The Feminist Bar Podcast

Host Tinatswe Mhaka is joined by Chido Musamirapamwe Siame and Melusi Dhlamini to discuss the evolving field of sexual pleasure medicine. Together, they unpack how this area of medicine is defined and approached, exploring its impact on personal lives, relationships, and broader societal narratives about intimacy and the body. This insightful conversation challenges stigma and highlights the importance of understanding sexual pleasure through a medical and feminist lens.

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It’s our 100th episode, and what a journey it’s been! Thank you for tuning in, showing up, and being part of this growing community of feminists, thinkers, and changemakers. This isn’t just a celebration of the podcast—it’s a celebration of all of you who’ve made it possible.

In this quick 2025 update, I’m sharing some thoughts on where we’ve been, what’s coming next, and why you should come on the podcast this year! Let’s discourse, chat, and make 2025 the year of even deeper, richer, and louder conversations.

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In this episode, host Tinatswe Mhaka sits down with Zimbabwean author Chido Muchemwa to explore stories of home, family, and belonging. They dive into the complexities of why we leave home and why we stay, reflecting on the emotional experiences of being the one who leaves—or is left behind. Through the lens of Chido’s recently published collection Who Will Bury You and Other Stories, they examine these themes in their own lives and the lives of those around them.

Chido Muchemwa is a Zimbabwean writer based in Canada and the author of Who Will Bury You and Other Stories. A 2022 recipient of the Morland African Writing Scholarship, her work has appeared in The Baltimore Review, Canthius, and Humber Literary Review. She holds a Ph.D. from the University of Toronto, where her research explored queer histories and narratives in Zimbabwe.

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In this episode, we’re diving into the rise of red pill content and its impact on our lives. We explore what red pill content is, how online misogyny has evolved over the years, and the way it intersects with patriarchy, feminism, and violence.

We also discuss how these dynamics play out in online spaces and what it means to navigate them as activists, feminists, and queer individuals. Join us for this critical conversation on resisting misogyny and reclaiming digital spaces. If you would like to follow or support the podcast you can follow on: 

In this episode of The Feminist Bar Podcast, host Tinatswe Mhaka welcomes Thandi Gula-Ndebele to dive deep into the concept of shadow work. Together, they explore how confronting our childhood wounds and generational trauma can help us cultivate healthier relationships, both with ourselves and others. They discuss the importance of working on our inner self, healing from past pain, and breaking cycles passed down through parental relationships. For anyone curious about starting their own journey of shadow work, this episode offers guidance on the "how" and "why" of this transformative process.

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In this episode of The Feminist Bar Podcast, Tinatswe Mhaka sits down with guests from diverse spiritual backgrounds—an atheist, and an agnostic—to have an honest and engaging conversation about religion, deconstruction, and the journey toward self-discovery. They each share their personal experiences with religion and spirituality, exploring how these beliefs (or lack thereof) have shaped their understanding of self, relationships, and community. From navigating religious expectations to redefining spirituality in a more inclusive and open way, the discussion unpacks the beauty, challenges, and nuances of finding one's own path.

Tune in to hear how each speaker's unique perspective adds depth to this rich conversation on faith, doubt, and connection.

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In this episode of The Feminist Bar Podcast, Tinatswe Mhaka sits down with Min'enhle Mguni to explore how porn and exploitative sexual content have shaped society's understanding of sex and intimacy. They delve into the centering of the male gaze, the exclusion of diverse body types, races, and identities, and how these portrayals can distort our perceptions of healthy sexual relationships. The conversation also touches on how shame and unrealistic expectations have influenced people's experiences with sex, and what can be done to promote more inclusive, realistic, and healthy conversations about intimacy.

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In this episode, we delve into access to justice for queer Zimbabwean women, girls, and non-binary folk. Our guests share their encounters with the formal justice system and civic institutions, revealing the deep challenges they face in a system that often ignores or mistreats them.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Interactions with the formal justice system, from the police to the courts, and how queer individuals are frequently mistreated or dismissed when seeking protection or justice.

To learn more and dive deeper into the stories and reflections, you can download the SAFE report here.

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• This episode was brought to you by Feminist Voices Zimbabwe, with the support of the Purposeful Fund.

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In this episode, we dive into the digital world and explore the complexities of safety and security for queer Zimbabwean women, girls, and non-binary folk navigating online spaces. As social media becomes a double-edged sword, offering connection and risk, we hear stories from our community about the threats they face and how they fight to stay safe online. Our guests share experiences of being doxxed online, having their identities and private information exposed maliciously, and the powerful role of social media inThis episode sheds light on how queer individuals in Zimbabwe navigate the dangers of the digital world while seeking connection and solidarity. From online harassment to finding safe spaces, these stories highlight both the risks and the resilience required to survive in hostile online environments.

To read more of these stories and reflections, you can download the SAFE report here.

Credits:

• This episode was brought to you by Feminist Voices Zimbabwe, with the support of the Purposeful Fund.

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• Twitter: @thefeministbar