The Keys and Anklets Podcast

Whenever I get a chance to talk to couples in this lifestyle, one of the things that I enjoy hearing about is how they first met. Over the years I have heard a wide variety of scenarios but none quite like how Cindy and her husband Pat got together.It’s like something out of an 80s romantic comedy (you will see what I mean when you hear it). Theirs is a dynamic that has burned pretty hot since the beginning and it was no surprise that they found themselves in the hotwife space. That’s not to say they haven’t had their bumps in the road as you will hear them go into detail about. An important takeaway is Cindy realizing the power and responsibility that comes with being a sexually empowered woman in a hotwife marriage. This episode will have you chuckling as well as thinking.

In this episode I discuss a forum post I came across on Fetlife. The OP asked if other couples had dealt with guys who had little understanding of the cuckold dynamic. I just wanted to bring my point of view and give people something to think about. If you are a cuckold couple or a Bull wanting to learn more then you will find this episode highly informative.

Abigail and Dustin have the type of story that I hope to hear more often as this lifestyle continues to grow. One person knowing that this lifestyle was what they wanted and the other person not even knowing that this lifestyle was a thing. Listen as she talks about the doubt that she felt about him being serious about wanting to be in this lifestyle with her and how she finally came around to understanding that he was indeed serious. The thing that I really enjoyed about talking to her is her overall enthusiasm for her relationship and this lifestyle. You can tell that it all means a great deal to her. I’m definitely rooting for this couple and I look forward to having them back.

May 2018 is when I first launched the Keys and Anklets Podcast and it’s been quite a journey. Normally I’ve done something more celebratory, like have a Q and A with a guest host. This time I wanted to do something different. I wanted to just have a conversation with my listeners about what these past 5 years have been like for me. It’s not hyperbole to say that hosting the podcast has changed my life. Thank you all for the past 5 years and I look forward to bringing you more in the future.

Wendy and Judd are a very unique couple within this lifestyle. What makes them unique is that EVERYONE they know knows that they are in the lifestyle (except their kids). This made for some very interesting conversations between us. Take a listen and see how being so forthcoming about their situation has affected their relationships with family and friends. I believe that there are people out there who will be inspired to make a similar change in their own lives just as I’m sure there are some of you out there who say, “I could never”. Whichever side you are on, I’m sure you will enjoy this one.

Suzanne and Dirk are a stag/vixen couple that I’ve been wanting to have on for quite some time. I was finally able to set something up during my last splash event and they were definitely worth the wait. I love talking to husbands who are able to articulate exactly what they were feeling and struggling with during their journey. I know that there are many husbands out there with similar struggles and hearing how someone is able to process his thoughts and feelings is something that can truly help others. Theirs is a story of jumping in pretty blindly and figuring it out as it goes along. This couple really opens up and lets you inside of their particular dynamic.

I was recently at splash mocha in Atlanta and I got to do something that I haven’t done before. I did a China Shop episode with 2 fellas at the same time, Mike and Craig. These are 2 guys that I have known for some time and it was really cool to hear their different responses to the questions I posed to them simultaneously. It was definitely a nice change of pace from the way I normally conduct my China Shop episodes.. There are moments of laughter as well as being introspective. This was a lot of fun to do and I hope all you enjoy it as well.

This is a topic that I’ve been wanting to discuss but for some reason it has always remained on the back burner. Thanks to a recent conversation I had with a cuckoldress, it was finally brought to the forefront. I’ve had 100’s of conversations over the years with husbands who struggle with the idea of being a cuckold and how these struggles affect their wives. My hope is that this episode sparks a discussion between couples and provides them with the tools to work through and overcome these struggles. The last thing I want to see is another couple crumble under the weight of these issues. 

Side note…..if you are a couple who has personally dealt with these issues, I’d love to hear from you.

My brother Mr. Mocha of Ofacez Podcast invited me on to discuss the topic of how guys and couples can get out of their own way and get together. Sometimes it can be a little difficult for people to go from the small talk phase to actually getting physical with one another. With this in mind Mr. Mocha and I have tried to offer some real world advice that can be helpful to both couples and single men.

As many of you know, Demitri is one of my closest friends and it’s always a pleasure having him sit down at the mic with me. It’s rare that he and I get to kick it solo on the podcast so when he told me that he wanted to come back and speak on a few things I was more than happy to have him. So in this episode we just catch up as I bring my listeners up to speed on what makes my brother tick, what Splash Mocha means to him and what types of ladies catch his attention. So sit back, listen and enjoy.