This episode dives into the powerful story of a former Mormon who shares her journey from being a devoted member of the church to reclaiming her autonomy and identity. Elayna opens up about growing up in a tight-knit Mormon community, where strict rules around purity and behaviour made her feel isolated and controlled. She talks honestly about the fear, guilt, and loneliness she carried as a child, and how those feelings eventually pushed her to question and leave her faith.

A really eye-opening part of the conversation explores her decision to become a stripper, a bold move that she frames as reclaiming her body, power, and freedom. This shift wasn’t just about a new career but about pushing back against stigma and healing from past trauma. She explains how setting boundaries and embracing consent helped her build a sense of agency she’d never had before.

Who is Elayna?

Elayna is an ex-Mormon turned stripper! Mormonism brought her sexual shame while the sex industry brought her sexual healing. The work of Dr. Marlene Winell was pivotal in her religious recovery process.

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• You can more about Elayna on her website - https://www.elaynalove.com
• You can also connect over on Instagram - @elaynalove

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