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The Importance of Visibility An Interview with Chris Tompkins


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In this interview, author, advocate, and therapist Chris Tompkins shares his personal journey of self-discovery as a gay man raised in a religious environment. He discusses the challenges of reconciling his identity with his faith, the impact of religious trauma, and the importance of awareness in parenting to support LGBTQ+ children. Chris talks about why he wrote his book, “Raising LGBTQ Allies,” and emphasizes the need for open conversations and practical strategies for parents to create a supportive environment for their kids, ultimately leading to a more inclusive society.

 

Takeaways

  • Chris was raised in a religious family with conflicting beliefs.
  • He experienced religious trauma and internalized homophobia.
  • His coming out journey was deeply intertwined with love and acceptance.
  • Chris emphasizes the importance of awareness in parenting.
  • Parents can inadvertently perpetuate fear-based associations.
  • Books and open conversations can help educate children.
  • Creating safe spaces for discussions is crucial.
  • Understanding societal messages is key to supporting LGBTQ+ kids.
  • Chris’s book aims to help parents change harmful narratives.
  • Healing from religious trauma is a journey that requires introspection.
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    Chapters

    (02:40) Chris’s Journey of Self-Discovery

    (10:13) Reconnecting with Faith and Spirituality

    (16:32) Understanding Religious Trauma

    (22:30) The Importance of Awareness in Parenting

    (27:54) Supporting LGBTQ+ Kids: Practical Strategies

    (35:00) Conclusion and Resources

     

    Resources:

    • Learn more at https://www.aroadtriptolove.com/
    • Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent’s Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground by Chris Tompkins
    • Join the Sanctuary Collective Community
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