WOMAN SHARE THEIR OPINION ON MEN - THE HARDER SHAFT PODCAST with Joe-y Busuttil
In today's episode we chat to women and ask them what they think of men,
Why is gender equality important?
What do Women Actually Want from a partner?
How do men Muck Up First Impressions?
How do you feel Being Called A ‘Good Girl’, 'Darling', 'Sweetie', 'Babe', etc.? Why?
What are the Double Standards woman face in their sex lives?
What do you think are some of men’s biggest insecurities?
Why do you think men care so much about physical imperfections in a woman (wrinkles, cellulite, love handles, and all that)?
Do you have any bad situations you have experienced with a man ? Advice to men ?
"At a bookstore one day, I couldn’t buy an erotic novel because there was a man at the counter.'
I SEE MAN AS A STAR, a direction, an orientation, the point of origin, and the place where all time ends.
I look upon Man as a butterfly surveying a flowerbed, tasting, testing, or as a hawk crouched in the high weeds on a roadbank glaring at automobiles speeding by. I see Man as a hummingbird, a moment’s radiance which hovers unscheduled, vanishing in half a heartbeat.
I reach for Man’s hand the same way I struggled for my father’s hand, when we used to survey laid-by fields, grown over with the brambles of blackberry groves, harboring dens of copperheads.
I look up to Man, as I did to my father, the first Man I dared to trust and to love. Men are not like him.
I care for Man, as I now care for my mother, wintering, crippled by time, tested by storm.
I see Man as all the light I lack. Life is not as bright nor fruitful without him. I see Man, seeing, strip away all his trappings of stage dressings, dismiss his barnstormings and his posturings, referee his war games.
I see Man as the child I suckle, a kitten with eyes half-opened, a fever that seizes me when midnight comes.
I see in him the best and the worst qualities of myself. In the wake of many loves, many men and two children, I see Man as an omen of tomorrow’s coming terror, a lethal disease, a disguised born enemy, a danger to ward off like a rattlesnake or a pack of mad dogs.
Like Lord Byron, the second man I dared to love, I can neither live with you nor without you.
And so I keep on, loving you, Man, even when faith and trust are rust. I go on living, looking, learning you, learning your loves, your fears, your despairs, your wild-bird heart.
I see Man as a poem to be sung, an afghan to be crocheted, an awry picture to be straightened, a field to be sown. I see Man as a secret art to be mastered, made, because I see in him all the tapestries we can weave together.
I see Man as my brother, lover, friend, parent, priest, son, sire because my Mother, the Great Mother, made him so. I do not always agree with Her, but She DOES know best.
Lastly, I see Man as the persimmon tree in the northern field sees all the young birds in spring, all the flocks of wild geese migrating south overhead, leaving me, periodically, seasonally, forever abandoning me to winter winds and snowdrifts over the running cedars, always coming back. So, apropos of Count Dracula, I see Man, and say, as the good Count said in greeting Jonathan Harker, “Welcome the traveller, speed the parting guest.”
Some day, with some Man, I am going to share Emerson: “Nothing that is good and fair grows alone.”
I see Man as a co-prisoner in an alien wasteland, because we are both more than we know and less than we could ever imagine. I see Man and would tell him what I have written, seen, been, dreamed, lived, died, reworked, prayed; but we do not speak the same language, no longer share the heart’s tongue.
So I see Man. And I go talk to the Moon.
Mariposa (Virginia Love Long)
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