creating Your Identity on Purpose, and start taking intentional steps toward your future self. Listen now and take the first step to transform your life!

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In today’s episode, we’re diving into joy. We’re tackling why so many of us struggle to make time for joy, the science behind why joy is so good for us, and practical steps to bring it back into our lives. If you have been feeling like you’re ready to uplevel your life, or like something is missing, this one is for you. 

1. Why joy feels inaccessible for so many people, especially high achievers, women, and caregivers.

2. The brain and body benefits of joy.

3. Practical tips to prioritize joy, even if you feel short on time.

4. How to overcome guilt and shift your mindset to embrace joyful activities.

Listen to the full episode now to rediscover your joy and learn actionable steps to bring more of it into your life. You’re worth it!

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In this episode, I dive into the science and solutions behind why negative thought patterns like guilt, imposter syndrome, and insecurity, seem to stick around even when we’re aware of them. These thought loops don’t define us, and I share actionable steps to help you break free and rewire your brain for lasting change.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

1. The three big reasons why negative thought patterns persist.

2. Why awareness is essential but not enough for true change.

3. A step-by-step guide to rewiring your brain.

4. How to recognize and interrupt thought loops tied to guilt, insecurity, and imposter syndrome.

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In this episode, we dive deep into preparing for holiday stress—covering difficult conversations, managing triggering relationships, and avoiding re-traumatization. Holidays can bring joy but also carry stress due to heightened expectations and unresolved family dynamics. I provide simple and practical tools to navigate these challenges.

1. Why family dynamics trigger deep emotions

2. The science of triggers 

3. Handling difficult conversations

4. Setting and maintaining boundaries

5. Practical strategies for emotional resilience

6. The real flex: Leading with love

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In this episode, I’m breaking down three big takeaways that came to me as I traveled, juggled commitments, and faced some personal reflections. From practicing gratitude to honoring my own needs, these lessons reminded me of the power we hold in our daily choices. Sometimes, it’s the simple shifts in perspective that make all the difference.

• The value of everyday freedoms 

• The impact of gratitude 

• Practical ways to honor your needs 

• The importance of being present and flexible

Grab a cozy spot, tune in, and let’s talk about these road-inspired lessons that might just shift your perspective too!

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In this episode, I return to the ever-relevant topic of self-compassion, exploring why it is essential for our mental and emotional well-being and how it impacts our daily lives. Self-compassion isn’t a one-time achievement but a lifelong practice. Drawing from Dr. Kristin Neff's foundational research, I delve into the three core components of self-compassion and offer easy, accessible methods to cultivate it within our busy lives. These practices are designed to help us lead with kindness, resilience, and emotional clarity, both in personal and professional settings.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why Self-Compassion Matters

• Core Components of Self-Compassion 

• Practical Practices

• Emotional Resilience and Stress Reduction

Tune in for real-life examples, effective practices, and insights to help you cultivate self-compassion as your inner compass, guiding you towards a healthier, happier life.

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In today’s episode, I dive into what I call the "messy middle"—that challenging, often uncomfortable phase of growth and transformation. Whether it's setting boundaries or rewiring our thoughts, the messy middle is an unavoidable, sometimes frustrating stage. We talk through the steps to recognize and navigate this space without quitting, even when discomfort and self-judgment arise.

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In this episode, I dive into time management strategies tailored for busy professionals juggling careers, parenting, and personal growth. Based on my coaching experiences, I explore how to clarify priorities, analyze how you’re currently spending your time, and create space for what matters most to you. I share real-life examples and tools to help you break free from the “I don’t have time” mindset and make intentional choices to reclaim your schedule.

In this episode, I discuss the importance of recognizing your own value in the midst of serving others. Through personal stories and coaching insights, I explore the difference between being a servant leader and being a martyr, and why it's essential to set boundaries and care for yourself. If you often put others' needs before your own and struggle with feelings of guilt when you take time for yourself, this episode is for you.

Key Takeaways:

• Understanding the difference between servant leadership and martyrdom.

• The importance of setting boundaries to protect your energy and well-being.

• How to overcome the guilt of taking time for yourself.

• Why giving to yourself allows you to give more generously to others.

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