The Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’Malley

In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I am speaking with the amazing Kacia Ghetmiri. Kacia is the host of the popular podcast "Empower Her." More than a podcaster or event host, you can think of Kacia as your go-to hype woman who is always there to encourage you and share experiences with you. She pulls back the curtain on what it means to redefine success and build a fulfilling life.

From business to relationships to everyday life, Kacia cuts through the BS fluff and has real, honest conversations that will help you get out of your own way and get where you want to be. She has built an amazing supportive and inclusive community of women who want MORE and are learning to unapologetically make moves so that they can move their passion into purpose.

Kacia has integrated the Enneagram into her life and used it to make a significant impact in the lives of so many. Keisha is an Enneagram seven, and I am diving into how I helped Keisha understand and embrace her Enneagram type. We also talk about Kacia’s podcast, her marriage, and her upcoming journey into motherhood. This conversation is incredible, heartfelt and empowering, whether you're Enneagram Seven or not.

This episode also emphasizes the significance of self-compassion and its positive influence on different areas of life, including business. Kacia and I highlight the importance of cultivating self-compassion, especially during challenging and demanding times. By being supportive and compassionate towards yourself, you can navigate obstacles and setbacks more effectively. Self-compassion can also contribute to the success and growth of a business, and when you can meet yourself with shame, judgment, or anger is not sustainable. Compassion is the key to personal and professional growth.


Connect with Tracy:
Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

Resources:
Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Email [email protected]

In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I dive into the significance of the triangle within the framework and diagram of the Enneagram. Enneagram 101 episodes feature powerful conversations, live typing sessions, and solo episodes that break down the dynamics of the Enneagram and their impact on life, career, and relationships.

Understanding the interconnectedness of the different triangles within the Enneagram framework is crucial for personal transformation, effective communication, and overcoming obstacles. The significance of the triangle in the Enneagram symbolizes our interconnectedness and shared characteristics, regardless of our Enneagram types. This understanding helps us foster a sense of unity. By recognizing and utilizing the different triangles within the Enneagram, we can gain insights into our core motives and fears, enabling us to break free from self-imposed limitations and societal expectations.

The lines connecting the points of the triangle in the Enneagram represent dynamic relationships between the types. These connections illustrate how individual types can exhibit traits from other types under different circumstances or levels of health and stress. While this doesn't mean we change our types or adopt the motivations and fears of other types, it does mean that we can embody different aspects or qualities from other types, which can be both advantageous and detrimental.

Understanding the integration and disintegration paths through the lines of the triangle provides insights into personal growth, balance, and harmony.

Connect with Tracy:
Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

Resources:
Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Email [email protected]

In this episode of Lead With The Enneagram, I am getting super vulnerable as I share the importance of being the MVP in your own life rather than constantly seeking validation from others.

I share a personal story from the mastermind event I attended and the value of freely giving your gifts without expecting anything in return. I also dive into the significance of understanding your motives and discerning whether actions come from a place of love and service or fear and ego.

I discuss the importance of understanding and embracing our emotions to facilitate healing, transformation, and the breaking of negative cycles - emphasizing that merely cognitively comprehending and rationalizing our emotions is not sufficient; we must genuinely feel them to initiate the process of healing and transformation.

I also explain how breakdowns lead to breakthroughs - breakdowns present opportunities for growth and transformation. By cultivating self-awareness, discernment, and self-acknowledgment, we can navigate through challenging moments and prevent them from derailing us for extended periods.


Connect with Tracy:
Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

Resources:
Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Email [email protected]

In this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I dive into the spiritual meaning of the Enneagram's circular shape. The circular shape symbolizes wholeness, unity, and interconnectedness. Each of the nine Enneagram types has a unique expression and perspective, but together they create a diverse and compassionate understanding of the world. Tune in to discover the spiritual dimensions of the Enneagram's circularity.

I discuss how the Enneagram serves as a roadmap to discovering your most authentic self. By understanding your Enneagram type, you gain valuable insights into your tendencies, blind spots, and inner landscape. Armed with this knowledge, you can navigate life's twists and turns with a newfound sense of clarity and purpose.

The journey of self-discovery is ongoing and the circular nature of the Enneagram is a symbol of continual uncovering of layers and moving towards greater self-awareness and self-compassion.

Connect with Tracy:
Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

Resources:
Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Email [email protected]

In this episode, we dive into integrating and leveraging your Enneagram type to become a powerful leader in your life. Our guest, Surbhi Dedhia, an Enneagram 7, shares her insights as an entrepreneur, mom, and fellow podcaster. Serby is the founder of Digital Genie, a boutique marketing consulting company, as well as jotmybio.com, a personal bio writing service. Surbhi hosts The Making of a Thought Leader podcast with an aim to encourage entrepreneurs to step up and build their thought leadership in their niche, systematically.

Surbhi’s past work experience with global consulting companies has helped her build B2B marketing efforts with a strong content foundation. This experience influences her even today to build solid brand narratives that engage client’s audiences sustainably. Businesses have entrusted Surbhi with content design and strategy, as a CMO on-demand, help with rebranding strategy and also to launch their own podcasts. Surbhi often pens her thoughts on #modernmarketing #branding and #thoughtleadership on her LinkedIn.

We also talk about significance of managing your online presence and how it can shape people's perceptions before meeting them in person. Trust plays a crucial role in business relationships. A strong online presence, including a well-crafted bio, can help individuals build trust with potential clients or business partners.

Connect with Tracy:
Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall T
racy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Resources:Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Email [email protected]

In this episode I am talking about the Enneagram being the holy grail of personal development tools. Understanding the "why" behind our actions and the actions of others is crucial for true understanding and transformation. The Enneagram goes beyond surface-level behaviors and delves into the underlying motivations, defense mechanisms, and fears that drive our thoughts, feelings, and actions. By comprehending the reasons behind our actions, we can cultivate compassion, empathy, and understanding for ourselves and others. This understanding empowers us to make positive changes and break free from repetitive cycles that may be holding us back.

When we truly see, hear, understand, and value others for who they are, including ourselves, the possibilities are endless. This understanding can be applied to various aspects of life, whether it's in entrepreneurship, building supportive relationships, or navigating the complexities of parenting. By understanding our motivations and underlying patterns, we can make informed choices and create meaningful change.

The Enneagram is a powerful tool for personal growth and development. It can be used for self-coaching and working with others. The insights gained from the Enneagram can lead to profound shifts in consciousness and accelerated transformation. By understanding our own motivational patterns and personal values, we can align our actions with our true selves and unlock our full potential. This understanding can also be applied to coaching others, assisting them in navigating their own personal growth journeys.

Connect with Tracy:
Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

Resources:
Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Email [email protected]

In this episode, I reflect on a recent workshop I did for a mastermind group. This workshop reflected to me all over again the power of bringing people together to learn about themselves and others, and how the Enneagram can create a sense of being seen and understood. It’s not enough just to know about the Enneagram, that’s not where the magic happens, the magic is in the integration. True transformation happens when you know how to integrate what you have learned into your life.

The Enneagram is a means to not only understand yourself, but also to gain insights into the motivations, fears, superpowers, and weaknesses of your loved ones. This understanding, when approached with compassion, kindness, and grace, allows for authentic and genuine connections, leading to the ability to make a significant impact in both personal and professional relationships.

Integration is not only important for personal well-being, but also for success in business. Being able to effectively express ourselves and communicate our gifts and impact-making abilities is crucial for creating transformation and solving problems. Understanding and leading ourselves is the most important part of the integration process, and the Enneagram can accelerate this journey.

Connect with Tracy:
Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

Resources:
Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Email [email protected]

In this episode, I am talking about the importance of the Enneagram in our lives and its significance in personal transformation. The Enneagram is not just a trendy label, but a powerful tool for understanding yourself and others. I share with with you how I first resisted the Enneagram, but how it has not only had a massive impact on my life, but how it has helped shape me and better understand not just who I am, but the people in my life I care the most about. It has helped me to navigate difficult conversations, understand different perspectives, and create deeper bonds.

We explore the transformative power of self-awareness and self-exploration, leading to the development of self-compassion and self-honoring practices. This journey can be challenging, but it also uncovers new ways of showing kindness and understanding towards yourself. By becoming more self-aware, we can identify our needs, desires, and boundaries, and prioritize our own well-being.

Connect with Tracy:
Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

Resources:
Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Email [email protected]

In this episode, I am talking all about procrastination, how it affects high achievers and the importance of understanding the root cause behind procrastination and approaching it with compassion and grace.

Procrastination is a common struggle for everyone and often stems from a fear of vulnerability or the anticipation of being exposed. The fear of conflict, betrayal, or violation may arise from pursuing your dreams and by recognizing and acknowledging these fears, you can approach them with compassion and empathy, ultimately embracing the discomfort rather than avoiding it. By doing so, you can develop new systems and tools that enable you to fulfill your true potential and answer your personal and professional callings.

Tune in to identify your Enneagram Type’s triggers for procrastination and gain a deeper understanding of why it occurs and how you can address it with compassion and grace.

Connect with Tracy:
Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/
Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/
Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall
Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

Resources:
Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop
Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Using Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7
Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme
Email [email protected]

In this episode I am letting you inside all that we have been working on behind the scenes for the podcast! I am developing new and valuable methods for integrating the Enneagram into your life and I want to provide you not only with knowledge about the Enneagram but also with practical strategies to apply it in both your personal and professional life.

When I've interviewed people in the past or done hot seat coaching, those are the episodes you love the most. You love hearing people just like you. learning about themselves and talking about the Enneagram and how this applies in their life personally and professionally. Even if you're not that type, you have people in your life that maybe are that type. Learning about the people that you love, the people that you lead through the eyes, the sound, the heart of another human are some of the best ways that you not only learn and gather information, but you also integrate in your life. So I'm going to be offering The Enneagram Hotline to people just like you, everyone. You have an opportunity to be live on air on this podcast

Listen in to find out all about the BRAND NEW Enneagram Hotline and how you can get on!

Connect with Tracy:
Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/

Resources:
Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeEmail [email protected]