The GoodKind Podcast

In this episode of The GoodKind Podcast, Clayton Greene, Chris Pappalardo, and business partner and friend, Arthur Tew engage in a light-hearted conversation about the importance of playfulness in the home and its connection to spirituality.

They explore how play can enhance family dynamics, foster deeper connections, and contribute to personal growth. The discussion also touches on the challenges adults face in maintaining a playful spirit and how to navigate playtime with children amidst adult responsibilities. Ultimately, the episode emphasizes the value of embracing interruptions and being open to playful moments in life.

Takeaways

• Play is essential for spiritual growth and family dynamics.
• Children naturally embody playfulness, which adults can learn from.
• Creating space for play can enhance relationships and personal well-being.

• Playfulness is linked to humility and vulnerability.
• Adults often lose their playful spirit due to societal pressures.

• Living an abundant life includes embracing all aspects of human experience, including play.
• Saying yes in advance to play can foster a more playful environment.

Resources

• The Power of Fun, by Catherine Price https://www.amazon.com/Power-Fun-Feel-Alive-Again/dp/0593241401
• The Fun Habit, by Mike Rucker https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982159065/?bestFormat=true&k=the%20fun%20habit%20by%20mike%20rucker&ref_=nb_sb_ss_w_scx-ent-pd-bk-d_k0_1_13_de&crid=1AM710KRFDBCQ&sprefix=the%20fun%20habit
• The Gifts of Imperfection, by Brene Brown https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Think-Supposed-Embrace-ebook/dp/B00BS03LL6/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2B6GAUSKWY50Z&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.GK7i91ZGiTfzEF3gCtOK03qEKVwBr5gksbrxLOy_MzLuKnLaZYxBzjRO_49JXefWDwur47rqfYJVdHNzT3kGTCFud6V82Sjn3UAJUnc2NYJ8zA0TlbiW5tuCAiJCacRVWU-zWo-Cw2bdYqrFwoCRgpR6g59N-r989_iKwu5GX3HGYLSIxCSLbwKeldqQOO4UACcMa9OZrv_rN3OCUFBWxGIKOufg5kx4V7FXvNcWSKk.Acx1krghCgX027691qSCzwkE7U-XqIrIYJjiJOruaCM&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+gifts+of+imperfection&qid=1754074532&s=digital-text&sprefix=the+gifts+of+imperfection%2Cdigital-text%2C111&sr=1-1
• Invitation to a Journey, by Robert Mulholland https://www.amazon.com/dp/0830846174/?bestFormat=true&k=invitation%20to%20a%20journey%20by%20robert%20mulholland&ref_=nb_sb_ss_w_scx-ent-pd-bk-d_k0_1_13_de&crid=1HVV5PZC6C5YR&sprefix=invitation%20to

In this episode of The GoodKind Podcast, Clayton Greene, Chris Pappalardo, and Arthur Tew unpack the surprisingly spiritual side of... homework. Through stories from public school, homeschooling, and their own childhoods, they wrestle with what homework actually teaches kids—not just academically, but spiritually.

They reflect on the difference between meaningful work and busywork, how homework intersects with identity and overwork, and whether school is subtly shaping our kids to see productivity as a primary value. By the end, it’s clear: how we talk about homework shapes how our kids think about work, worth, and even Sabbath.

Takeaways

• Homework is more than just worksheets. It can train kids in independence and perseverance—or frustrate them with pointless busywork.

• Meaningful work matters. Kids are more motivated when they understand the purpose of what they’re doing—whether it’s a Shakespearean writing prompt or feeding chickens.

• All homework is not created equal. Parents can help kids distinguish between tasks that just need to get done, and tasks that are vital to learning.

• Homework shouldn’t sabotage Sabbath. Carving out weekend space free from school demands models a rhythm of grace.

In this episode of The GoodKind Podcast, Chris Pappalardo, Amy Kavanaugh, and Brian Turney discuss their feelings about mornings, summer routines, and the challenges of parenting.

They share personal anecdotes about their morning routines, the chaos of getting kids ready, and the emotional dynamics that come into play. The conversation also centers around the spiritual moments that the morning offers, and what to do about societal or self-imposed expectations.

Takeaways

• Mornings can be chaotic, especially with kids.
• It's important to set the tone for the day.
• Finding a balance between routine and flexibility is key.

• Small moments of connection, even a single "God moment" can be meaningful in the morning.
• Mornings aren't the only opportunity for spiritual connection.
• It's okay to not have a perfect morning routine.

In this episode of The GoodKind Podcast, Chris, Clayton, and Amy are continuing their conversation on timing, and how it affects our spiritual habits, specifically reading the Bible. (If you haven't listened to the first part, "When NOT To Read Your Bible" check it out first!)

They explore various times of day and seasons that may be more conducive to reading your Bible, emphasizing that different individuals may find success at different times. The conversation also touches on practical tips for integrating Bible reading into daily routines and the importance of being gracious with oneself regarding spiritual practices.

Takeaways

• Timing has a huge impact on how we live our lives.

• Reading scripture should be integrated into daily routines.
• Engaging with scripture doesn't have to be limited to morning or evening.
• Consider seasonal changes when planning Bible study.

• Daily rituals can help create a consistent spiritual practice.
• It's important to find a time that works for your personal rhythm.
• Graciousness in spiritual practices is essential.

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Recommended Books:

Building Spiritual Habits in the Home, by Chris Pappalardo and Clayton Greene (That's us!) https://www.amazon.com/Building-Spiritual-Habits-Home-Small/dp/0802434304

WHEN, by Daniel H. Pink https://www.amazon.com/When-Scientific-Secrets-Perfect-Timing/dp/0735210632/ref=sr_1_1?crid=47SSUZKYBVS6&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.PS0-u263-p6xU-EePFxMiM774_HJ9KUo4_LfV1KrBQ_jGqaqckAdrDMhYLhsBH-8xH-d9ZAteMvvyprFdDOiCn9KbXaUZ1iK8srmk6mQQhNNFvYSCdAhhIXwF9Vyp78-YCu7cyw8xR_YJOzNEwBRkASI791tBjJlrBE4rsXY14oca3Ft6igMf9SRGr5M0GQ4lr0WYfuA0PAKs02RC7XRAp2XmPqQ8TQsvJu29Jg36Vs.TzVMmbZ5YN9XzpBx60xcBhE0Gbv5TAdLuit96zSrvUc&dib_tag=se&keywords=when+daniel+pink&qid=1752499991&s=books&sprefix=when+daniel+pink%2Cstripbooks%2C105&sr=1-1

How to Inhabit Time, by James K. A. Smith https://www.amazon.com/How-Inhabit-Time-Understanding-Faithfully/dp/1587435233/ref=sr_1_1?crid=DIJE81ED1D5H&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.vb2Jsjm5-JD_jHGPimGyBUCtNs3NI7YTFrinZ9zbTZEXUZrUiKB7eQgmziC1lfZzTEDYXrRBdKKg9qyO1krOA9bBeDk8TecZWcZbaJJM2r2h9O04mlXXQsI3poe5xmXlyEIokY2wLBCfiEKocM7XIBx5juQ48qhsVl0A-CaJPs7rtqByx81t_QO_oemSB1YnAvNfLogj9v5GZsCZi7VXYfGstQQGdbT-yOyWjLL0Lt0.qAriNwNNh3eQrGQj_Azj4EaHaxaGpkRjNnX4UrFbwwc&dib_tag=se&keywords=how+to+inhabit+time&qid=1752499830&s=books&sprefix=how+to+inhabit+time+%2Cstripbooks%2C127&sr=1-1

Becoming Friends of Time, by John Swinton https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Friends-Time-Timefullness-Discipleship/dp/1481304097/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I4U8H2HZ867W&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.F3O4OQGwfEDu56JAI_P0lcEfmMCNU9uG2Wmo8XnxFt68XixgLb-5um3xfKntSeWwKsyKnv6srAzPQ82QYlhja-_0CYuouPJGoqSjHRO4XYAv1whO4790KE3j_BKw8Oo55oU9UYxlYYzQUuCSDkoPv7pCehYtanmH41o1QJAM3imkxSAMW7wsjr4CQr_6gTFL.Qiwd24PsG8Qp_mYhiHeOWwN8IRbri-sLq0ZXXfloY_o&dib_tag=se&keywords=becoming+friends+of+time&qid=1752499874&s=books&sprefix=becoming+friends+of+time%2Cstripbooks%2C102&sr=1-1

This episode of The GoodKind Podcast is all about Bible Reading—when and how to read it, and also, when not to read it.

Chris, Clayton, and Amy emphasize the significance of the Bible as God's revealed word and explore the balance between reading and listening to the Bible. The conversation also touches on practical recommendations for Bible intake and the importance of varying one's approach to scripture for better understanding and engagement.

Takeaways

• The Bible is vital for spiritual nourishment.

• Different learning styles affect how we read the Bible.
• Listening to the Bible can be as effective as reading it.
• It's important to vary Bible intake methods.
• Reading the Bible should be enjoyable and accessible.

• Creating a habit of Bible intake is essential for spiritual growth.

Today's episode of The GoodKind Podcast is all about keeping it simple. Hosts Clayton Greene, Amy Kavanaugh, and Chris Pappalardo discuss the nature of habits, the importance of consistency, and how spiritual practices can transform one's relationship with God.

The conversation emphasizes the balance between making spiritual habits easy and ensuring they remain deep and meaningful. The hosts also touch on the role of knowledge in faith and the necessity of creating accessible spiritual practices for everyone.

Takeaways

• Consistency in spiritual practices leads to deeper transformation.

• Making spiritual habits easy can help in building consistency.
• Spiritual habits should be personal and adaptable to individual needs.

• Depth in spirituality does not have to be complicated or difficult.
• Creating accessible spiritual practices is essential for growth.

In this episode of The GoodKind Podcast, hosts Clayton, Chris, and Amy discuss the importance of chores in family life, exploring how they teach responsibility, independence, and teamwork among children. They share personal anecdotes about their own family routines, the challenges of parenting, and the balance between independence and togetherness in household tasks. The conversation also touches on the spiritual aspects of habit formation and the role of chores in developing healthy, structured adults.

Takeaways

• Chores are essential for teaching responsibility and independence.

• The concept of chores can be framed as a communal responsibility within the family.

• Chores can be seen as practice opportunities for life skills.
• Independence in chores can foster a sense of teamwork within the family.

• The process of teaching chores can be viewed as an apprenticeship.
• Making time for teaching chores is crucial for effective parenting.
• Chores can create opportunities for connection and togetherness in family life.

In this episode of The GoodKind podcast, Clayton, Chris, and Amy discuss the significance of tangible items in enhancing spiritual practices and faith engagement. They explore how physical objects can serve as reminders and tools for personal growth, emphasizing the importance of being intentional in cultivating faith through everyday items.

The conversation includes personal anecdotes about items that have impacted their spiritual lives, such as scripture memory tattoos and prayer chips, and concludes with practical takeaways for listeners to incorporate tangible reminders into their own faith journeys.

Takeaways

• Tangible items significantly impact our spiritual lives.
• Physical objects can serve as reminders to engage with faith.

• Tangible reminders can help cultivate intentional habits.

• Personal items can help transition into different roles or mindsets.
• Finding physical objects that resonate with personal intentions is key.

Links

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Our book, Building Spiritual Habits in the Home: https://www.amazon.com/Building-Spiritual-Habits-Home-Small/dp/0802434304/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1Z8YOBA8SBNM6&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.qu59ZbacDPX9GZL4rJK2Jtt4lZDB6c0lLMCKQAncVmkf-Cr5ysok9kF0VH3WhHkdsjASUe0SbXXIvZeI5zDWl1mbJJ_68Utl1jwya2wGA0w.8bhF9konQ3ZJ3HqYYfP5omh6Y7QaJEvhK3nVqvV0x54&dib_tag=se&keywords=building+spiritual+habits+in+the+home&qid=1733772078&sprefix=building+spiritual+%2Caps%2C170&sr=8-1

Scripture memory tatoos by Dwell: https://dwelldifferently.com/

Brian is joining Chris, Clayton, and Amy in the studio to explore the world of board games and why they're helpful in creating meaningful moments in the home.

They share anecdotes about their favorite family games and the dynamics that come into play during game nights, highlighting the importance of connection and communication through these meaningful moments. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the world of board games, discussing their personal favorites, the dynamics of playing games with family, and the social connections that arise from these interactions.

They explore the importance of winning and losing, the value of games in teaching life lessons, and how they can create a comfortable environment for conversation. The discussion also touches on the unique and sometimes bizarre games that people own, highlighting the fun and creativity involved in game nights.

Takeaways

• Board games foster family connections and communication.

• Different board games serve different purposes, from fun to competition.

• Family board games can create lasting memories and traditions.
• The evolution of board games has led to a vast variety of options today.

• Board games can bridge generational gaps in family settings.
• Winning and losing in games teaches valuable life lessons.
• Games create a low-pressure environment for social interaction.
• Playing games fosters vulnerability and connection among players.

• Engaging in playful activities can strengthen relationships.

Welcome back to The GoodKind Podcast! This summer, our hosts, Chris, Clayton, and Amy, are taking a few episodes to focus on practical ways to build spiritual habits in your home.

Today, they're discussing the significance of our environments and how they shape our behaviors and interactions. The conversation delves into how you can be the "architect of your environment" rather than a victim of it. Plus, how specific items in our homes can foster connection and create meaningful moments. From string lights to cozy blankets, each suggestion aims to enhance the home environment and encourage interaction.

Takeaways

• Being intentional about home design can lead to more meaningful interactions.The environment we find ourselves in shapes our behavior more than we realize.
• We can be architects of our environments to foster better interactions.
• Certain objects in our homes can invite connection and togetherness.
• The design of a space can influence the quality of conversations.

• Kids may not always pick up on social cues in different settings.
• Creating reminders in our environment can help us engage in desired activities.

• Spiritual habits can be integrated into our daily lives through our surroundings.