This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen discuss the expectations of both leaders and members in the kink community. What are the responsibilities that each role holds? What makes a leader? Should leaders be held to a certain standard? What might those standards be? Join us for our examination of this topic!

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TRIGGER WARNING:  In this episode we are talking about our own religious experiences including trauma, deconstruction, healing, etc. Of course, we are speaking only of our own experiences; we are not speaking of all Christians or all religions. If this kind of content will trigger you or upset you, please go ahead and come back next week for a talk on leadership and the expectations and responsibilities thereof. In addition, I wanted to clarify that we mention “Jesus Freaks,” and to avoid any misconstrued notions, we are talking about a book that a lot of young Christians are encouraged to read about martyrdom for your faith; we are not insulting anyone.

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down with some of our favorite guests, Phrygian_Monk(they/them) and Moxie Minion(she/her). Both of these lovely humans are BDSM practitioners and educators, presenting in person, online, and specifically on Tiktok for the kink and leather community! In this episode, we’ve invited them to sit with us and talk about our religious experiences, the trauma caused by our time in those realms, our deconstruction of faith and harmful ideas, and how it’s influenced our current kink life! The conversation gets deep, but it’s not entirely depressing! We know how to have a little fun! And as always, we end with The Daddy Joke™!

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This week Rekkr and Mx. Dizzy talk about Auralism and what all entails with this kink. We apologize for this episode being so short this week we simply couldn't find much on the subject. We discuss different ways you can explore Auralism and other things to think about when dealing with this kink. 

This week, Mx. Dizzy is back on the mic with Lord Allen and Pup Rekkr as they discuss Pet Peeves and Pawsitive Perceptions of the Kink Community at Large. Join us for a sensual episode 69 as we talk about things that rub us the wrong way in the community and why! We’re spillin that spicy tea!

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This week, while Mx. Dizzy has abandoned their chaotic pups to go on vacation, the two conspire for an episode on one of their favorite subjects: Pupspace! Listen in this week as Rekkr and Allen sit down for a casual conversation about pup space, the difference between queer, gay, and straight spaces in kink, and so much more! Our favorite pups really dug deep into some of their “why”s and experiences when it comes to pupping.

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This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down and talk more in depth on furries as well as therians and otherkin.

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down with the polycule’s own furry friend and Allen’s partner, Roskoe(he/him)! With coming up on 2 decades in the furry fandom, Roskoe has been to several conventions, interacted with the furry community online in several capacities, and is himself a well-known and highly esteemed member. We are privileged to be able to have this conversation with him on our podcast and are so thankful for the conversations on conventions, misconceptions, and the general vibe of the furry community!

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This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr continue their discussion on Dungeons and Parties!  How do you navigate a dungeon space? What kinds of rules can you expect? What does etiquette look like? Using the years of experience we’ve each had in parties of a variety of types, the tw0 of us go over the basics of dungeon etiquette.

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This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen discuss Dungeons and Parties!  What are they? What kinds of events are held? How do you navigate a dungeon space? Can you vet a dungeon or a group? What kinds of rules can you expect? What does etiquette look like? Are private parties different from dungeon parties? Using the years of experience we’ve each had in parties of a variety of types, the three of us go over the basics of dungeon and private parties.

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This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen were allowed the honor and privilege to sit down with Lulu aka tbhimababysub on TikTok! She has been documenting and educating as she’s learned since she started her journey in the kink lifestyle in 2020. While there are a myriad of topics we could cover with this lovely lady, we focused for this episode on self collaring. Before becoming collared by her current Dominant, she was, and still is, self collared. Find out what that means, what it can mean, what the discourse is, and more in this fabulous episode!

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