This week, we are releasing part 2 of Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen’s conversation with Lady Veronika Kestrel aka Auntie V from Episode 80! Lady Veronika Kestrel is a Pro Dominatrix, kink educator, and creator of Kestrel Industries, a really fun community based on a “collaborative art project and fictional universe in which people turn others into dolls…consensually of course!” With 15 years in the lifestyle, Lady Veronika has climbed the social and professional ladder of kink, especially at the Sanctuary, the dungeon in LA where she has worked as a professional submissive, switch, and Dominatrix, giving her “an uncommon insight into the full spectrum of sensation and desire.” In this episode, we talk about a myriad of topics, including consent, relationships, stuffies, inclusivity, and so much more! Join us to learn more about Lady Veronika Kestrel in what is hopefully one of many wonderful opportunities to have her on our podcast! 

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This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down with producer of Colorado Leather Fest, slave xiaoyi and Ma’am Gaire, the Social Media Director of the conference! Colorado Leather Fest was founded in 2015 and is a weekend event “honoring past, current, and future titleholders in a variety of paths” and “building community, having fun, laughing, crying, sharing, learning, and understanding.” There are contests, presenters, classes, vendors, demos, and peak socialization available for kinksters from whatever side of the slash (or not) or wherever they come from! While there are classes and demos on BDSM play skills and techniques, the focus of CLF is on “Leather/BDSM history and culture, a variety of relationship styles and the issues associated with them, and service skills found in Leather and M/s or D/s relationships and culture.” The hosts of The Kinky Tavern will be attending CLF the weekend of May 5th to volunteer, learn, discuss, socialize, network, and just vibe with other kinky people and people of leather! Join us if you can! There are still volunteer spots available!

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down with our friend Master Devyn Stone! In this episode, we discuss his no way out dynamic with his property, Guan Xuan and how that dynamic works for them. We also discuss THRIVE and Pragmatically Kinking. Devyn is the founder of Pragmatically Kinking, a group which utilizes classes, discussion, and other types of education to “discuss the practical and emotional side of the BDSM/Kink/Leather/Nonmonogamy lifestyle.” They post several virtual events every month available to anyone with the desire to learn! PK also hosts THRIVE, “an amazing free 3 days of virtual classes focused on mental health in for BDSM/Kink and Leather folx” taking place April 28th - 30th, 2023. There is so much to learn in this episode! Thank you, once again, Sir, for your amazing insight and thoughts. 

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This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down with Master Dennis and slave xiaoyi to talk about the Crossroads Annex of the Carter Johnson Library and Collection! If you’ve never heard about the Carter Johnson Library and Collection, you’re in for one hell of a treat! This first half of the interview will cover who Master Dennis and slave xiaoyi are and how they came to work with CJLC. The second part, next week, will contain a wealth of information about Carter Johnson Library and Collection as well as suggestions to add to your reading/following/listening/watching lists!

Kinky Social Opportunity: In our Discord server(https://tr.ee/AQzGuhdsrY), we are hosting a monthly Free Fur All Q&A Social Session (the last Sunday of the month at 6:00 pm CST, donations appreciated but not required) as well as a monthly class with rotating and guest educators!

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This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down with Master Dennis and slave xiaoyi to talk about the Crossroads Annex of the Carter Johnson Library and Collection! If you’ve never heard about the Carter Johnson Library and Collection, you’re in for one hell of a treat! This first half of the interview will cover who Master Dennis and slave xiaoyi are and how they came to work with CJLC. The second part, next week, will contain a wealth of information about Carter Johnson Library and Collection as well as suggestions to add to your reading/following/listening/watching lists!

Kinky Social Opportunity: In our Discord server(https://tr.ee/AQzGuhdsrY), we are hosting a monthly Free Fur All Q&A Social Session (the last Sunday of the month at 6:00 pm CST, donations appreciated but not required) as well as a monthly class with rotating and guest educators!

Join our Discord server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities!

Guest Links and links mentioned in the episode:

Support the podcast! New audio equipment is something both of our studios need!

Support Allen with the continuing costs of their wreck:

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

A Big Thank You to our Patron:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen spill the tea on tea service in kink and bdsm! Where did it come from? Why would people include it in their dynamics and play? How does it fit into the rest of the world of kink? Learn the basics with us in this first episode of what I’m sure will become many on Tea Service!

Kinky Social Opportunity: In our Discord server(https://tr.ee/AQzGuhdsrY), we are hosting a monthly Free Fur All Q&A Social Session (the last Sunday of the month at 6:00 pm CST, donations appreciated but not required) as well as a monthly class with rotating and guest educators!

Education Opportunity: 

Caring for Your Disabled Partner - Class Presented by Rekkr (https://fetlife.com/events/1257113) 

Mar 12, 2023 | 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM CST

FREE! donations appreciated but not required

Join our Discord server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities!

Support the podcast! New audio equipment is something both of our studios need!

Support Allen with the continuing costs of their wreck:

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

A Big Thank You to our Patron:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

Trigger Warning: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering abuse and domestic violence situations. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us next week for an episode with our friend Devyn Stone! If you are experiencing a domestic violence emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with domestic violence please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at: 1-800-799-SAFE or 1-800-787-3224

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen tackle the very serious topic of the intersection of abuse and BDSM/kink. There is no denying that there have been and will continue to be people who disguise abuse as BDSM or who try to escape abuse allegations by claiming it’s kink. How can you tell the difference? What can you do about it anyway? What if you’re in a sketchy situation? Join us as we discuss these questions and so much more.

Kinky Social Opportunity: In our Discord server(https://tr.ee/AQzGuhdsrY), we are hosting a monthly Free Fur All Q&A Social Session (the last Sunday of the month at 6:00 pm CST, donations appreciated but not required) as well as a monthly class with rotating and guest educators!

Education Opportunity: Caring for Your Disabled Partner - Class Presented by Rekkr (https://fetlife.com/events/1257113) 

Join our Discord server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities!

Guest Links and links mentioned in the episode:

Support the podcast! New audio equipment is something both of our studios need!

Support Allen with the continuing costs of their wreck:

Support our friend Magic:

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

A Big Thank You to our Patron:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

Episode Summary:

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen get down with the Discourse and Disorder of Safewords. What are they? Are they always effective? Are there options other than the traditional safeword? In this episode, we talk about how to keep yourself safe using safewords AND plain language in-scene and in dynamics!

Kinky Social Opportunity: In our Discord server(https://tr.ee/AQzGuhdsrY), we are hosting a monthly Free Fur All Q&A Social Session (the last Sunday of the month at 6:00 pm CST, donations appreciated but not required) as well as a monthly class with rotating and guest educators!

Education Opportunity:

Caring for Your Disabled Partner - Class Presented by Rekkr (https://fetlife.com/events/1257113)

Mar 12, 2023 | 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM CST

FREE! donations appreciated but not required

Join our Discord server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities!

Support the podcast! New audio equipment is something both of our studios need!

Support Allen with the continuing costs of their wreck:

Other Resources:

Check out Scruff Pup’s #BarkAgainst campaign!

A Big Thank You to our Patron:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about sensation play! Sensation play is an umbrella term which also includes sensory deprivation. These types of play can be used to torture, titilate, tease, and more! Tune in to hear more information on what kinds of sensation play you can partake in and examples of how to do so.

Thank you for your questions:

Kinky Social Opportunity: In our Discord server(https://tr.ee/AQzGuhdsrY), we are hosting a monthly Free Fur All Q&A Social Session (the last Sunday of the month at 6:00 pm CST, donations appreciated but not required) as well as a monthly class with rotating and guest educators!

Education Opportunity:

Caring for Your Disabled Partner (https://fetlife.com/events/1257113)

Mar 12, 2023 | 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM CST

FREE! donations appreciated but not required

Join our Discord server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities!

Support the podcast! New audio equipment is something both of our studios need!

Support Allen with the continuing costs of their wreck:

Support our friend Magic:

Other Resources:

A Big Thank You to our Patron:

Check out The Kinky Tavern’s socials and more!!

If you have any questions about the kink or BDSM community, please send it to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous.

Please join our Discord! It’s a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us!