The Kinky Tavern

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen Vydra were honored to virtually sit down with esteemed guest, Lee Harrington (he/him) who is described as an “internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience.” Our conversation touched on issues of privilege in kink, working your reality into your fantasy, language around sexuality and kink, and so much more! Please tune in to hear our AMAZING discussion with Lee Harrington!

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This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen Vydra discuss Flagging!!  Have you ever heard of the Hanky Code? Flagging in the context of kink, also known as the Hanky Code, has a rich history and is a leather culture tradition alive and well today!  Learn about where it started, how it evolved, what the different colors mean, what’s going on with it today?  Find out all this and more by listening to this episode of The Kinky Tavern!

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Please join our Discord!  It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever!  You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr have a conversation about protocol and honorifics in the BDSM community! What is a protocol? Why do people have them? What do the “levels” of protocol mean? What’s the difference between a role or label and an honorific? Should everyone coming into the community have to use your honorifics to refer to you? Find out all this and more by listening to this episode of The Kinky Tavern!

Documents discussed:

Gynecologists who will perform a tubal sterilization

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If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord!  It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever!  You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

TW: It’s no secret that society has very rarely been kind to queer people. In this episode, there will be mentions of laws, violence, discrimination, etc against people of the non-cis-het varieties. We will not be graphic, but we also don’t want to censor the history of our queer ancestors. In addition, we did our best to include as much as we could find in this timeline, but I’m sure that there are so many monumental events that were missed. Please forgive us for this and if there is something you wish to be mentioned, reach out to us and we will see what we can do!

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about some Queer History in the Kinky Tavern’s mini-series “Queer History!”  We started our research for this portion of Queer History at the beginning of the “new world,” America and plan to cover up til the most recent events. Of course, so many of the timelines found are very ethnocentric to America and there’s not a wealth of easily found information for other areas of the world, though we do plan to dig them up to share with you as we continue this series! So, our story begins (in this episode) with the 1980s with Castro District’s influence on gay culture! We cover the beginning of the AIDS epidemic, activism, art, philanthropy, research, and more! This era shows a lot of progress and backsliding in legislation that continues today.

Documents discussed:

Gynecologists who will perform a tubal sterilization

BDSM/Kink Resources and Media

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

https://twitter.com/PuppScruff

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https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/barkagainst/barkagainst-pin-badges

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!

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If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord!  It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever!  You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are joined by the incomparable BiDaily (she/they), host of Off the Cuffs: A Kink and BDSM Podcast and a very popular one at that! Gwen loves to share her experiences and knowledge, especially on her evolution from Evangelical Christian Good Girl™ to the kinky, outgoing sex working baddie they are today! In our time together, we discuss lots of things from gross play to long distance D/S!

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Documents discussed:

Gynecologists who will perform a tubal sterilization

BDSM/Kink Resources and Media

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

https://twitter.com/PuppScruff

https://twitter.com/search?q=%23BarkAgainst&src=hashtag_click

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/barkagainst/barkagainst-pin-badges

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!

https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord!  It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever!  You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about some Queer History in the Kinky Tavern’s mini-series “Queer History!”  We started our research for this portion of Queer History at the beginning of the “new world,” America and plan to cover up til the most recent events. Of course, so many of the timelines found are very ethnocentric to America and there’s not a wealth of easily found information for other areas of the world, though we do plan to dig them up to share with you as we continue this series! So, our story begins (in this episode) with the sexy sixties!  We talk about the times of the Vietnam War, the second wave of feminism in America, the Stonewall riots, and more!  Through the salacious seventies, we cover the beginning of Pride parades, Roe v Wade, “Save the Children” and several other topics including brief spotlights on several activists, authors, and other important people in the movement toward equal human rights.

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

https://twitter.com/PuppScruff

https://twitter.com/search?q=%23BarkAgainst&src=hashtag_click

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/barkagainst/barkagainst-pin-badges

A Big Thank You to our Patrons:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!

https://linktr.ee/TheKinkyTavern

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord!  It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever!  You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!