I used to think imposter syndrome was just a concept to describe a reluctance to promote oneself, but apparently it’s a thing. And it turns out there’s more to it than just a reluctance to step up.
In this interview Suzanne Mercier enlightened me about how ‘insidious’ imposter syndrome is and the impact it has on us, particularly in business.
Suzanne is the founder of Purpose to Profit, a consultancy focussed on helping leaders find purpose in their work, and the author of Liberate Leadership - How the IMPOSTER SYNDROME undermines leadership capability and what to do about it. Suzanne came from a background in marketing and advertising, including being the first woman appointed to the board of George Paterson Advertising agency, before learning about the imposter syndrome in 2008. She has since made it a major focus of her work.
It’s a fascinating interview and will be of particular interest to anyone who sells or promotes their expertise, in any line of business.
What imposter syndrome is - a deep-seated belief about your own worth or value
Personal uncertainty = self doubt
How we get disconnected from our talents and our abilities
The research dates back to the 1970s
70% of people have imposter syndrome
How Suzanne’s background in advertising let her to wanting to know more about the imposter syndrome
How men and women experience imposter syndrome differently
Why ‘fake it till you make it’ isn’t an option for men
How women suffer from perfection more than men, and how it affects their work
The gap between who you are and how you show up
How we change our perception of ourselves as we grow older
The difference between men and women when applying for jobs and developing their careers
Why Suzanne walked away from a board position in a leading advertising agency
Suzanne’s transition to running her own business
How the idea of competition affected Suzanne’s performance in her own business
How we compare ourselves unfairly with others
Unconscious behaviours of experts and thought leaders as a result of imposter syndrome
Reluctance to promote and reluctance to claim the title of an expert or thought leader
Minimum Viable Product - your path to avoid perfection
Perfection is a symptom of imposter syndrome
The impact of nature and nurture on how we present in the world
How we take things more personally than we need to
The impact of criticism and labelling in our youth
The early warning signs of imposter syndrome - it’s hard to see
Suzanne’s public demonstration of imposter syndrome
How to detect when your inner dialogue is fuelling imposter syndrome
Your emotions are an important clue
Pay attention to how you speak to yourself
Procrastination vs publication
Fear of judgement and rejection
What to do when you detect you have imposter syndrome
A hack isn’t the ideal solution
Coping behaviours don’t serve you either
Connecting fears with beliefs
Claiming your strengths and successes
A daily process to assist with this
Finding your purpose to help overcome your insecurities
Changing your vibration or state
356grateful.com
How to work with Suzanne
Imposter syndrome and the ego
The state of low self esteem vs the trait of low self esteem
Suzanne Mercier Useful Links:
Suzanne Mercier on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/suzannemercier/
365grateful.com - http://365grateful.com/
Purpose to Profit - https://purposetoprofit.com.au/
Imposter Syndrome Quiz - https://imposterhood.com/imposterhood-quiz
Suzanne’s book - Liberate Leadership - How the IMPOSTER SYNDROME undermines leadership capability and what to do about it
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