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THEY'RE HERE - PAUL MISCHEL - THE HARDER SHAFT PODCAST

Unidentified Anomalous Phenomena, often abbreviated as UAPs, are events or occurrences that are not readily explainable by current scientific understanding, and they lack a clear identification or known origin. These phenomena are typically associated with unusual or mysterious observations, and they have been a subject of interest and speculation, particularly in fields such as ufology (the study of unidentified flying objects) and paranormal research. 

Unexplained Aerial Objects: This category includes sightings of unidentified flying objects (UFOs) or flying anomalies that cannot be easily attributed to known aircraft, weather phenomena, or other conventional explanations. While many UFO sightings have been debunked, some remain unexplained.

Mysterious Lights and Phenomena: Reports of strange lights in the sky, glowing orbs, and other luminous anomalies that do not fit typical explanations fall into this category. Some of these lights have been associated with UFO sightings.

Crop Circles: Complex and intricate patterns that appear in agricultural fields, often overnight, are considered UAPs. While many crop circles are hoaxes, some remain unexplained in terms of their origin and creation.

It's important to note that the term "UAP" is often used in place of "UFO" to emphasize that these phenomena are unidentified but do not necessarily imply that they are extraterrestrial in origin. Many UAPs can be attributed to natural phenomena, misidentifications, hoaxes, or other terrestrial explanations.

GOP UAP Hearing

https://www.youtube.com/live/KQ7Dw-739VY?si=EVtGfwX5vtsQzeE2

News Nation's Coverage on David Grusch's Claims - https://www.newsnationnow.com/space/ufo/we-are-not-alone-the-ufo-whistleblower-speaks/

https://www.amazon.com.au/Plain-Sight-investigation-impossible-science-ebook/dp/B08VYR4DZ6

In Plain Sight by Ross Coulthardt

Paul Mischel is a Hypnotherapist, NLP Trainer, Facilitator and Executive Coach with a life long interest in human potential and development.

As part of his journey into human potential, Paul has trained in 13 different martial arts systems from Asia and Europe exploring the combative and metaphysical elements of these systems.Paul has been involved in the helping professions for over 30 years and holds numerous qualifications in natural therapies and psychodynamic processes. 

Paul and has been actively involved in the exploration of the anomalous and metaphysical since he was 16 years old and has witnessed Unidentified Anomalous Phenomena (UAP) in Australia and overseas.

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JOE BUSUTTIL

MENS COACH/ COUNSELLOR

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BEING A SPIRITUAL MAN - with co host Grant Shepherd - THE HARDER SHAFT PODCAST with. Joe-y Busuttil.

Nowadays, it’s not unusual to hear someone described as being a “spiritual person.” But if you ask people what they mean, you’ll probably hear different things.. Being a spiritual person in today's world can take on various meanings and practices, as spirituality is a deeply personal and subjective aspect of one's life. It's important to note that spirituality is not confined to any specific religion or belief system.

The spiritual man is one whose thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are under the spirit's control. Mental quietude is one of the assumed benefits of authentic spirituality. By contrast, mental distress-racing thoughts, confusion, and “disturbance to the point of agony”-may accompany spiritual errors

On this episode we explore some key aspects and principles that can help define what it means to be a spiritual person in today's world.

Co Host

Grant Shepherd:Meditation and Conscious Sexuality Teacherwww.consciouspathways.net [email protected]

Host

JOE BUSUTTIL

MENS COACH/ COUNSELLOR

[email protected]

www.equator-hypnotherapymelbourne.com

INSTAGRAM:

@the_secret_business_smb

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THE SHAFT EXPERIENCE-SEXUAL HEALTH

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ACCOUNTABILITY 101 - THE HARDER SHAFT PODCAST - Joe-y Busuttil & Adam Cox

Throughout our growth years, we’ve learned to be accountable to someone else.  As young children, we must do what our parents tell us or punishment might befall us.  As students, we must do what our teachers tell us or our grades might be affected.  As employees, we must do want our bosses tell us or our jobs might be in jeopardy.  Our understanding of being accountable for our actions is driven by our need to comply with the demands of others.  No one shows us how to be accountable to ourselves, right?

When a person takes it to be their moral obligation to be responsible for their actions, it is known as accountability. When a person is accountable for his actions, they understand that their actions have a direct effect on greater things and take it up as a responsibility to see that action achieving the greater good.

Accountability starts off in the right direction when you commit to the process from the beginning by acknowledging where you are now and being aware of the reality of your situation. When you acknowledge the truth about where you are now and how you truly feel, you then have the ability to execute the steps.

ADAM COX:the gay coach

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Adam Cox is a trainer, mentor and coach for single gay men.

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MENS COACH/ COUNSELLOR

www.equator-hypnotherapymelbourne.com

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SHAFT DYSFUNCTION - THE HARDER SHAFT PODCAST - JOEY BUSUTTIL  & LISA TORNEY

"MENS sexual dysfunction," which is a general term used to describe various difficulties that men may experience during sexual activity. Some common types of men's sexual dysfunction include:

Erectile dysfunction (ED): This is the inability to achieve or maintain an erection sufficient for sexual intercourse.

Premature ejaculation (PE): This is when a man ejaculates too quickly during sexual activity.

Delayed ejaculation (DE): This is when a man has difficulty ejaculating or cannot ejaculate during sexual activity.

Low libido: This is a reduced or lack of interest in sexual activity.

Peyronie's disease: This is a condition that causes the penis to bend or curve during an erection, which can lead to pain or difficulty during sexual activity.

These conditions can have various physical and psychological causes, and treatment options may include medication, therapy, lifestyle changes, or a combination of these approaches. It's important to talk to a healthcare provider if you are experiencing any symptoms of men's sexual dysfunction to determine the underlying cause and appropriate treatment.

LISA TORNEY:https://lisatorney.com.au/

0424 264 288

Sexual or relationship concerns can be difficult to talk about and may negatively impact on our emotional well-being. Intimate problems often do not get better on their own and sex and relationship therapy can assist you to achieve the healthy, happy sex life you’re deserve.

I have a strong commitment to working with people to improve their sexual and interpersonal relationship, help people explore ways to have more pleasurable experiences and a special interest in supporting the LGBTIQA+ community.

I have over 20 years counselling experience as a social worker prior to pursuing my Master's degree in Sexual Health Counselling at Sydney University. I have counselled people over many years in a variety of settings and have extensive experience in sexual health counselling and working with individuals, couples and people in polyamorous and open relationships. I am an Accredited Mental Health Social Worker able to offer Medicare rebates, an Accredited  Clinical Psychosexual Therapist and the Immediate Past National Chairperson of the Society of Australian Sexologists Ltd . I am committed to maintaining professional ethics and standards within the field of sexology and sexual health.

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JOE BUSUTTIL

MENS COACH/ COUNSELLOR

www.equator-hypnotherapymelbourne.com

INSTAGRAM:

@the_shaft_experience

FACEBOOK:

THE SHAFT EXPERIENCE-SEXUAL HEALTH

www.facebook.com/groups/secretmensbusiness01/

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BROS - CINEMA REVIEW - THE HARDER SHAFT PODCAST

How far we’ve come. By “we” I don’t necessarily mean all of us, but I do mean writer-director Nicholas Stoller (Bad Neighbours), a veteran of the bromance era in Hollywood comedy, when the working assumption was that nothing is funnier than straight dudes acting a little bit gay.

Stoller’s new film Bros, produced by his frequent collaborator, Judd Apatow, is a different story. This isn’t a bromance in the usual sense, nor is it focused on characters struggling with their sexuality or with declaring it to the world.

It’s simply a romantic comedy in which two gay men fall in love – and while Stoller himself identifies as heterosexual, almost the entire cast is reportedly somewhere on the LGBTQ spectrum, including the star, Billy Eichner, who collaborated with Stoller on the script.

In what sense Bros qualifies as the first of its kind is open to question, but certainly there haven’t been a lot of movies like this backed by a major Hollywood studio (Universal, in this case).

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CO HOST - LAWRENCE AKERS

LAWRENCE AKERS:RELEASE HYPNOSISwww.releasehypnosis.com.auT: 0403 821 807E: [email protected]

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THE DISTRACTION EPIDEMIC - the HARDER SHAFT podcast with Joey Busuttil &  Grant Shepherd.

In this weeks podcast episode we discuss the distractions men are currently facing, and how they can stay focused within their vision of a future they can control.

The key to magic is misdirection. Either by directing your attention toward one hand as the other hand secretly does something or by making you believe something big is happening when in reality it has nothing to do with the trick, a good magician is skilled at directing an audience’s attention where they want it to go. As an audience is distracted, the magician can do what he wants.

In magic, distraction leads to entertainment. It causes us to believe things occurred which are physically impossible. It prevents us from drawing proper conclusions and understanding the true inter workings of how things took place.

In life, distraction leads to exhaustion. It causes us to draw faulty conclusions. It tempts us to believe that certain behaviours will lead to outcomes which they certainly won’t create. It prevents us from rightly understanding cause and effect, frustrating us as we continually are thwarted from getting what we desire.

Distractions in our lives are many.

Money. It gives the appearance of bringing security, meaning, and peace, but it never does.

Power. We believe that attaining power will ensure security, but some of the most insecure people in life possess power.

Fame. It may be the currency of our day. Many kids would take fame over money. We believe if we are famous, life will be easy.

Technology. It continually screams for our attention and rewards us like a drug when we give it what it wants.

While there are many distractions in the modern world, there is one which negatively impacts us more than any other. The greatest distraction of our lives is what is going on in the lives of other people. Nothing distorts our thinking, confuses our direction, and leads us down destructive paths like our fixation on others.

When we focus on the actions, attitudes, and outcomes of others we create false conclusions, waste valuable time, and miss the opportunity to love/serve them. We can’t love those we judge. We can’t serve others when we are jealous of them.

It’s vital that we recognise the process which comes to us so naturally–fixating on others–is in fact toxic. Nothing good will come from comparing our lives to the lives of those around us. When we avoid this distraction, we are far more likely to make wise choices, better understand cause and effect, and relate with others in a healthy manner.

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HOST:

Joe Busuttil

MENS LIFE COACH/ COUNSELLOR

https://www.equator-hypnotherapymelbourne.com

INSTAGRAM:

@the_shaft_experience

FACEBOOK:

SECRET MENS BUSINESS  - the HARDER SHAFT

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Grant Shepherd:

Meditation and Conscious Sexuality Teacherwww.consciouspathways.net

 [email protected]

Auckland, New Zealand

the  ANDREW TATE effect - ep 26 - the HARDER SHAFT podcast with Joey Busuttil & Lawrence Akers.

In this weeks podcast we discuss the impact Andrew Tate has had on men's mental health. Are MEN changed forever?

Emory Andrew Tate III (born December 1, 1986) is a British-American social media personality, businessman, and former professional kickboxer.

Tate began practicing kickboxing in 2005 and gained his first championship in 2009. He attracted wider attention in 2016, when he appeared on the British reality show Big Brother and was removed after his comments on social media attracted controversy. He began offering paid courses and memberships through his website and rose to fame as an internet celebrity, promoting an "ultra-masculine, ultra-luxurious lifestyle". A self-described misogynist,Tate's controversial commentary has resulted in his suspension from several social media platforms.

On December 29, 2022, Tate and his brother, Tristan, were arrested in Romania along with two women; all four are suspected of human trafficking and forming an organized crime group. Romanian police allege that the group coerced victims into creating paid pornography for social media.

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YOUTUBE:Secret MENS Business - the HARDER Shafthttps://www.youtube.com/c/SecretMENSBusinessSMBTV

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CO HOST - LAWRENCE AKERS

LAWRENCE AKERS:RELEASE HYPNOSISwww.releasehypnosis.com.auT: 0403 821 807E: [email protected]

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25 - SEXUAL POSITIONS - THE HARDER SHAFT PODCAST  - JOEY BUSUTTIL. & LAWRENCE AKERS

When one ventures into sexual activity, it can be daunting to hear about things like the Kama Sutra and tantric sex. In reality, the basic sexual positions have a lot of advantages — otherwise, so many people wouldn’t rely on them so much. While there’s no “right way” to have sex, a little information can help you understand the pros and cons of the most common sexual positions.

Most of us have a particular sex position that we return to over and over again. But have you ever thought about why? Turns out there’s more to it than just plain laziness, familiarity or routine.

Just like life, sex should never be boring. That’s why it’s a great idea to change things up every now and then with some different positions. While missionary is a traditional favourite for a reason, sometimes it just doesn’t hit the spot for you and your partner – literally.

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HOST:

Joe Busuttil

MENS LIFE COACH/ COUNSELLOR

https://www.equator-hypnotherapymelbourne.com

INSTAGRAM:

@the_shaft_experience

FACEBOOK:

SECRET MENS BUSINESS  - the HARDER SHAFT

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YOUTUBE:

Secret MENS Business - the HARDER Shaft

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CO HOST - LAWRENCE AKERS

LAWRENCE AKERS:RELEASE HYPNOSISwww.releasehypnosis.com.auT: 0403 821 807E: [email protected]

FACEBOOK-www.facebook.com/releasehypnosis

TWITTER-www.twitter.com/Release_hypnosis

INSTAGRAM-www.instagram/releasehypnosismelbourne

DOING TIME  -  ep 24 - THE HARDER SHAFT PODCAST  - JOEY BUSUTTIL. & MARK FINDLAY

Imprisonment can hugely affect the thinking and behavior of a person and cause severe levels of depression. However, the psychological impact on each prisoner varies with the time, situation, and place. For some, the prison experience can be a frightening and depressing one, which takes many years to overcome.

Prisons are inherently traumatic places that dehumanize people in the name of security and control. Incarcerated people navigate constant surveillance, social isolation, limited personal care services, ongoing harassment, and threats of violence and abuse.

Depression was the most prevalent mental health condition reported by inmates, followed by mania, anxiety, and posttraumatic stress disorder.

Incarcerated people have virtually no control over their day-to-day lives, including when they wake up, what they eat, what their jobs are, and when they have access to recreation. This can lead to feelings of dependence and helplessness.

Prison sexuality (or prison sex or penitentiary sex) consists of sexual relationships between prisoners or between a prisoner and a prison employee or other persons to whom prisoners have access. Since prisons are usually separated by sex, most sexual activity is with a same-sex partner. Two well known exceptions to this include sex with spouses/partners during conjugal visits and sex with a prison employee of the opposite sex.

Prison sexuality is an issue that has been commonly misunderstood and misrepresented due not only to the taboo nature of the subject, but also because of a lack of research. The most common kind of sexual activity in prisons is consensual sex.

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HOST:

Joe Busuttil

MENS LIFE COACH/ COUNSELLOR

https://www.equator-hypnotherapymelbourne.com

INSTAGRAM:

@the_shaft_experience

FACEBOOK:

SECRET MENS BUSINESS  - the HARDER SHAFT

https://www.facebook.com/groups/secretmensbusiness01/

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Secret MENS Business - the HARDER Shaft

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23 - OVERCOMING SEXUAL JUDGEMENT - THE HARDER SHAFT PODCAST - JOEY BUSUTTIL. & LISA TORNEY

Many people who have not been privileged enough to receive unconditional love have an unconscious idea that there is only so much to go around. So much attractiveness, so much wealth, so much youth, so much beauty, so much achievement, and, ultimately, so much love. They have a belief in finiteness. When someone else has something, it seems like something that they are deprived of. The quantities are limited and there is no such thing as baking a bigger pie.

The pull is to see people in a rank-order, hierarchical fashion. When two people encounter one another, one is better and one is worse. You might use any metric—wealth, status, social ability—but the eating disorder will compel you to go for size, weight, and choices around food and exercise. If you aren’t the better one, watch out! You might be worse.

LISA TORNEY:https://lisatorney.com.au/

0424 264 288

Sexual or relationship concerns can be difficult to talk about and may negatively impact on our emotional well-being. Intimate problems often do not get better on their own and sex and relationship therapy can assist you to achieve the healthy, happy sex life you’re deserve.

I have a strong commitment to working with people to improve their sexual and interpersonal relationship, help people explore ways to have more pleasurable experiences and a special interest in supporting the LGBTIQA+ community.

I have over 20 years counselling experience as a social worker prior to pursuing my Master's degree in Sexual Health Counselling at Sydney University. I have counselled people over many years in a variety of settings and have extensive experience in sexual health counselling and working with individuals, couples and people in polyamorous and open relationships. I am an Accredited Mental Health Social Worker able to offer Medicare rebates, an Accredited  Clinical Psychosexual Therapist and the Immediate Past National Chairperson of the Society of Australian Sexologists Ltd . I am committed to maintaining professional ethics and standards within the field of sexology and sexual health.

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JOE BUSUTTIL

MENS COACH/ COUNSELLOR

www.equator-hypnotherapymelbourne.com

INSTAGRAM:

@the_shaft_experience

FACEBOOK:

THE SHAFT EXPERIENCE-SEXUAL HEALTH

www.facebook.com/groups/secretmensbusiness01/

the HARDER SHAFT podcast:

https://www.podomatic.com/podcasts/thesecretmensbusiness

Available on all PODCAST PLATFORMS-

iTunes

Spotify

Deezer

Google Manager

Amazom Music

Podomatic

YOUTUBE:

THE SHAFT EXPERIENCE - MENS SEXUAL HEALTH

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