The Epic Couple's Journey

What can a jade egg bring to your sex life?

Daniela and Shaun talk about jade eggs, what constitutes a jade egg practice, and what it brings to their sex life. From normalizing women’s health and sexuality to providing a deeper connection and greater sensitivity, listen as they talk about a jade egg practice.

Hear Shaun say, “Hold on. Timeout. Can you tell me what the hell is a jade egg? I don't think we talk about this very much.” Hear Daniela say, “It’s another one of those things around women's health and women's sexuality that is completely ignored. And so the sentiment is don't talk about it, and you have to live with it. It's not going to get better. You get to just sit in shame around it. And hopefully that also shuts you up around it so you don't talk about it.” Tune in to hear Daniela explain the power of a strong and relaxed pelvic floor for great sex.

Through Daniela and Shaun’s conversation consider social-conditioning in long term relationships around your partner’s sexuality being yours and theirs being yours. Begin to look at how a strong individual connection to your sexuality with something like a jade egg practice can empower the intimacy and sex in your relationship.

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What is your idea of Tantra?

Daniela and Shaun share their experiences exploring Tantra over the last few weeks. From expanding their sense of foreplay to witnessing each other in deeper pleasure, listen as they talk about a Tantric connection.

Hear Daniela ask Shaun, “What are you doing with all of the sexual and emotional energy you're experiencing that I perceive is building through the series of Tantric practices we’re doing?” Hear Shaun say, “Maybe I'm thinking about this all wrong because in the past I've thought the specific Tantra connection I have is with you. But if you aren't necessarily having that connection because you're in student mode…then the Tantric connection I have is actually with myself.” Tune in to experience Shaun’s breakthrough with understanding his experience with and the effects of Tantra.

Through Daniela and Shaun’s conversation consider your preconceived notions around Tantra and what it’s about. Begin to look at what Tantra can bring to your relationship with yourself and how it can deepen a connection with your partner.

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What is your idea of Tantra?

Daniela and Shaun share their experiences exploring Tantra over the last few weeks. From expanding their sense of foreplay to witnessing each other in deeper pleasure, listen as they talk about a Tantric connection.

Hear Daniela ask Shaun, “What are you doing with all of the sexual and emotional energy you're experiencing that I perceive is building through the series of Tantric practices we’re doing?” Hear Shaun say, “Maybe I'm thinking about this all wrong because in the past I've thought the specific Tantra connection I have is with you. But if you aren't necessarily having that connection because you're in student mode…then the Tantric connection I have is actually with myself.” Tune in to experience Shaun’s breakthrough with understanding his experience with and the effects of Tantra.

Through Daniela and Shaun’s conversation consider your preconceived notions around Tantra and what it’s about. Begin to look at what Tantra can bring to your relationship with yourself and how it can deepen a connection with your partner.

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What would you do with two days and no obstacles or responsibilities?

Daniela and Shaun work through what they’d do with forty-eight hours without their children. Oscillating between staying home to relax or going out and having fun, they talk about their experiences with manifesting fun while doing sex magic. Listen as things get heated while they discuss spending time alone and spending time together.



For my number one tool for increased intimacy and connection in your relationship, check out my Desires, Fears, Loves guided audio you can do with your partner in less than 15 minutes. Go to epiccouplespodcast.com/desiresfearsloves and press play.


Hear Daniela ask, “You've got 48 hours. What do you do? All of a sudden I'm thinking you get on a plane to Vegas like in an action movie.” Listen as Shaun says, “How about a smorgasbord? A little bit of time to yourself, a little bit of down time, and a little bit of chakra time, and a little bit of a little bit of going out.” Tune in to experience how projections and stories affect the harmony of their relationship.

Through Daniela and Shaun’s conversation reflect on the differing needs and desires of your partner and you when it comes to free time. Explore how you can compromise to make the most of your epic life together.

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What would you do with two days and no obstacles or responsibilities?

Daniela and Shaun work through what they’d do with forty-eight hours without their children. Oscillating between staying home to relax or going out and having fun, they talk about their experiences with manifesting fun while doing sex magic. Listen as things get heated while they discuss spending time alone and spending time together.



For my number one tool for increased intimacy and connection in your relationship, check out my Desires, Fears, Loves guided audio you can do with your partner in less than 15 minutes. Go to epiccouplespodcast.com/desiresfearsloves and press play.


Hear Daniela ask, “You've got 48 hours. What do you do? All of a sudden I'm thinking you get on a plane to Vegas like in an action movie.” Listen as Shaun says, “How about a smorgasbord? A little bit of time to yourself, a little bit of down time, and a little bit of chakra time, and a little bit of a little bit of going out.” Tune in to experience how projections and stories affect the harmony of their relationship.

Through Daniela and Shaun’s conversation reflect on the differing needs and desires of your partner and you when it comes to free time. Explore how you can compromise to make the most of your epic life together.

Go to EpicCouplesPodcast.com for more.

How can you reprioritize yourself and your relationship while parenting?

Daniela and Shaun share what they both lost individually and as a couple when they became parents. Daniela asks if parenting is really the key or if homeownership or being a workaholic can also contribute to this experience of forgetting who you are and how to be together. Listen as they talk about how to slow the momentum of parental responsibility to remember yourself and your relationship.


For my number one tool for increased intimacy and connection in your relationship, check out my Desires, Fears, Loves guided audio you can do with your partner in less than 15 minutes. Go to EpicCouplesPodcast.com/desiresfearsloves and press play.


Hear Daniela ask, “When we were in the chapters of our relationship where we'd lost ourselves individually and who we were as a couple, do you have a sense of what we lost?” Listen as Shaun says, “When they do go to school and suddenly you have just the slightest bit of time to yourself or time for your relationship, it's hard to be like, ‘Where do we even pick up? What do I do? What did we do before? How did I do it before? Wow. How did we even live before this?’” Tune in as they look at how becoming a parent reorganizes and jumbles all of your responsibilities and priorities.

Through Daniela and Shaun’s conversation reflect on the effects of parenthood on your relationship and sense of self. Explore how you can divert some energy from parenting to your partner’s and your needs and wants and desires and dreams.

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How can you reprioritize yourself and your relationship while parenting?

Daniela and Shaun share what they both lost individually and as a couple when they became parents. Daniela asks if parenting is really the key or if homeownership or being a workaholic can also contribute to this experience of forgetting who you are and how to be together. Listen as they talk about how to slow the momentum of parental responsibility to remember yourself and your relationship.


For my number one tool for increased intimacy and connection in your relationship, check out my Desires, Fears, Loves guided audio you can do with your partner in less than 15 minutes. Go to EpicCouplesPodcast.com/desiresfearsloves and press play.


Hear Daniela ask, “When we were in the chapters of our relationship where we'd lost ourselves individually and who we were as a couple, do you have a sense of what we lost?” Listen as Shaun says, “When they do go to school and suddenly you have just the slightest bit of time to yourself or time for your relationship, it's hard to be like, ‘Where do we even pick up? What do I do? What did we do before? How did I do it before? Wow. How did we even live before this?’” Tune in as they look at how becoming a parent reorganizes and jumbles all of your responsibilities and priorities.

Through Daniela and Shaun’s conversation reflect on the effects of parenthood on your relationship and sense of self. Explore how you can divert some energy from parenting to your partner’s and your needs and wants and desires and dreams.

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What’s the lowest risk way you can initiate sex with your partner?

Daniela and Shaun talk about having middle-of-the-night sex when there’s a little bit of sensory deprivation, fumbling, and an element of wildness. They explore how initiating sex with your partner when they’re sleeping is the easiest way of receiving rejection. Listen as they talk about their preferred position, why they place almond oil all throughout their house, and what “blue vagina” is like.


For my number one tool for increased intimacy and connection in your relationship, check out my Desires, Fears, Loves guided audio you can do with your partner in less than 15 minutes. Go to epiccouplespodcast.com/desiresfearsloves and press play.


Hear Shaun say, “It’s a very large step for me to put my hand between your legs. I won't do that unless it's pretty much in a contract somewhere. I need some pretty big affirmation for that to happen.” Listen as Daniela says, “Like oiling up your partner's body…you’re touching their body in a sensual way and then perhaps in a sexual way…building pleasure for the sake of pleasure, for the sake of connection, for relaxation. It doesn't always have to lead to sex. In fact it's beautiful when there are choices around touch that don't have to lead to sex.” Tune in as they look at the heteronormative expectation for sex to end with male climax and how they want to change it in their relationship.

Through Daniela and Shaun’s conversation reflect on how you initiate sex with your partner and the things you know that turn them on. Explore how you can open yourself up to opportunities for connection and intimacy while touching with consent.

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