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What if the most expensive choice isn’t divorce—it’s staying put? We pull back the curtain on the true financial toll of an unhappy marriage, from hidden debts you never signed off on to the slow bleed of funding a lifestyle that later becomes the benchmark for spousal support. Through real client stories, we trace how shared liabilities, unapproved loans, and retirement withdrawals can quietly rewrite your balance sheet while you’re trying to keep the peace.

We talk through practical safeguards—prenups or postnups, shared logins, regular financial check-ins—and offer a structured worksheet to calculate your monthly cost of staying versus leaving. The aim isn’t to push you out the door; it’s to arm you with numbers so your next step—whether to work on the marriage or plan an exit—rests on clarity, not guesswork.

Ready to see your situation in black and white? Stream the episode, download the worksheet, and start your calculation. If this conversation helps, follow the show, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs a clear-eyed view of their options.

• Email us at [email protected] to get your copy of the "Cost of Staying Worksheet"
• Click below to listen to attorney Amy Byer discuss financial infidelity and divorce with Jacki
• https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/financial-infidelity-with-divorce-attorney-amy-byer/id1735150222?i=1000664419011

Visit us at https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case.

The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/