Everyone has their own thoughts and feelings in any given circumstance, thus creating their experience.  We all SEE things differently. Sometimes we don't always agree with another's perspective and how they are perceiving their experience, and we try to change or control them.  Other times we try to prevent an unpleasant experience.  It doesn't always work out. In fact, most of the time it creates problems for us and for them. When we try to control another person's experience, we may end up preventing some experiential learning and creating a disconnect.  Listen in to this podcast to learn more and discover how to "mourn with those that mourn" and "comfort those in need of comfort."