The Girl Who Can - Increasing Productivity For Women, Finding-Self Confidence, Create A Balanced Life

If i'm honest with you- i'm overwhelmed. Its still the beginning of the year and there are so many expectations to "set goals" and think about what you want to accomplish this year. Which is great! BUT if you're anything like me- a planner- this time of the year can also cause overthinking, comparison, and overall just feeling overwhelmed. Today I talk you through why we might feel overwhelmed and the possible lack of boundaries that gets us there in the first place. This is a honest conversation that also gives you insight to how to prevent the burnout.

• How to Stop All Or Nothing Thinking And A More Important Question To Be Asking Yourself 

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I think theres something so empowering as a women to feel strong in her body. When i workout- I workout to feel strength. This strength I embody in my workouts I've seen transfer outside of the gym to my life mentally how I approach situations. Strength isn't about what you look like or how much weight you can lift or the type of workout you do. In this episode, Arissa strips health and fitness back to what the foundations should be so then you can physically show up and be strong. This conversation transfers out how you can also develop strength in your day-to-day life. 

WHAT TO LISTEN FOR

• Strength is not a one-size-fits-all approach 

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Every year I pick a word that I want to embody for the year, a word that helps remind me what I want to invite in more and practice more of. This has really helped me focus on what is important and set intention for the new year. Today I talk about the word I chose for 2023, and that is "Brave". I explain why this is and also invite you to join me by giving you tips on daily things you can try to invite bravery into your life. 

THINGS TO LISTEN FOR 

• The key differences between being brave and bold/hustling 

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New Year, New Me- right? We hear it everywhere this time of year, the goal setting talk, how to make goals, how to keep the motivation, how to stay consistent, all the "good" stuff. Well- i'm burnt out on all of that talk quite honestly. And I think you are too, we've heard it so much that we don't even know how to apply it anymore. In todays episode, I talk about the journey to reaching a goal vs being so focused on the outcome. This was a huge game changer for me and I cant wait for you to absolutely CRUSH 2023 with this mindset. 

WHAT TO LISTEN FOR 

• Why having such a specific goal can be holding you back

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There's this little voice in our head sometimes that tells us "You don't deserve this" , "What if this isn't going to last", "I shouldn't be this happy". And even if its not as blunt as that, there are some actions that we do that cause us to self-sabotage good things we have going on in our life. In this episode Arissa is direct and clear that you are the only person who can give yourself permission to be happy. She also brings awareness to what you might be doing now that preventing you from being happy and/or people you might be relying on to give you that permission.

• How to receive and have a joy that almost can't be understood by others

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Public speaking- almost everyones biggest fear. But if you can master public speaking, you can master anything. When you get confident with what you're saying and how you say it this can be a game changer in how you go about your job, relationships, and relationship with yourself. In this episode Arissa talks through tactical tips on how to be more direct in your words, how to quiet that inner voice that is telling you your opinion doesn't matter, and the power YOUR voice has to create incredible things.

WHAT TO LISTEN FOR

• Ways to practice being a better communicator and public speaker daily 

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The Holidays can bring happiness for a lot of people, but can also being a sense of loneliness for others. Girl, you're never alone. This episode is for everyone regardless if you are alone or feel surrounded by many. We chat about how being alone is actually so important to have a relationship with yourself. You should't spend time with people just for the sake of spending time with them, protecting your heart and energy partly is being selective who you allow yourself to be surround by. Arissa walks you through her difficulties of being alone and how she worked through them and why being alone first is actually essential to loving other people well. 

THINGS TO LISTED FOR 

• Difference between being alone and feeling lonely 

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As we head into the holidays and approach the new year, you might be thinking about goals you want to set. Is there something you've always wanted to do but are stuck in fear from taking action on it? Arissa talks about fear, where it comes from, and how to overcome it. A big focus in this episode is confidence- discussing self confidence vs true confidence and the differences. This is a must listen if you've even gotten trapped in the overthinking cycle that causes fear to take over. 

• How the "manifesting" culture might be impacting you 

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The Holidays are among us! For me- Thanksgiving has always been a time that reminds me to be grateful. I used to be someone who was the opposite of grateful- I was carrying around a lot of jealousy and some anger. In this episode I talk about how to stay grateful in the midst of struggles, how to have a heart of gratitude and ways to stay in a givers mindset. I encourage you to listen and reflect on what you're grateful for and invite others into the conversation. 

• Shifting your mindset from "I have to do these things" to " I GET to do these things"

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Rejected by a job? Rejected on a date? Rejected by your friends? Not a fun feeling- it hurts, stings, sucks, all of the above. It's inevitable that you're going to go through one rejection or ten at some point. Sometimes it feels like it's never ending. In this episode Arissa shines light on this topic to give you a new perspective on how you can youse your rejection as a redirection to what you want. Also gets real honest about how we have to walk through the rejection and face the hurt and why thats actually so much more beneficial.

- Remember you aren't responsible or changing the people that facilitated the rejection 

- Toxic positivity and how to avoid it 

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